wrongnumber:


I was watching a talk show on tvc this morning and a marriage councilor talked about an igbo lady that cried to him saying her dad wants a millon naira for her bride price.

She further said her dad should even give her free to the guy because she has aborted 3 times gor the guy and she will be the one to lose should the guy leaves.

I pity igbo ladies.I honestly do.

Dragonking:


This is what most of them want. They are all waiting for a super rich guy that wikk spend heavily to satisfy that ever money hungry needs. Naija women, change ur ways!!!!

Gurgle:


Have you seen me anywhere before

I have reason to be awake

Is something keeping you up late

jnrbayano:
You were making sense until no 2.

"Igbos" are not expensive. The bride price paid to the bride's family is returned to the man in a 9 out of 10 situation (the bride price paid in the head of each of my 3 sisters were returned)

Gurgle:


I'm really glad I didn't reply your PM

wrongnumber:


You deserve a cookie. So on poinr.

Many of them will not take a second look at a conductor yet they will be fasting and praying for husband.

Don jazzy was once a buns fryer

Happiness87:
hahaha, sweetie sup

Gurgle:


Lol good morning

how are you

Happiness87:
good morning Sista, am fine, how was your night?

Gurgle:


yeah it was ok. got a stomach ache from eating late though

how was yours

Happiness87:
awww, sorry dear,
mine was ok, though cold,

try and get fruits and drink enough water, it could help.

Omotayor123:
Hmm.. My main man

So on point.. You talk wisdom.

Gurgle:
And by the way, all those people saying that marriage is not compulsory, not by force, not a must, please stop deceiving yourselves or looking for who to deceive, of course it is

Are you telling me that a woman/man who stays single throughout life in Nigeria will be respected as much as somebody who is married?

People have even been overlooked for political posts because they have not married on time. Can you imagine that

I knew I was going to get annoyed, that's why I was avoiding this thread

Why are people posting nonsense? Is it to resemble the West or what

Gurgle:


Yeah I was cold too

yeah I have some water. I carried some fruit with me but it got crushed in my bag, hmm

ronald4lif:
There are potential husbands everywhere and when they're ready to get married they will. They keep waiting for ready-made guys whose heart belong somewhere else, prolly to a loyal lady who stood by them through thick and thin.

Except if they want to tell us those bus drivers, conductors, unemployed graduates and those earning less than 50K a month aren't good enough. Then they can as well mould a Dangote and Tony Elumelu replica for themselves.

AreaFada2:
Well, any attempt to comment on women issues as we men see & experience them is seen as bashing women. Feminazis take it as men saying they are perfect.
But there are pertinent questions. I have female friends I love dearly. They actually cannot find "decent" men as they claim.
However, when we discuss, the decent men almost have to have angelic qualities to qualify. Of course in addition to affluence otherwise undertated as " a comfortable guy".

I drill it into their heads that such men don't exist. That yours truly doesn't even meet 50% of those criteria. And yet you girls consider me a good husband material. That I was taken NOT because I'm great, but by someone who saw potential & was ready to grow and progress with me.

They say they don't want to settle for less.

I have this friend in her mid 30s now. Her wish list for a man is out of this world. As pretty and sweet as she is, I have told her the truth. She cannot reciprocate a guy with those qualities in a million years.

She has been impatient, unreasonabe and arrogant towards her last bf. He has now quietly withdrawn. She's missing an opportunity in my opinion. Now she's chasing another guy that doesn't appear interested in her. Another self-induced heartache ahead.

Already, she's getting quite depressed about things easily. Parents now asking when she will marry and have kids. Regrets about abortions and others now surfacing.
Now, with such emotional baggage & wish list, the chances of a serious guy staying with her are not great.

I have even backtracked from introducing a good friend to her. Until she sorts herself out and face reality.

tonychristopher:


DON'T MIND THOSE OYIBO WANNABE

EVEN IN WEST WHICH I HAVE BEEN THEY ACCORD RESPECT TO MARRIED COUPLES


IT GIVES THEM SENSE OF RRSPONSIBILITY

sinaj:


thak you

Happiness87:
the cold was not funny o o, hugging pillows, na way forward

if its spoilt, can you get another one where you are going?

vickylala239:



So u Dnt understand Wat she meant.

Cuz is like u Dnt get,

It is a new code Dat gels use on gels,to knw if u r among dem or if u decode.

Bt u didn't,rather u thanked ha.

She is trying to tell u Dat she is a lesbian,Weda u are one too.

Actually she s interested in you.

Sowi I Hv xposed ha.I knw she will try to cover ha track by denying.

Bt Nw u knw.

Gurgle:


Corrected* You look beautiful in your profile picture

cc: tunnamania11

wrongnumber:


I smell a rat. Woman admiring woman.

wrongnumber:


I was watching a talk show on tvc this morning and a marriage councilor talked about an igbo lady that cried to him saying her dad wants a millon naira for her bride price.

She further said her dad should even give her free to the guy because she has aborted 3 times gor the guy and she will be the one to lose should the guy leaves.

I pity igbo ladies.I honestly do.

naijaboiy:

Damn!

A typical example of what I was talking about.

Cc: Lalasticlala.