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Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by folaolu84(f): 4:42pm On Aug 12, 2015 |
Madam would advice not to beat him but seat him down and talk to him about sex education. the advantages and demerits of it. taking him out of sckl or reporting him won't solve anything but rather increases his curiosity. my parents wen I got to the age of 12 sat myself and brother down, showed us condom and the use of it. and wen further to tell us at the end of the lecture if any of us comes and put the families name to shame will be disowned and so did all the parents from my family. u have no where to run.... |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by AriDsexy(f): 6:15pm On Aug 12, 2015 |
cococandy: Read this comment and doublechecked to be sure u really typed this. Disappointed!! |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by AriDsexy(f): 6:18pm On Aug 12, 2015 |
dinachi: Thank u...This ur comment really surprised me o,coming from oga Dinachi. |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by malikisah: 6:53pm On Aug 12, 2015 |
My sister, yu need to handle this with wisdom. Yu need to exploit his plead of not letting his father know to keep him in check since he is scared of that. My wife caught our son doing same at age 14 (he is now 16) he confess ed a schoolate led him into it and pleaded with the mum not to let me know I still don't know as far as our son is concerned so my wife uses that as their little secret which will be revealed if there is a repeat. We constantly discuss about ways to monitor, handle and counsel him but the threat of my finding out is keeping him in check. Summary is don't play all your jokers with him. . And pray for him.. It is a sign of our time; easy access to all that is bad Whatever yu do? Do not humiliate or push h to start hiding things from yu. Let him know yu have his best interest as his mother cos yu carried him in your stomach for nine months at the expense of your life |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by Nobody: 7:16pm On Aug 12, 2015 |
Mikollon1: Yes sir! |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by KelvinC1(m): 7:47pm On Aug 12, 2015 |
ConfessionsNgr: 1st he should be FLOGGED 2nd he should be taken for counselling 3rd, as a good mum make sure you tell the dad 4th, go to the school and also make sure the boy who showed him how to watch porn is reported to the school authority and to the parent too 5th, teach them how to pray 6th above all.. COACH THEM THAT GOD hates such act.. Cos id they get addicted.. self-servicing start ringing in their head always and isolation starts.. |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by KelvinC1(m): 7:49pm On Aug 12, 2015 |
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Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by Fredzy7(m): 10:52pm On Aug 12, 2015 |
Obviously none of you know how teenagers think the mum shouldn't beat him or maybe she should but she shouldn't humiliate or scare him into hiding things from her as mentioned by malikisa, she should make him trust her with anything, you bashed him because you were angry not because you were correcting him, what would you prefer, a son that could tell you he wanted to have sex but wanted advice from you or the one dat just goes out and get a girl pregnant, you probably want none of them but beating him will get you the latter. BTW watching porn doesn't destroy his life, who said that. |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by baloney: 4:13am On Aug 13, 2015 |
better change his schl |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by hvq229(m): 6:10am On Aug 13, 2015 |
baloney: My wife tells me our oldest girl tells her the boy she's been opening her legs for is heavily into porn. I said to her that's a good reason we flogged her and why she's not going to the same university as the boy This boy got spanked and another boy led him into it-- sending him to a different school is a good idea |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by shewenolu: 9:46am On Aug 13, 2015 |
you need to inform the dad about this development and both of you should seat him down and educate him on issues of sex and the word of God Is a good thing you got to know early,if possible put some restrictions on his laptop as in block access to some sites.it is well |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by Nobody: 5:36pm On Aug 15, 2015 |
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Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by zynzyn(m): 6:25am On Oct 01, 2015 |
ConfessionsNgr: Your first failure is assuming he would not be interested in sex AT AGE 14?! NOT 8, NOT EVEN 10! Nigerian parents sef! At what age did u as a parent start getting curious about sex?, when u were 25 abi? Largely Parental failure to take the bull by the horn and taking the initiative in informing their kids about the realities of sex inclusive the dangers of pornography and premarital sex!! |
Re: I Caught My 14-year-old Son Watching Porn.. by zynzyn(m): 6:30am On Oct 01, 2015 |
KelvinC1: The kids need help. Not humiliation!! Sadly parents and adults who were no saints in their youth want to play holier than thou! |
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