Bibidear:
Try talking to him abt sex and the harmful aspect

do you think she can scare the guy about sex? The boy is watching the porn, masturbating and he is enjoying it, so there is nothing she can do to stop him, rather he will be doing it in secret. Allow the sleeping dog to lie

Allow your kids to have sex when they are 5 yes old since you clearly support evil.

zinachidi:
free the lil guy na.. Nawah,, pesin dey enjoy himself abeg...

That is why it is advised that parents starts 2discuss sex education with their ward at an early stage.
Most parents shy away from these, which isn't the best, if you don't tell them, their friends will. I rmber as a child I first got to knw abt menses from a frnd, but cos I was naive I didn't belief and told her there was notin of such. The kids of 2day are smarter, don't be surprised he might have even started practising n may put ur neighbour's daughter in a family way.

lagmostkuit:

Yeah, true..


It'll be right if they don't hide anyfin bout sex 4rm him!

for God sake 14yrs is not 14months, the guy know virtually everything about sex, besides i believed you had a little knowledge when you were 10yr talkless of 14

do u tink changing his skul wld do Anytin? d best u cn do nw is to giv hm sex education. cus he cant stop nw once he has started. I started doin bad tinz at a younger age.

boban007:
U ABSOLUTELY DID THE RIGHT THING BY BEATING HIM.THAT WAY HE WILL REALISE HOW BAD AND DESTRUCTIVE WATCHING PORNOGRAPHY CAN BE.ASIDES THE FACT THAT ITS ADDICTIVE,ITS ALSO DEVILISH AND IF NOT WELL MANAGED,IT CAN DESTROY THE BOY.PLEASE DONT HESITATE TO TELL THE FATHER SO THAT BOTH OF U CAN SCOLD HIM AND ALSO TUTOR HIM ON THE NEGATIVE EFFECTS OF PORN MOVIES.MY FRIENDS WIFE CAUGHT HER TEN YEARS OLD DAUGHTER WATCHING PORNOGRAPHY AND SHE FAINTED.UNFORTUNATELY THE WIFE'S YOUNGER SISTER CAUGHT THE GIRL LIKE 6 MONTHS EARLIER,BUT THE LITTLE GIRL BEGGED HER NOT TO TELL HER PARENTS.WHEN THE MUM CAUGHT HER,
THE YOUNGER SISTER OPENED UP TO CATCHING HER EARLIER.THE HUSBAND WAS MAD AND STOP TALKING TO THE WIFE'S YOUNGER SISTER(NOW ENEMIES FOR NOT TELLING THEM THE FIRST TIME).WHILE THE LITTLE GIRL AFTER SERIOUS BEATING,DRILLING,QUESTIONS AND ANSWER SESSIONS WAS TAKING TO PASTOR FOR COUNSELLING.

n do u tink it wld end der?

Such is not unusual. Around that age, kids tend to act on their curiosity.

Scold and lecture him about the pros and cons our his actions. But don't be excessive with the scolding part.
It is a natural process. IT IS CALLED GROWING UP in the real world.

ConfessionsNgr:
What could have made my teenage son interested in sex at his age when he should be serious with his studies? He is 14-years-old and in SS1. This is a boy brought up in a good Christian home. Maybe the mistake was the laptop his dad bought for him. We had thought it will aid him in his studies but he is using it for something that could destroy his future. I’m so sad about it. That night, I was hearing some sound from his room around 11PM and I could understand what it meant. So I tip-toed to his room and saw him engrossed in the porn movies he was watching. I was so furious; I beat him and seized his laptop. I later got to know he was introduced to porn by a class-mate of his. I told him I’m changing his school . [s] He has been begging me not to tell his dad [/s] when he returns from his trip but I feel his father should be aware of the whole thing. Parents out there, how can I check this situation?


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Confusion

Very Bad... Pls inform his Parents

its not a new thing. As far as ur son have access to the internet.

their is nothing you can do...your son is infected,resident evil-style....tell your husband...i dont see more you can do.......people dont say "end times" out of fun.....this issssssssssss the endtimes....

[quotequotewhile will you not tell his dad? If you do not you are encouraging him to go ahead and one day he will come and convince your children to watch it. And make sure the dad changed his school, cos if he continues same friends will lure him to it again
Thanx.
author=ConfessionsNgr post=36813625]What could have made my teenage son interested in sex at his age when he should be serious with his studies? He is 14-years-old and in SS1. This is a boy brought up in a good Christian home. Maybe the mistake was the laptop his dad bought for him. We had thought it will aid him in his studies but he is using it for something that could destroy his future. I’m so sad about it. That night, I was hearing some sound from his room around 11PM and I could understand what it meant. So I tip-toed to his room and saw him engrossed in the porn movies he was watching. I was so furious; I beat him and seized his laptop. I later got to know he was introduced to porn by a class-mate of his. I told him I’m changing his school. He has been begging me not to tell his dad when he returns from his trip but I feel his father should be aware of the whole thing. Parents out there, how can I check this situation?


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HenryDion:
How is buying the little lad a laptop help in his studies? There are tons of textbooks, dictionaries and pedias to buy for him. In fact, i don't even support buying a secondary school dude a multimedia phone. If u feel like u need to be in contact with him. Buy Nokia touch. Believe me, kids don't need friends to negatively influence them cause the internet has taken the couch. Spend more time with him, be his friend, tell him to invite his friends over so that u will get to know them better. And again, u need to tell ur husband about it. At this stage in the boys life, he's passing through a crucial stage. He needs your support. Changing school won't solve the problem cause evil is everywhere.
Shalom

me self tire for the changing school idea when it is not a direct threat to life. She go change school tire be that na, maybe before the lad reach SS3 he go don attend like 10 different schools

Durent:
@OP, Durin ur teens didn't u watch it? abeg free dat kid, me am 12Yrs and watch porn nd nobody fit do me anytin, i blame da boi sef, he is nt sharp enough

I just want to convince my self that you are joking...right?!

Nigerians and dia usual hypocrisy. How of una no watch porn at that age pls b sincere. Y hanging dat little boy. Just advice him of it harm that's all.

Ahmeduana:

14 YEAR OLD

are you exclaiming? Hope you also exclaimed when people are marrying 14 year and below girls.

The boy is 14! He is discovering what sex is! What you should is talk to him about sex, not beat the hell out of him! Does you want to him discover sex in another way. The boy is growing, but he needs guidance, he needs a frank talk from his dad. What of if to say na Gay porn you meet am dey watch.

Sabrwahaqqo:
Fourteen y old watching porn.... That's something.... Well, let's face it; for you to have caught him , its not his first time watching it. As we all know once you go black you can never go back, you have a whole lot of work to do If you mean business,
- Step up your parenting game by first being a better example for yo boy
- That act denotes he's not religious upright enough, so you gotta step that up a notch
- It also denotes he has too much time for himself, so, his tasks, domestic and academic needs an upgrade
Before the aforementioned actually;
- He needs lecture, tell him sex is not all that rosy, and the implication of having it is much more than porn artistes paint it.
-dont try to lie to him or create a non-existent myth tho, He knows much more than you can imagine already
In conclusion sha, Get him more life impacting books to read, buy him science-fiction based movies, monitor who his friends are etc. In short be a better parent!

good one

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1st of all hiz ur son not ur Neighbour....2ndly i didn't see d reason y he shd own a personal laptop @ SS1 wen we no kw hiz nida doing a project wit it or typing his own exam questions...Thirdly he shd b sanctioned wit luv n discipline not pointless beating n flogging heading to no direction .....4thly itz likely hiz sexually active or abt to but i suggest u drive him out to a cool place & pour out ur heart to him. make him understand d damages & Risk hiz likely to undergo wit dis his new habit & make him kw all d gud tinz u plan for hiz life if only he conducts himself ....dunt forget to use plain words @ him also letting him kw his capable of making a woman fruitful ........may God help u guys as u journey tru restoring d guy back on track.

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MrBiggzz:
As a father what u have to do is to sit wit ur son, and elaborate on d different typ of styles carried out...B-)

Hahahahahahahahaha

Hop say no be you spoil that child?

MzzTega:
Can't porn be banned in Nigeria?

it has been banned but hackers always hack into the porn site and unbanned it.

Porn no know age o, it corrupts equally...When you buy android phone and laptop for your teenage boy or girl, what do you expect them to be watching TBN?

Tell his dad two of you will deliberate on how to handle the it,dont ever hide anything from your husband expecially on issues like this.

Tell his dad two of you will deliberate on how to handle it,dont ever hide anything from your husband expecially on issues like this.

Well, even if u beat him he may nt change, just pray 4 him, dats d surest way 4 him to change.

cococandy:
Are you kidding us?


All these immature parents sef.

Oh, the irony.

Lol. He forgot to turn down d volume, he's actually a novice. Let's b serious, beating won't stop it, counsel him on d effects of having sex at his young age n watching porn. He needs guidance n counselling

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jamex93:
Pikin wey u go hang for ceiling fan for 2good days

U carry d mata con dey talk for NL


U sure say u even beat am well so

dis method will nt wrk.rather d boy will come up wit more discreet methods if doin his tins