I love this guy

Very important you involve her best friend in conversion- works like magic.

Unibentested:


Yes Boss! But that's not usually the case or reality. Reality, especially in Nigerian universities is you like me, i like you, I spoon feed u, do assignments for you, write exams for you, write you poems, call you everyday, you see me like a brother, a nice guy, den u go behind and start to oil Peter, wey no dey call you, wey nor send u, wey dey put jeans for yansh (sagging lol), yet crying everyday on my shoulder that he's a bad boy (lol)..You would be amazed the kind of stories my much younger university cousins gist me about love in school...

As the girls don turn dating to mathematics, sharp guys should enrol for further maths..

nice 1 bro! I learned new stuffs, keep it up.

MrsPhyno:
This ish only works when charming guys do it. Majority of males are too awkward for this and will just make a mess of the situation

Those ones should stick to groveling

thank you for speaking my mind lady.

@ the OP and other guys reading this, please take a minute to consider what i have to say because as a guy who has been on both sides of the divide (friendzoned and otherwise) i do have actual practical experience.


I think the truth is that guys in the friendzone usually do the opposite of everything on this list but doing turning around to now do everything the list says might not really change much because the problem is usually something entirely different: It's as simple as she doesn't find you attractive. Thats it.

Your best chance of getting the one you want is making a good first impression and then you can apply these things. But then again most guys in the friendzone will find it really hard to do these things because it really jsut doesn't come naturally to them. The so called bad guy that ignores women for days doesn't sit on his bed watching the time tic away until twice the time she took to reply has elapsed; they simply really do have a lot of things going on in their lives or basically don't care that much (if at all) about the girl.

So if you're trying to make progress out of the friendzone, let me give you some practical advice that wil actually work: go for a woman/girl who matches your status in life. Simple. There is always someone who would appreciate you just the way you are. And if you consider yourself to be too good for the one who considers you good enough, but yet find that the one you consider good enough does not consider you good enough, then focus on improving yourself. Success can make up for not having naturally good looks.

Also, if a girl doesn't "click" with you from the beginning, i think it might be a waste of time trying to use these "further maths" formulas, coz it won't get you anywhere (IMO).

Nice tip

Xiadnat:
All these game playing sef.......I hate am.

I don't think these as outlined above make a guy "un-nice". I think it's just dating smart and protecting your heart.

I don't know why dating and courtship should be like calculus and astrophysics and shii.....

I like you, you like me. Let's just get together and see what happens. No games, no strings.....damn.

and that's what's up

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I enjoyed reading your thread, especially all those comments in between like A and J or Sup. you're a smart guy and I might be a girl but I agree with you 100 percent

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This post will take me to a better stage

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Unibentested:


Yes Boss! But that's not usually the case or reality. Reality, especially in Nigerian universities is you like me, i like you, I spoon feed u, do assignments for you, write exams for you, write you poems, call you everyday, you see me like a brother, a nice guy, den u go behind and start to oil Peter, wey no dey call you, wey nor send u, wey dey put jeans for yansh (sagging lol), yet crying everyday on my shoulder that he's a bad boy (lol)..You would be amazed the kind of stories my much younger university cousins gist me about love in school...

[B]As the girls don turn dating to mathematics, sharp guys should enrol for further maths..[/B]

@d bold. Bad guy

Hian!! What did I just read? Lool.. If she says 'gd am' reply with 'am'? What kind of girls does this work on? My dear, no serious guy would do this.

If a girl takes sometime to reply you, must you think she's intentionally doing it? You can ask if she's busy and have her message you when she's less busy. Trust me that works like a charm, it endears the you to the girl.

I didn't even read what you wrote about the 'don't apologize' part. My dear, if you are trying to play some child's game with a girl, and she's ready for it by all means use this technique. But if a guy should try this nonsense with me, he's not even worthy of being in the friend zone.

Choose maturity over child's play. Now that's sexy as hell

Unibentested:



Lol...Nwanne, that's ladies for you...they want what they can't have and prefer the unavailable..and of course friendzone the available....

So true bro, women so much like attention and when they see a guy that gives them much attention they treat him like trash and friendzone him, yet keep longing for the one that hardly look their way. The best way to escape friendzone is; don't be submissive to her and don't give her much attention. She will keep wondering what you're up to, and the more she wonders the more she is attracted to you. They can't just help it!

400billionman:
Poster, number

11. Do not call her more than once a day. If she does does not pick, wait till tomorrow.

12. Address her as baby. A girl who wants to date you will respond to this title but one who wants to play you or waste your time will warn you or ignore that word BABY.

13. If she demands money or card.. Promise but delay giving her by 1 week. If she continues chatting, she likes you, if she stops chatting you, nah GAME.

14. Never show care so much.. How are you is okay. Do not ever ask, Where are you ? Girls do not like monitoring boyfrends talk more of when you are still toasting her..

15. Phone tricks. If you call and network is bad, do not call back or explain yourself, wait till tomorrow. If she call you same day, talk on her credit. If she flashed, then call back.

After doing all these, ND she decides to submit punany, no do dullapo o.

Unibentested:


Yes Boss! But that's not usually the case or reality. Reality, especially in Nigerian universities is you like me, i like you, I spoon feed u, do assignments for you, write exams for you, write you poems, call you everyday, you see me like a brother, a nice guy, den u go behind and start to oil Peter, wey no dey call you, wey nor send u, wey dey put jeans for yansh (sagging lol), yet crying everyday on my shoulder that he's a bad boy (lol)..You would be amazed the kind of stories my much younger university cousins gist me about love in school...

As the girls don turn dating to mathematics, sharp guys should enrol for further maths..

Word!

Trust me, the best method is to be yourself.

Xiadnat:
All these game playing sef.......I hate am.

I don't think these as outlined above make a guy "un-nice". I think it's just dating smart and protecting your heart.

I don't know why dating and courtship should be like calculus and astrophysics and shii.....

I like you, you like me. Let's just get together and see what happens. No games, no strings.....damn.

Very few think like you.
What a mature comment!

It's not meant to be stressful. I love you, what do you say?

There are more important relationship issues than all these...

NiRfreak:
Seriously........and swearing to GOD.....the problem with u gals is dat....pple like you dont knw when being played.......i'm a testament.....#ibelieveincheating.

whatever

NiRfreak:
Seriously........and swearing to GOD.....the problem with u gals is dat....pple like you dont knw when being played.......i'm a testament.....#ibelieveincheating.

whatever..... mr i know all
pls u dont know me and stop quoting me, i know your type the one that sees every gal as objects and humans with fish brain,pls i beg of u get off my mention.

esosa993:





whatever..... mr i know all
pls u dont know me and stop quoting me, i know your type the one that sees every gal as objects and humans with fish brain,pls i beg of u get off my mention.

i can bet my life you love being mentioned.........smiles......#everygirlclaimsbeingdifferent.

NiRfreak:
i can bet my life you love being mentioned.........smiles......#everygirlclaimsbeingdifferent.

i can see u an attention seeker......am done

LISTEN THO! This only works when you made a good first impression (well dressed, scent, posture etc)...and she's single. Guys never want to understand an attractive babe already has a main nigga, side niggas and friendzoned niggas. Please tell me the magic you wanna pull off that would make you her number 1. Always remember you're joining a queue and more guys will join behind you. At the end of the day, whether you like it or not, she's gonna do the choosing no matter how wicked your game is.

If you are already in the friendzone because you were being HER FRIEND, forget it bro. You've lost that sex appeal, you're like a brother now (except she's not very attractive and you are a good catch to her, try your luck). Next time, start your game from the 1st time you meet. From the very 1st time you meet her and you are attracted to her (at this stage, no emotional attachment ), tell yourself "let's see if she's attracted to ME, if she flows with ME, if she gets MY jokes, if she enjoys MY company". BE THE SUBJECT!!! Forget about showing her you're interested, one million other guys are.

Mistakes guys make is they make it about HER at the first time, which makes them attached to her not the other way around. Asking her 101 questions, interviewing her: "do you like this place?" "which song do you like?" "what do you think about what happened to Tonto Dike yesterday?" "are you enjoying your food?" "when are you going home?" FORGET QUESTIONS! Most of the time talk about you. "I love this song the DJ is playing", "I remember when I was...", "I find that funny because...", "I can cook better than what they're serving", "I loved today's sermon, especially the part about...", "i find you very shy" (good one if she's forming), "I heard Will Smith punched Pete Edochie", "I've never had this kinda birthday...". Let her be the one to comment, disagree, ask questions etc If she's not flowing with you, MOVE ON!

When she's flowing with you, cut it short so you leave her wanting more, get her number. Then follow OP's tips after making a confam 1st impression.

esosa993:




i can see u an attention seeker......am done

As a matter of fact....you are no way different from those gals.........#allgirlsarethesame.

esosa993:





whatever..... mr i know all
pls u dont know me and stop quoting me, i know your type the one that sees every gal as objects and humans with fish brain,pls i beg of u get off my mention.

I can bet my life....you will read this before having rest of mind to sleep.....#everygirllovessmartguys

ISS HIGH TIME GUYS STOP STRESSING THEIR MIND OVER GIRLS...

I'd rather focus on my career than waste my brain strategizing how to woo a lady.

With enough money...
I don't need all these rules.

Although I must agree with them.

Sadly but funny enough, its the only way for guy's to save their heart from being torn apart.
Especially for those with good intension.

If u meet a guy forming Mr Nice Guy...
Then am sure who go teach am lesson dey road.

Experience is the best teacher....unless u are skilled at making examples your reality.....

Xiadnat:
All these game playing sef.......I hate am.

I don't think these as outlined above make a guy "un-nice". I think it's just dating smart and protecting your heart.

I don't know why dating and courtship should be like calculus and astrophysics and shii.....

I like you, you like me. Let's just get together and see what happens. No games, no strings.....damn.

Sorry. Women are not that simple to handle. They are somewhat confused and this confusion makes dating the ratherr complex and tasking. Women are also first class pretenders. So, we must know these tricks to handle them well.

.

ellapius:
u do dat with me and u ll drown in ur own tears .tell the op if he is such a pro he should mail me his number. ellapius24@ gmail.com he ll come back changing his write up.mind u I graduated from uniben so I no all ya engine boys una no reach.

Young lady U re funny