[b]So many ladies that have lost their womb are already here...my stand has always be that both parties should go for test,don't come and cause pain,misery and bankruptcy to your partner all in the disguise of love....adoption or IVF is not an option for me,if I could try as much as possible to be healthy,disease free in terms of fertility and others I don't see any reasons why you can't do same.....


So many women who love having fun,would be mad as why boys can fuvk around and girls can't do same,our bodies ain't same..you should know that,don't waste all your eggs for one man all in the name of love....I know so many ladies and men are guilty of these..please stop fuvking around,stop stressing your private part,stop the masturbation,the tramadol,viagra,postinor1,combination 3,and all sorts of drugs you use for enhancement and to avoid or flush out sperm....please have pity on your future partner...if you are guilty of any mentioned,go on self rehab and medical treatment....I won't want to be love out of pity and I know my partner too won't like me loving or marrying her out of pity..nuff said[/b]

Edusouls:
hahaha he forgive her on what terms, that she was truthful to him or her loyalty.so he should pay for the past curses the girl brought on herself due to reckless living and killing of an innocent blood. Deceiving the man to marry her and spending money from one hospital to the other for 5 solid years, the devilish girl kept quiet,upon that she knows its her fault,watching the man suffer in blindness and confusion, may your brother marry such a woman and forgive her...you girls are really dejected by God,while here on earth men suffer and bear the very heavy burden of our so called helpers,is unfortunate.

I was shock when I read that comment

freecocoa:
Wtf? He was right to divorce her for hiding that her womb was damaged, not because she couldn't get pregnant.

Like how can procreation be the reason for marriage?

I tot u should ve understood d guy well,

D husband stood with her for 5yrs without kids, he has been doing everything humanly possible to see if the problem can be solved.

I think the only reason he asked her to leave was because she lied to him for 5yrs,(your husband, the man u signed for better for worse with)


Well, I no know d area una two d argue from.



As for me? Let's just say,i can forgive her (we can go on for adoption).

For not telling me for fears of loosing me, well, I might reconsider that too,


Btw, all the above are impossible with me.


What I can not take is "her pastor, telling her,(mt wife of 5yrs) to tell me the truth, I will not accept that. If i Can forgive any other aspect, I will never forgive this very aspect.

chigoizie7:




I tot u should ve understood d guy well,

D husband stood with her for 5yrs without kids, he has been doing everything humanly possible to see if the problem can be solved.

I think the only reason he asked her to leave was because she lied to him for 5yrs,(your husband, the man u signed for better for worse with)


Well, I no know d area una two d argue from.



As for me? Let's just say,i can forgive her (we can go on for adoption).

For not telling me for fears of loosing me, well, I might reconsider that too,


Btw, all the above are impossible with me.


What I can not take is "her pastor, telling her,(mt wife of 5yrs) to tell me the truth, I will not accept that. If i Can forgive any other aspect, I will never forgive this very aspect.

My argument is not that the guy shouldn't have divorced her, it is with the person that says marriage is for procreation.

Youngpo413:
ladies should learn to close their legs and keep their virginity to their future husbands,they should say no to guys and stick to it,I don't think its a big deal.

Thatz if u guys will allow that

mutter:
The man had a right to divorce her. The purpose of marriage is procreation.
It was really evil to tie a man up so long and waste his money. .

tell 'em

islandprincess:
Husband pls forgive,, tho i dont suport abortion. But pls forgive,,, dias no miracle God cannot perform

dont tell me you are one of them

missKiffy:
She shouldn't have kept such an information away from him

ehn ehn...ok

ladyF:
Chai. Say NO to abortion. Use a cd

Its [size=20pt]LadyF[/size] again

what is [size=20pt]LadyF[/size]?
is it a song or a link?

mutter:


No a marriage is for better or worse...whatever comes.
In this case the woman was aware of the condition. It was not a probability but a certainly that the marriage would be childless. The man was under the assumption that childlessness was a risk like in any other marriage.

A woman that does not give birth to a child deserves even more love and tenderness because she is in pain.
However when a woman really loves her husband she would encourage him to take a second wife so that he can have kids.

say God

G

jornie:

Ask God my sister

Which one?

freecocoa:
My argument is not that the guy shouldn't have divorced her, it is with the person that says marriage is for procreation.

Ok dear

freecocoa:
Which one?

GOD

Edusouls:
hahaha he forgive her on what terms, that she was truthful to him or her loyalty.so he should pay for the past curses the girl brought on herself due to reckless living and killing of an innocent blood. Deceiving the man to marry her and spending money from one hospital to the other for 5 solid years, the devilish girl kept quiet,upon that she knows its her fault,watching the man suffer in blindness and confusion, may your brother marry such a woman and forgive her...you girls are really dejected by God,while here on earth men suffer and bear the very heavy burden of our so called helpers,is unfortunate.

ur opinion shaa

jornie:

dont tell me you are one of them

ur opinion shaa

islandprincess:
ur opinion shaa

you zayy?

jornie:

GOD

You still haven't told me which but I take it you mean Allah.

freecocoa:
You still haven't told me which but I take it you mean Allah.

come on,i'm just kidding....its their relationship,their choice and their life.no one can say if he was wrong or not ? We all live in this world by different principles,philosophies and have religions u know,so that affects some of our decisions....like u said,if he were a muslim,he wont divorce her,but take another wife or if he lived by plato's philosophy of marriage,he's choices would be either to divorce her and marry another woman or to adopt a child...so u cant judge him/anyone when they make such personal choices

The rate of abortion this days nawa oooo, girls and boys, the boy will be like pls abort i dnt want people to laff at me and d girl will obey den at d end d girl will end up marrying another man that will bear the course,, girls keep it up bcuz it pays prophets and pastors who unemployment has driven to pastorship.

WOMEN......Hmmmmmmm! They get heart no be small.....but people say they be weaker sex. See how SAME SEX MARRIAGE ENTER NAIJA WITH STYLE!

freecocoa:
Wtf? He was right to divorce her for hiding that her womb was damaged, not because she couldn't get pregnant.

Like how can procreation be the reason for marriage?

hmmmmmm

Good riddance to bad rubbish. Send her to the pits of hell where she belong.

The funny thing be say the guy wey score the first goal wey referee disallow go done score another one for another net. In short like four more.



The point is ladies are the ones on the receiving end most times if not all the time.

kehyndey:
Thatz if u guys will allow that

Allow in what way?no one is forcing the girls,saying NO and sticking to it is very easy.

Desperation may have caused this lady to keep this secret from the man initially. While I am not saying she did well, we are humans and we have our weaknesses. Before their union, and even within those five years of marriage the husband may have also done things he cannot reveal to his wife. They should have explored options like surrogacy, adoption, IVF amongst others. Also you cannot predict God, a miracle can still happen regardless of doctor's report. I understand the man's pain, but people act out of desperation sometimes and their decisions may be irrational. He should have forgiven her.

Oh my gud God oo. they are dos kind of ladies in d church DAT will tell a man there is no sex till after Mariage. imposicant dat she will tell me no sex, 4 wat now

onadana:
Made up story...no picture to prove it.........Fake story.

As much as pictures may be welcome, I don't think pictures are of real significance as to whether or not the story is true.
The scenario is not out of this world.

onadana:
.......I can't remember anywhere in our constitution where the church can dissolve marriage.

Check the constitution of your church well. The relationship between the man and the woman doesn't fit a real marriage; what the church did was to cancel the union between the man and the woman. There was no marriage for divorce to take place because what happened between the couple in the first instance was only a ceremony, not a marriage. It is up to the husband to determine what to do.

I have a question for you; assuming you're a man and you met another man who had transformed himself into a woman through surgery. You took "her" to the altar and you two made a marital vow for "better for worse." When you found out the truth, would you continue the "marriage" since it is "for better for worse?"

islandprincess:
Husband pls forgive,, tho i dont suport abortion. But pls forgive,,, dias no miracle God cannot perform

The husband may have forgiven her, but that shouldn't stop the union from being annulled. Please be informed that what happened between the man and woman on the "wedding" day was merely a ceremony, not a marriage. It is up to the husband to determine what to do.

mutter:

No a marriage is for better or worse...whatever comes.

That clause may be applicable if the marriage was entered into by the 2 parties in good faith. Do you think the relationship between the couple was a true marriage? It is up to the husband to determine what to do.

Akfret:
The funny thing be say the guy wey score the first goal wey referee disallow go done score another one for another net. In short like four more.



The point is ladies are the ones on the receiving end most times if not all the time.

good point you had there....


how I wish they would reason like you just say and not open their legs just anyhow to someone that promise them love without showing it at such age....



secondary school roove are just mere infatuation

BeeBeeOoh:
This is the more reason why men will always impregnate their ladies/women before walking down the aisle. Girls of these days are something else, the rate at which they go for abortion makes one to wonder if it's now the latest trend; just imagine after so many years of massive kpusing & nyashing your wife but she's gat no womb. Mehn! God help her dat day.








God also help those men that they've caged with God's time is the best..

Shut up.I bet the ladies are the ones impregnating themselves. How about you start with yourself? Don't Bleep no girl for a year atleast, lets see the effect on rate of abortion.Mshewww.

mutter:
The man had a right to divorce her. The purpose of marriage is procreation.
It was really evil to tie a man up so long and waste his money. .

the man who got her pregnant and made her abort in the first place is also evil
when u want to judge a lady that has done such,also judge the guy
btw...m not saying abortion is good,its a sin too