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Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by SUGARBEE(f): 1:09pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Good morning guys.. I've been burdened with this so I decided share. My best friend's been engaged to her fiance for over six months now and they intend on getting Married soon. Now the thing is even before they were engaged and still dating, I and her fiance were very close friends to the extent of him coming to me whenever they had a fight for advice which I did give him with with no negative thoughts. . Now just last week, he came to my place all drunk and wasted. I know him and I know he doesn't drink so I knew something bad happened. In his drunken state I tried asking him what the matter was but he wouldn't tell. Few minutes later he was dosing off on my couch and woke up an hour later as he was back to his senses. I served him food to eat since he was hungry and then asked him again what the matter was to have made him gotten himself drunk. The next thing I knew was him going on his knees and telling me stuff like ; he made a mistake in dating my friend and it was me he really loved. That he had loved me from day one but didn't have the guts to tell me cuz of my friend and that he was fed up with my friend and now sincerely wants me to be his and be the only one in his life. Guys am really confused as I don't know what to do now. . I sent him out of the house telling him I was gonna think about it but I know I shouldn't have told him that but sent him out rightly out. Please I need your advice. . I don't want to hurt my friend's feelings neither do I want to hurt his own too. . Thanks.. Matured comments please.. Cc lalasticlala, ishilove |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by peeparty(m): 1:11pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Clap for yasef. guy wake me up later. 4 Likes |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by HolyHero: 1:11pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
same thing happened to me. the girl in question was smoking hot.. she would always call and text to tell me how much she loves me.. to cut the story short I didn't because I figured out that 'It can't be right if it's morally wrong' 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by ThatVaselineGuy: 1:13pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
SUGARBEE: See dat yansh u r carry Bae, u can sit on ma face anytim 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by Nobody: 1:14pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
don't you have ur own boyfriend @ op 3 Likes |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by SUGARBEE(f): 1:15pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
ThatVaselineGuy: Please be positive for once 1 Like |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by falconey(m): 1:15pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
ThatVaselineGuy: OP this is the best mature comment we have!√ |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by SUGARBEE(f): 1:16pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
WarRLaY: Am currently single. . Maybe that's why he could say that |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by themejiwalker(m): 1:17pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
You sound like u'r interested in the guy Just my opinion 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by ThatVaselineGuy: 1:18pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
SUGARBEE: bae, der is notin mor posive dan dat ur fresh yansh, chai! do u no how many tim av try 2 grab dat yansh tru ma screen now ma screen av crak 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by pato405(m): 1:18pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
That's how you know a smart guy! Your punny is season 2 of his well scripted series. 3 Likes |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by SUGARBEE(f): 1:18pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
falconey: Be real now! |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by gamaliel121(m): 1:18pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
If you don't know what to do in this case then ur some messed up chick mehn.... Ok....u know what? Bleep him well..... 3 Likes |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by SUGARBEE(f): 1:21pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
ThatVaselineGuy: Go get a Vaseline and make love to your hands! kids are not allowed in here |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by vizkiz: 1:21pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
see as these guys finished this thread Miss op, are you gonna listen/accept my lil unimportant advice? |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by falconey(m): 1:21pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
SUGARBEE: even if you felt the same way.......you can't date him, even if you would not this time.√ 1 Like |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by ThatVaselineGuy: 1:25pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
SUGARBEE: is dat an orda ma mistres cus am alredy obey, ma island godes 2 Likes |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by Nobody: 1:26pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
SUGARBEE:Hmmmm, it will be a something, u gonna live to regret, if you ever make a chance of dating your friend boyfriend, that guy don't love you, I think, he is tired of your friend, and he need a switch, he knows you like him, that's why he decided to give a shot, welda you gonna fall for it,. if you go fall hmmmm, he will also dump you,. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by SUGARBEE(f): 1:27pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
vizkiz: Yes please |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by Nobody: 1:28pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Some girls sha, wah kinda question is this 1? Am sure you know the right thing to do,or do you like your friend's fiancee? Why not sit nd ask yourself what if same thing is done to you You don't wanna hurt him? You mean by telling him you not interested? Lol...babe just tell him its not gonna work besides the gf is your bestie 3 Likes |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by SUGARBEE(f): 1:28pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
WarRLaY: He says he's sincerely in love with me.. I don't even know what to think again |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by heayey(m): 1:28pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
I'm looking forward to the next episode.... 1 Like |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by SUGARBEE(f): 1:30pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Sassybae: Maybe you have not experienced it that's why you're like this. . Am confused myself cuz I don't know if am beginning to fall in love with him |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by SUGARBEE(f): 1:31pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
WarRLaY: He's not the player kind of guy |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by vizkiz: 1:32pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
SUGARBEE: it is even suprising you are giving this a thought. Have you informed your friend about this? If no, I think it is still very much early to tell her before things start going ugly. Have you ever been called a hoe before? NO? Ok, you need to kEep yourself from being the next rated city hoe. Because that is what your friend will call you when she realises what has been happening. She will feel betrayed(she trusts you as a "best" friends) 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by Nobody: 1:35pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
SUGARBEE:Do you also love him? |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by Nobody: 1:35pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Inlove with him? Bae that's your bestie's fiancee, I see no reason why you should be in love with him, don't tell me you're confused Confused over what dear That's a bad move, you definately gonna regret doing that, SUGARBEE: 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by Gurgle(f): 1:36pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Wow I thought this was going to be one of those problems pasted from a blog somewhere but its actually your problem..nna men, sorry. You did well by sending him away, both of you need time to process what has happened. First of all, this is not really your problem, its his own for getting himself entangled in the mess. So don't accept more responsibility than you actually have, because 6 good months + dating no be beans-and he only said something because he was drunk self Its not your fault that hes in love with you [size=14pt]Anyway the first thing I have to say is make sure you don't even touch that guy, Im deadly serious, don't ever try it.[/size] Let me think about it some more, im coming 1 Like |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by SUGARBEE(f): 1:37pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
vizkiz: I don't intend on telling her anything for now, would love to solve it on my own |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by jaybee3(m): 1:38pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Opening a thread on NL about the dilemma suggests you are actively considering giving in to his proposal. It also comes across as you also harboring similar feelings about him The fact of the matter is, your friend deserves better than what you and the supposed fiancé is offering so do her a favor by coming out clean so she can at least move on with her life. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by ThatVaselineGuy: 1:38pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Y is dis sugarbee in luv anoda pesin wen u av a vaseline Wondas Av u eva try vaseline b4 Try it 1 Like |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by Nobody: 1:40pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
SUGARBEE:Dont dere give that guy any chance at all or else your case will be like....he is tired of your friend and wanna switch to you gush.think about it bae If you dere give that guy chance i will surely dump you as your friend and if he eventualy marry you. .you might not end well cos your friend will forever not happy with you. My case....there was dis girl my cousing brought to my house for a visit they stay for about 2 days...but ever since this girl set her eyes on me see change and she has been tryin all her effort to bring me into her trap... she call,she text and worst she sent me romantic msg on fb,,,lastly she is traveling to SA soon and she said that she wanna visit me before she left that i should not tell my uncle of her coming to my hood that sge wnt to make it a suprise to him which i knw was lieing...am realy confuse and dont wanna do this,,.. |
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