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Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by vizkiz: 1:40pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
SUGARBEE: there is nothing for you to solve. Just come out plain to him that you can't do it. There is nothing grey about this...it is either black or white! Probably like someone typed up there. Maybe you'v gat a thing for him deep down before |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by vizkiz: 1:42pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Gurgle: this case requires intake or origin right? |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by SUGARBEE(f): 1:43pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
WarRLaY: I can't say for sure Gurgle: Nah not in any way, I don't intend going intimate with him at all Sassybae: It's difficult to resist |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by SUGARBEE(f): 1:45pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
vizkiz: Maybe, maybe not.. I just find myself thinking over what he said meanwhile on a normal day I shouldn't |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by jaybee3(m): 1:46pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
SUGARBEE: SUGARBEE: Why are you contradicting yourself and hiding your main intention along the line? PS: I haven't quoted you outta context! 1 Like |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by Gurgle(f): 1:46pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
vizkiz: Lol! it requires many liquids of strong substance but its too early for all that sha Hmm Nairaland sha |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by SUGARBEE(f): 1:49pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Mrcdorv: Thanks for the advice. . And in your case, ladies are more Seductive than guys so please stay away from her.. Don't allow her to meet you alone anywhere |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by vizkiz: 1:49pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
SUGARBEE: hmmmn...this is serious But what if she is a sister to you, would you give this a thought? I don't know how it works for the ladies but a guy wouldn't even think about this |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by Rikidony(m): 1:50pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Babe you just sent a ni.gga out because he ask you out, nah that's a wrong move, called him back apologise and listen to him. Make some findings about his relationship with your friend, I believe after all this u should have taken ur stance and find a solution. Thank me later. |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by Nobody: 1:50pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Lol sugarbee, now you sounding like, you've been waiting for the guy to make such move Suit yourself dear 8 Likes |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by Gurgle(f): 1:51pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
SUGARBEE: Ok well I don't really have anything more to say than please just forget it, its a line you cant cross. Even if you do like him you have to trash it because that level of betrayal is really something The real problem here is not even that he loves you, but that he doesn't love your best friend..I mean if he really doesn't love her and he doesn't want to marry her again then he needs to say something...meanwhile try to limit your contact with him for now unless its important because if he eventually breaks up with her im sure you don't want to be labelled the cause of that split In future try and limit your involvement in your friends' relationships because you may end up doing more harm than good.. even if he was your friend before.. just keep a safe distance because even if the thing was already crashing your name will end up in it All you need to do is greet the guy and stay in your lane lol |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by Cutehector(m): 1:52pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Sugarbee, I knw u wish not to be labelled a bittch, frm what I'v observed, ur female frnd is more important to u dan her fiance's "lust" for u.. Now you hav a choice befor u. Ur frndship and loyalty to ur female frnd is being tested, do not fall for this. Its a very simple situation u can handle alone. I need u to brace up, invyt d fiance for a drink, not in ur house. Some restaurant, tell him u can't do such and mean it.. Dnt allow him explain anythn to u, once your done, take ur bag and walk out. And if he should make passes at u, ur gona tell his fiancee.. Be strict abt it... Its time ur frndship is bein tested, dnt fall cheaply. Or else, ur female frnds gona call u a bittch 2 Likes |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by vizkiz: 1:52pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Gurgle: lol...you should be surprised again now. Lotta stuffs happening in here |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by SUGARBEE(f): 1:53pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
jaybee3: I can't just think straight about this.. It's kinda overwhelming.. |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by Cutehector(m): 1:54pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Sassybae:lol thank God u'd seen d problem wit ladies....after guys will b d ones bein blamed... 1 Like |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by Gurgle(f): 1:54pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
vizkiz: Lol I know..hmm learning a lot. you know its like being in 10 different families and groups at once with the rate that things are exposed here..the secrets here are so much but its good because we can all learn from each other |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by SUGARBEE(f): 1:55pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Sassybae: Subconsciously maybe I have, but I find myself hating this whole thing now and wishing it never came to this |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by Cutehector(m): 1:56pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
SUGARBEE:nw dis is d same advice u should be telln urself against dat fiance! |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by SUGARBEE(f): 1:57pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Cutehector: I would give it a thought.. But don't you think telling him on phone would be better than for him to now have the impression of a date? |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by SUGARBEE(f): 1:58pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Cutehector: I wish... Lol.. |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by vizkiz: 1:59pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Gurgle: the funnt thing is 60% will still fall into same trap of what they "learnt" here. They still fall victims. Cc: mhizkel |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by SUGARBEE(f): 1:59pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Gurgle: Wow thanks for this. .. I feel like am ready to confront him now |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by Nobody: 1:59pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Lol sugar, and what do you think would be the outcome of such relationship Sex and only sex dear, you think he loves you? ..don't fall for such tricks girl SUGARBEE: 1 Like |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by ivyT(f): 2:00pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
HolyHero: exactly, op needs to read this and receive inspiration... 1 Like |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by SUGARBEE(f): 2:01pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
vizkiz: Hmmm I don't really know sha but maybe that's different |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by Cutehector(m): 2:03pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
SUGARBEE:sugarbee u aren't giving anythn a thought here gosh...... I used to think ur somewhat good.. Dis is ur bestfrnd for christ sake... U can go ahead and snatch her fiance tho.. Its all in ur court. Duno why am even gvn u an advice sef 2 Likes |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by izeeqpotter(m): 2:04pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
For me; you should go ahead joor! If you think you love him! Love Will Conquer All (including the thoughts of betrayal) |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by SUGARBEE(f): 2:04pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Sassybae: Honestly I would try... You needed to be there to see how he was telling me those things.. It almost felt like I was proposed to |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by teamobanabo(m): 2:04pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Adonbelivit unless u upload his pinshure.......
Kneeling down and begging u as evidence |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by Nobody: 2:04pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Lol, d OP is confused, I see no reason why she should even give that a second thought Cutehector: |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by Cutehector(m): 2:06pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
Sassybae:am already pissed off sef... I feel lyk given her a slap so she gona come bak to her senses.. She can go ahead and steal her best frnd's fiance.. Its her call.. I dnt see any reason why people should be beggn her to hav sense 1 Like |
Re: Please Advice; My Best Friend's Fiance Says He Loves Me by jaybee3(m): 2:07pm On Aug 21, 2015 |
SUGARBEE: This is about the simplest of all problems one can ever face in life Ask yourself these questions and be completely honest with the answers: 1) Do you value your friendship with your friend? 2) How come he decided to ask your friend out instead of you if he is genuinely interested in you? 2 Likes |
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