SUGARBEE:


I don't intend on telling her anything for now, would love to solve it on my own

there is nothing for you to solve. Just come out plain to him that you can't do it. There is nothing grey about this...it is either black or white!

Probably like someone typed up there. Maybe you'v gat a thing for him deep down before

Gurgle:
Wow I thought this was going to be one of those problems pasted from a blog somewhere but its actually your problem..nna men, sorry.

You did well by sending him away, both of you need time to process what has happened.

First of all, this is not really your problem, its his own for getting himself entangled in the mess. So don't accept more responsibility than you actually have, because 6 good months + dating no be beans-and he only said something because he was drunk self

Its not your fault that hes in love with you

[size=14pt]Anyway the first thing I have to say is make sure you don't even touch that guy, Im deadly serious, don't ever try it.[/size]

Let me think about it some more, im coming

this case requires intake or origin right?

WarRLaY:
Do you also love him?

Gurgle:
Wow I thought this was going to be one of those problems pasted from a blog somewhere but its actually your problem..nna men, sorry.
You did well by sending him away, both of you need time to process what has happened.
First of all, this is not really your problem, its his own for getting himself entangled in the mess. So don't accept more responsibility than you actually have, because 6 good months + dating no be beans-and he only said something because he was drunk self
Its not your fault that hes in love with you

[size=14pt]Anyway the first thing I have to say is make sure you don't even touch that guy, Im deadly serious, don't ever try it.[/size]
Let me think about it some more, im coming

Sassybae:
Inlove with him?
Bae that's your bestie's fiancee, I see no reason why you should be in love with him, don't tell me you're confused
Confused over what dear
That's a bad move, you definately gonna regret doing that,

vizkiz:


there is nothing for you to solve. Just come out plain to him that you can't do it. There is nothing grey about this...it is either black or white!

Probably like someone typed up there. Maybe you'v gat a thing for him deep down before

SUGARBEE:


Nah not in any way, I don't intend going intimate with him at all

SUGARBEE:

It's difficult to resist

vizkiz:


this case requires intake or origin right?

Mrcdorv:
Dont dere give that guy any chance at all or else your case will be like....he is tired of your friend and wanna switch to you gush.think about it bae If you dere give that guy chance i will surely dump you as your friend and if he eventualy marry you. .you might not end well cos your friend will forever not happy with you.

My case....there was dis girl my cousing brought to my house for a visit they stay for about 2 days...but ever since this girl set her eyes on me see change and she has been tryin all her effort to bring me into her trap... she call,she text and worst she sent me romantic msg on fb,,,lastly she is traveling to SA soon and she said that she wanna visit me before she left that i should not tell my uncle of her coming to my hood that sge wnt to make it a suprise to him which i knw was lieing...am realy confuse and dont wanna do this,,..

SUGARBEE:


Maybe, maybe not.. I just find myself thinking over what he said meanwhile on a normal day I shouldn't

hmmmn...this is serious

But what if she is a sister to you, would you give this a thought? I don't know how it works for the ladies but a guy wouldn't even think about this

SUGARBEE:


Nah not in any way, I don't intend going intimate with him at all

Gurgle:


Lol! it requires many liquids of strong substance but its too early for all that sha

Hmm Nairaland sha

lol...you should be surprised again now. Lotta stuffs happening in here

jaybee3:





Why are you contradicting yourself and hiding your main intention along the line?

PS: I haven't quoted you outta context!

Sassybae:
Lol sugarbee, now you sounding like, you've been waiting for the guy to make such move
Suit yourself dear

vizkiz:


lol...you should be surprised again now. Lotta stuffs happening in here

Sassybae:
Lol sugarbee, now you sounding like, you've been waiting for the guy to make such move
Suit yourself dear

SUGARBEE:


Thanks for the advice. .

And in your case, ladies are more Seductive than guys so please stay away from her.. Don't allow her to meet you alone anywhere

Cutehector:
Sugarbee, I knw u wish not to be labelled a bittch, frm what I'v observed, ur female frnd is more important to u dan her fiance's "lust" for u.. Now you hav a choice befor u. Ur frndship and loyalty to ur female frnd is being tested, do not fall for this. Its a very simple situation u can handle alone.

I need u to brace up, invyt d fiance for a drink, not in ur house. Some restaurant, tell him u can't do such and mean it.. Dnt allow him explain anythn to u, once your done, take ur bag and walk out. And if he should make passes at u, ur gona tell his fiancee.. Be strict abt it...




Its time ur frndship is bein tested, dnt fall cheaply. Or else, ur female frnds gona call u a bittch

Cutehector:
nw dis is d same advice u should be telln urself against dat fiance!

Gurgle:


Lol I know..hmm learning a lot. you know its like being in 10 different families and groups at once with the rate that things are exposed here..the secrets here are so much but its good because we can all learn from each other

Gurgle:


Ok well I don't really have anything more to say than please just forget it, its a line you cant cross. Even if you do like him you have to trash it because that level of betrayal is really something

The real problem here is not even that he loves you, but that he doesn't love your best friend..I mean if he really doesn't love her and he doesn't want to marry her again then he needs to say something...meanwhile try to limit your contact with him for now unless its important because if he eventually breaks up with her im sure you don't want to be labelled the cause of that split

In future try and limit your involvement in your friends' relationships because you may end up doing more harm than good.. even if he was your friend before.. just keep a safe distance because even if the thing was already crashing your name will end up in it

All you need to do is greet the guy and stay in your lane lol

SUGARBEE:


Subconsciously maybe I have, but I find myself hating this whole thing now and wishing it never came to this

HolyHero:
same thing happened to me.
the girl in question was smoking hot.. she would always call and text to tell me how much she loves me.. to cut the story short I didn't because I figured out that 'It can't be right if it's morally wrong'

vizkiz:


hmmmn...this is serious

But what if she is a sister to you, would you give this a thought? I don't know how it works for the ladies but a guy wouldn't even think about this

SUGARBEE:


I would give it a thought.. But don't you think telling him on phone would be better than for him to now have the impression of a date?

Sassybae:
Lol sugar, and what do you think would be the outcome of such relationship
Sex and only sex dear, you think he loves you? ..don't fall for such tricks girl

Cutehector:
lol thank God u'd seen d problem wit ladies....after guys will b d ones bein blamed...

Sassybae:
Lol, d OP is confused, I see no reason why she should even give that a second thought

SUGARBEE:


I can't just think straight about this.. It's kinda overwhelming..