Dear Kemi, I have been blackmailed

By Kemi Ashefon

I went to my boyfriend's house and he forced me to strip half-naked. He later snapped me with his camera phone and went about telling his friends that he slept with me. What do I do?







B.B, Abuja.

I forgot to put it in your mail that you told me your age-17. How did you get involved with a guy like that? You even told me when I asked you via a text message that he had asked you out but you did not agree. So what took you to him? Why did you go to his house unaccompanied? This is a serious issue and I prefer that you tell your parents, who should involve the police and get those pictures wiped off his phone with an undertaking that they would not be used against you in future.

Anything that could be documented should not be handled with kids' gloves. Who knows? Your career could be ruined in future if this guy still has access to these pictures. Act fast and never befriend guys who are criminals. Your studies should be a priority now and not guys!

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The evil that Nigerian men do will live after them.