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Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Essential(m): 3:31am On Sep 16, 2015
Lasgidy1:
I'm deeply in love with my orente. She means so much to me and I hold her in high esteem. I can't do without hearing from her at least 3 times daily despite my schedule at work on all days but I've come to realize that despite my unfailing love for her, I still cheat on her. Though, once she caught me cheating on her but she won't walk away. I believe she's forced to assume now that cheating is in the DNA of most men.

To the guys here, is it really possible to love your wife or babe so dearly and cheat on her? When you cheat on her, is it still fair to boast of your love for her? Also, why do most men cheat? Is it really true that cheating is in the DNA of men? Should we conclude its as a result of rampant moral decadence? Is there a way to stop it?
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Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by BeauHomme: 3:38am On Sep 16, 2015
@ OP, yes. A man can cheat even when in love.

In both men and women, Cheating is a character flaw, just like bad temper, woman beating, mind games, women nagging, excessive quarrelling, etc.
Anyone can fall in love, whether he/she is without character flaws or he/she has all the flaws combined. But love can never heal one of his/her flaws. The best love does is supress them for a while, and after that period, they begin to find expression once again. That's why a man can beat the woman he truly loves or a woman manipulating and playing mind games on a man she truly loves. At that point, the phase of flaws supression is over.

Character flaws need to be worked upon, and in some cases, a miracle is needed. Love does not correct flaws. That's one reason they say "Love is not enough". Character is more important than love.

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Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Essential(m): 3:38am On Sep 16, 2015
U re a Toto addict and it shows that animals are not safe around u even ur sisters too.

To the guys here, is it really possible to love your wife or babe so dearly and cheat on her? When you cheat on her, is it still fair to boast of your love for her? Also, why do most men cheat? Is it really true that cheating is in the DNA of men? Should we conclude its as a result of rampant moral decadence? Is there a way to stop it?
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Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Essential(m): 3:46am On Sep 16, 2015
U re a Toto addict and it shows that animals are not safe around u even ur sisters too.

U probably are a porn addict too. U re more deadly and dangerous than u know. Pls don't stay too long alone with ur mom. You mind rape her as an addict.

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Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by fromnigeria(m): 4:03am On Sep 16, 2015
Lasgidy1:
I'm deeply in love with my orente. She means so much to me and I hold her in high esteem. I can't do without hearing from her at least 3 times daily despite my schedule at work on all days but I've come to realize that despite my unfailing love for her, I still cheat on her. Though, once she caught me cheating on her but she won't walk away. I believe she's forced to assume now that cheating is in the DNA of most men.

To the guys here, is it really possible to love your wife or babe so dearly and cheat on her? When you cheat on her, is it still fair to boast of your love for her? Also, why do most men cheat? Is it really true that cheating is in the DNA of men? Should we conclude its as a result of rampant moral decadence? Is there a way to stop it?
Cc: mods please do the needful

For some it might be in their DNA,

For me, It depends on your believe. I strongly believe in 'One Man, One Vote'.

religious reasons aside, I can never get someone as beautiful inside-out like her so there is no reason to cheat.

She has all that i want in a woman. Another a key is self control.

Suffice it to say that Cheating I not in my DNA.

#JustResolve.
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Nobody: 4:27am On Sep 16, 2015
Questions for primary school pupils, if you have answer to this questions please raise your hand up.
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by dav73(m): 4:50am On Sep 16, 2015
If solomon had up to a thousand women David was sick and was given a young virgin to revive him its in the DNA of men to cheat nothing like weak and irresponsible men! Men need more then one girl that's how we r created but the white folks say its one to one well we don't have a choice u could do it traditional or white way. U need only God to help u tru cos even pastors fall for it.
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Nobody: 4:52am On Sep 16, 2015
Richie0974:
You love her but still cheat on her??

I think I need to refer you to the dictionary so you'll see what love means.

Love doesn't mean singular.

I love ALL my children, as an example.

Love is just a four letter word.
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Nobody: 4:57am On Sep 16, 2015
Busy man?
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by canDy4eva(f): 5:06am On Sep 16, 2015
nnamdiokere45:
no vex if shez doin same too
seconded...
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by canDy4eva(f): 5:08am On Sep 16, 2015
ilobasama:
Brother you dont love your lady. If you do you wont cheat on her.

And NO, not all men cheat. Only weak and irresponsible men do that.

Once again, you dont love her, you can never love someone and cheat on them
u rili droped it hot! Tnkx bro!
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by samtol4(m): 5:09am On Sep 16, 2015
Vock:
Guy,it's possible...I'm doing it and trying to extricate my self from the side chick cuz if my girlfriend catches me, I'm in deep soup,just pray for me brethren
prayers of the brethren won't help u without your conscious effort cutting all ties and communications with "side gal"U re enjoying d sex yet u re asking for prayers!flee
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Nobody: 5:10am On Sep 16, 2015
Lasgidy1:
I'm deeply in love with my orente. She means so much to me and I hold her in high esteem. I can't do without hearing from her at least 3 times daily despite my schedule at work on all days but I've come to realize that despite my unfailing love for her, I still cheat on her. Though, once she caught me cheating on her but she won't walk away. I believe she's forced to assume now that cheating is in the DNA of most men.

To the guys here, is it really possible to love your wife or babe so dearly and cheat on her? When you cheat on her, is it still fair to boast of your love for her? Also, why do most men cheat? Is it really true that cheating is in the DNA of men? Should we conclude its as a result of rampant moral decadence? Is there a way to stop it?
Cc: mods please do the needful
She'll definitely do the same to you

Someday, you're going to lick her recently fùcked pússy
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by samtol4(m): 5:19am On Sep 16, 2015
missmary:
Mehn cheat cos of konji.. With Christ You can overcome it... cool.. Its all about prayers
prayers without discipline and self control lead no way ! Afterall King David was a man of Prayer yet he fell for Bathsheba ...Bottom line is only the grace of God that can help a man because these days there are a lot of" Bathshebas having bath outside"Even when a man decide to b faithful some ladies still walk around nake to seduce and entice .
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by bidak(m): 5:35am On Sep 16, 2015
its very funny and its easy to say than do,saw post like if u truly love her u won't cheat on her and since when has loving sumone means nt cheating on the person,the truth is u can love someone and still cheat on them abi the fact u love ur parent does nt mean u dnt disrespect them..its takes God grace and self disciple for sumone nt to cheat and not LOVE
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Nobody: 5:36am On Sep 16, 2015
Infidelity is not in the DNA of men. Infidelity is in your DNA. Since you've identified your DNA major problem,try to stop it or reduce it to minimal level.
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Kazrem(m): 5:37am On Sep 16, 2015
Cheating does not necessarily mean you do not love your wife. Sometimes one cheats on his wife but still loves her dearly. Just has one has said, kongi is a bastard and more so cheating is in the DNA of some people. But such person should not just profess his love for his wife verbally but also practically by trying as much as possible to not cheat on her. I believe the "holes" are all the same. If he sees any lady and wants "fall in love" he should visit his wife. That's the solution I know.
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by sukkot: 5:44am On Sep 16, 2015
there is no such thing as love if you dont end up with your first serious teenage crush and love of your life . you only get one chance to love and if you lose that chance as in you do not marry your teenage or first love of your life-everything after that is lust and fades out. so based on the fact that there is no such thing as love unless you married your first lover- then it is always possible to cheat on anybody who is not your first love. only thing that will prevent someone from cheating is a morbid and genuine fear of God. nothing less would do it.

POINT BEING-LADIES AND MEN, DO YOURSELF A FAVOR- TRY YOUR POSSIBLE BEST TO MARRY YOUR FIRST BOYFRIEND OR GIRLFRIEND THAT YOU ARE SERIOUSLY IN LOVE WITH BECAUSE IF YOU DONT ? IT GOES DOWNHILL FROM THERE. GOD HAS PROGRAMMED MAN TO ONLY HAVE ONE CHANCE AT GENUINE LOVE. DONT SCREW IT UP
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Adesiji77: 5:51am On Sep 16, 2015
Marrtynze:
Bro, seriously she doesn't see anything wrong wit U cheating, lyk ar U even for real, dat gal is prolly gone frm u, which lady wud be cool wit her man cheating nd jez turn d oda eye if dere is real nd true luv in it, reason bro nd reason well

Don't mind the OP. He is either a learner or he is pretending to be one.
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Adesiji77: 5:55am On Sep 16, 2015
Aitee1:
Very possible!!!

How? Expatiate please
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by sukkot: 5:55am On Sep 16, 2015
chuna1985:








Solomon Married 300 wives n had 700 concubine.... Do the math.
SOL o mon is not a real person. its an allegorical character in the bible. SOL means SUN.

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Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by papauju(m): 5:57am On Sep 16, 2015
What you are doing is not good, but can't hold yourself why not marry the outside, girlgirl to the house, cheating is not only fu££ing outside, doin thing outside his/her knowledge too is chcheating
Best of luck
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Nobody: 6:03am On Sep 16, 2015
Love is more than that euphoric feeling you have toward your orente. It should be progressive. It is an action which is continuous.

These actions include but are not limited to the following :
Providing for her
Protecting her
Giving her a feeling of happiness and safety
DEDICATING YOUR BODY TO ONLY HER
Honoring her with everything you've got
Etc

Sexual temptation is inherent in everyman not so that we can jump from one woman to another, but so that We can demonstrate our ability to dedicate our body to the one we love.

If you truly love this woman, then restraining your prck is part of your commitments to her.
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Timoleon(m): 6:07am On Sep 16, 2015
might fvck one too babes but dont consider it cheating.
whuz khalifa 2011, get your shit.
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Nobody: 6:13am On Sep 16, 2015
some guys r polygamous in nature,it is normal nd abnormal grin bt u cn still help ursef my BF doesn't cheat,

thts y I love him sincerely,

in ur case, u need the apc slongan, do sumfin fast abt it b4 u gt married grin thts my advice tho
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by amiskurie(m): 6:23am On Sep 16, 2015
Lasgidy1:
I'm deeply in love with my orente. She means so much to me and I hold her in high esteem. I can't do without hearing from her at least 3 times daily despite my schedule at work on all days but I've come to realize that despite my unfailing love for her, I still cheat on her. Though, once she caught me cheating on her but she won't walk away. I believe she's forced to assume now that cheating is in the DNA of most men.

To the guys here, is it really possible to love your wife or babe so dearly and cheat on her? When you cheat on her, is it still fair to boast of your love for her? Also, why do most men cheat? Is it really true that cheating is in the DNA of men? Should we conclude its as a result of rampant moral decadence? Is there a way to stop it?
Cc: mods please do the needful
Well it's not easy o,but I haven't since I found my new love.
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Lero15(m): 6:36am On Sep 16, 2015
ilobasama:
Brother you dont love your lady. If you do you wont cheat on her.

And NO, not all men cheat. Only weak and irresponsible men do that.

Once again, you dont love her, you can never love someone and cheat on them

On point.

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Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by ekmike(m): 6:36am On Sep 16, 2015
True Love doesn't cheat

Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Pain(m): 6:39am On Sep 16, 2015
ilobasama:
Brother you dont love your lady. If you do you wont cheat on her.

And NO, not all men cheat. Only weak and irresponsible men do that.

Once again, you dont love her, you can never love someone and cheat on them

The world will always have its fair share of pretentious people. Even in faceless forums. I know this is hard to swallow...

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Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by Ibadanchief(m): 6:39am On Sep 16, 2015
Lasgidy1:
I'm deeply in love with my orente. She means so much to me and I hold her in high esteem. I can't do without hearing from her at least 3 times daily despite my schedule at work on all days but I've come to realize that despite my unfailing love for her, I still cheat on her. Though, once she caught me cheating on her but she won't walk away. I believe she's forced to assume now that cheating is in the DNA of most men.


To the guys here, is it really possible to love your wife or babe so dearly and cheat on her? When you cheat on her, is it still fair to boast of your love for her? Also, why do most men cheat? Is it really true that cheating is in the DNA of men? Should we conclude its as a result of rampant moral decadence? Is there a way to stop it?
Cc: mods please do the needful


Guy as far as you are not married to her, enjoy your life, you never can tell she might be advanced in what you call cheating...
Re: Is It Possible To Be In Love And Still Cheat On Your Spouse? by ZaraBrains(m): 6:39am On Sep 16, 2015
whizqueen:
According to my ex boyfriend, yes it's possible. Still don't understand how

Its 100% posible, more reason I dnt take relationships so serious cos anything can happen. When it happens, I do overlook them

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