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Re: 6 Years Of Relationship And Want Out, Please Need Serious Help! by liquidmetall: 7:18pm On Sep 19, 2015 |
Nitefury: Oga American!! This is the best post on this thread,, ,she has moved on since, claiming she was waiting for you, don't f**king give her a dime How did you know she wasn't sexualy involved with the guys she met . God knows I can never act like this, I don't even need any advice on this.... 2 Likes |
Re: 6 Years Of Relationship And Want Out, Please Need Serious Help! by GboyegaD(m): 7:41pm On Sep 19, 2015 |
dulux07: He's filed for asylum as such he can't visit Nigeria at least for now. They should work out the student visa thing instead. |
Re: 6 Years Of Relationship And Want Out, Please Need Serious Help! by silami(m): 8:25pm On Sep 19, 2015 |
liquidmetall:totally agreed with your submission and I think the op should just man up and call it a quit. |
Re: 6 Years Of Relationship And Want Out, Please Need Serious Help! by dulux07(m): 8:26pm On Sep 19, 2015 |
GboyegaD:SMH, this issue is jst so complicated. |
Re: 6 Years Of Relationship And Want Out, Please Need Serious Help! by drey076(m): 9:38pm On Sep 19, 2015 |
oluface: |
Re: 6 Years Of Relationship And Want Out, Please Need Serious Help! by GboyegaD(m): 11:44pm On Sep 19, 2015 |
dulux07: It really is thus, makes it difficult to advice him. |
Re: 6 Years Of Relationship And Want Out, Please Need Serious Help! by Nobody: 12:04am On Sep 20, 2015 |
very big scale wey go weigh reach 1000kg Slimzjoe: |
Re: 6 Years Of Relationship And Want Out, Please Need Serious Help! by AfroKnight: 12:06am On Sep 20, 2015 |
Leave her. She has repeatedly cheated on you so what are you still waiting for? Let her go and marry anyone of those guys she has been dating. 1 Like |
Re: 6 Years Of Relationship And Want Out, Please Need Serious Help! by ronald4lif(m): 12:46am On Sep 20, 2015 |
prettyjo: Kedu ife anyi melu nwanyi Anambra 1 Like |
Re: 6 Years Of Relationship And Want Out, Please Need Serious Help! by silami(m): 4:03am On Sep 20, 2015 |
AfroKnight:on point! |
Re: 6 Years Of Relationship And Want Out, Please Need Serious Help! by AfroKnight: 8:10am On Sep 20, 2015 |
silami:Thanks bro |
Re: 6 Years Of Relationship And Want Out, Please Need Serious Help! by silami(m): 8:22am On Sep 20, 2015 |
prettyjo:women! 1 Like |
Re: 6 Years Of Relationship And Want Out, Please Need Serious Help! by sluvy4tune(m): 11:13am On Sep 20, 2015 |
dulux07: Na true sha! Body no be firewood....and konji has everly been a bastard ever since the days of Adam and Eve Reasons why i dont subscribe to long distance relationship |
Re: 6 Years Of Relationship And Want Out, Please Need Serious Help! by silami(m): 5:59pm On Sep 20, 2015 |
sluvy4tune:faithfulness is also key ingredients of any successful relationship |
Re: 6 Years Of Relationship And Want Out, Please Need Serious Help! by Nobody: 6:31pm On Sep 20, 2015 |
Chibuhealth:can't you advise or type your opinion without displaying your stupidity- ? are you God's assistant to know who he punishes and who he doesn't? you guys opining that the op should comeback and marry her can't you understand the op is trying to find his feet and now isn't time for expenses. Op dig deep in your heart, do you still love her? the love is reducing because of the information you got and that can really change and you guy's mind including the financial and life crisis you were fighting can also affect your decision right now. Only you can really take this decision maybe after reading all the good and scraps of advice here. IMO I'll advise you to give yourself a week and think about and to really know if that's what you really want. A week because it seems like you are on pressure from someone now. Take your time. |
Re: 6 Years Of Relationship And Want Out, Please Need Serious Help! by Nobody: 6:33pm On Sep 20, 2015 |
Chibuhealth:can't you advise or type your opinion without displaying your stupidity- ? are you God's assistant to know who he punishes and who he doesn't? you guys opining that the op should comeback and marry her can't you understand the op is trying to find his feet and now isn't time for expenses. Op dig deep in your heart, do you still love her? the love is reducing because of the information you got and that can really change a guy's heart and the financial and life crisis you were fighting can also affect your decision right now. Only you can really take this decision maybe after reading all the good and scraps of advice here. IMO I'll advise you to give yourself a week and think about and to really know if that's what you really want. A week because it seems like you are on pressure from someone now but try to recall the Time you spent with your fiancee and the kind of person she is, can you afford to lose her? is she the supportive kind? her personality has parts to play in by is decision making . Take your time. I'm not trying to plant negative thoughts but Another thing is has she been faithful like you? are you a back up while she waits for the opportunity to grab another guy? is this love or pity? what's the possibility of you not hating her maybe after you must have married her and things happens not to work out as planned? you might blame her later for it. a lot is involved in this, personally I'll call it quits if it's going jeopardize the future in order to save everyone the headache. I have an uncle who had something similar situation like you and the girl came to the states without his consent and my uncle took her in despite the advice he was given and now I can tell you he regrets it. I love love but reality can be a pain in the azz if the mind and reasoning is not applied to heart matters, once again if I'm in this situation I'll have to let her go but will find a way to give her something reasonable (not like paying her off). Prayab it too and May God help you make the right decision 1 Like |
Re: 6 Years Of Relationship And Want Out, Please Need Serious Help! by moki123: 8:58pm On Sep 20, 2015 |
icedbeatz:Thank you so much for your advice, i really treasure it. God bless |
Re: 6 Years Of Relationship And Want Out, Please Need Serious Help! by Nobody: 9:12pm On Sep 20, 2015 |
Nitefury:may God bless you bro, they were all posting like the girl is a saint and the guy the devil = guilt tripping him. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 6 Years Of Relationship And Want Out, Please Need Serious Help! by silami(m): 3:11am On Sep 21, 2015 |
icedbeatz:tell me about it bro |
Re: 6 Years Of Relationship And Want Out, Please Need Serious Help! by moki123: 6:35am On Sep 28, 2015 |
Thank you guys for all the suggestions. i am trusting God to guide me through and out of it. |
Re: 6 Years Of Relationship And Want Out, Please Need Serious Help! by Akeem79(m): 5:08am On Oct 01, 2015 |
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Re: 6 Years Of Relationship And Want Out, Please Need Serious Help! by Princess4eva(f): 8:38am On Oct 01, 2015 |
flyca: Thank you for your contribution. Like you rightly said, she may never recover from the trauma should he walk away. @ Op, who furnished you with those tales of her escapades? For all you care those doubts may be unfounded, can you live with the fact that you helped destroy a life? Give it a second thought you may be making a mistake, plus that bit about 1million is irritating. She is your girl, talk to her. In every relationship, communication is key and from what we're able to deduce she has been understanding and co-operative. Tall and short is don't leave her based on these flimsy excuses. 1 Like |
Re: 6 Years Of Relationship And Want Out, Please Need Serious Help! by moki123: 5:41pm On Oct 02, 2015 |
Princess4eva:If you had read my post very well, you will see where i stated that she told me about escapades, so it is not a hearsay. the issue is not even about her involvement, but about the fact that i don't want the relation being prolong any longer due to my inability to come home for and she is under intense pressure from family and friends. I love and will do anything to help her go through it with less stress. we will both be hurt. thanks |
Re: 6 Years Of Relationship And Want Out, Please Need Serious Help! by silami(m): 6:01pm On Oct 02, 2015 |
moki123:my brother just follow your heart forget these hidiots |
Re: 6 Years Of Relationship And Want Out, Please Need Serious Help! by Chibuhealth(f): 6:06pm On Oct 23, 2015 |
icedbeatz:you are just crazy? Anyway Who did write d long note to read? Smh**** some people are stu.pid |
Re: 6 Years Of Relationship And Want Out, Please Need Serious Help! by Nobody: 8:59pm On Oct 23, 2015 |
Chibuhealth:it's definitely not meant for a numb skull with deteriorated brains so I understand you. |
Re: 6 Years Of Relationship And Want Out, Please Need Serious Help! by Richiy(f): 9:50pm On Oct 23, 2015 |
...and thunder will fire any man/boy I hustled with that wants to dump me after six years.... OP you can NEVER pay her off. |
Re: 6 Years Of Relationship And Want Out, Please Need Serious Help! by Chibuhealth(f): 7:23am On Oct 24, 2015 |
icedbeatz:then why did you quote me? Who is now d Numbskull? Idio.t |
Re: 6 Years Of Relationship And Want Out, Please Need Serious Help! by Nobody: 8:00am On Oct 24, 2015 |
Chibuhealth:you're undeniably undefeated so you are still holding the crown and I never dare to challenge your reign in the world of dumb azzes so by all means rule on, the throne is yours hun. |
Re: 6 Years Of Relationship And Want Out, Please Need Serious Help! by Nobody: 8:12am On Oct 24, 2015 |
Richiy:I like that "man I hustled with" part most though common sense instills that the two people in the relationship should define their aim and prospect of the relationship as it goes on, that's why you ladies have to know your partner's intentions, the next step of the relationship and stuff. Eg if he dumps you after 6 years of hustling with him is not a prerequisite for marriage but rather it is for your share in the business or investment definitely not marriage my dear unless he had previously promised to marry you hmmmm only then you are right and thunder might blast him but the damage is done already. Let's live with at least 3years future in speculation. |
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