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Re: My Gf Told Me She Aborted In Her Last Relationship by nuesaweso(f): 3:59pm On May 01, 2009 |
Re: My Gf Told Me She Aborted In Her Last Relationship by JJYOU: 4:00pm On May 01, 2009 |
nues aweso:God is just sir. He will not require this blood from you. if she has changed and is good person i will say forget and ask for grace and do the right thing with her. the blood is on the account of the wicked everything goes society that our people have become. when we were godless idol worshippers we were not this morally bankrupt now we have all form s of church and sects of islam yet are like this. God help us. ThiefOfHearts:she did right. it is the society that allows the level of promiscuity i blame. you know it saddens me when i here our people say a girl is spoil in the west because she wears trousers whereas the non trouser wearing angella pretenders they have in nigeria are like i always says glorified hookers in all but name. the girl is right to do the needfull. she is just unfortunate to be product of nigerias immorality nues aweso:dont blame her my dear. you asked for info you couldnt use. i dont no any pure man. not even pope could say he is pure. we are all wretched siinners. sinner emeritus as a freind would say we all are including your lovely "pure" self. forgive and let God do the rest. good to se a man fast and pray about relationship. you have done well you may now have to go for counselling because this is past your pay grade boy. how old are you by the way? |
Re: My Gf Told Me She Aborted In Her Last Relationship by chikito1(f): 4:02pm On May 01, 2009 |
@ Akinagirl, Exactly. Funny how people point fingers and see the speck of dust in fellow beings eye and they cannot see the log of wood in theirs. Whatever happened to the word for FORGIVE. Hope you know you are not better that her? We all are sinners simple, and we need his GRACE to see us through. Capish, |
Re: My Gf Told Me She Aborted In Her Last Relationship by JJYOU: 4:04pm On May 01, 2009 |
nues aweso:[size=18pt]COUNSELLING SIR[/size]. WE HAVE SEEN IT ALL BEFORE. THERE IS ALWAYS A WAY. chikito1:[size=18pt]SINNER EMERITTUS WE ALL ARE[/size] |
Re: My Gf Told Me She Aborted In Her Last Relationship by platinumnk(f): 4:14pm On May 01, 2009 |
JJYOU: hear hear |
Re: My Gf Told Me She Aborted In Her Last Relationship by emilyone(f): 4:18pm On May 01, 2009 |
@ poster i believe if u sincerely love her as u have claimed u will not find it difficult to forgive her bet u, if u truly love her u wont come here seeking peoples advice just follow your heart pls. |
Re: My Gf Told Me She Aborted In Her Last Relationship by JJYOU: 4:37pm On May 01, 2009 |
emilyone:dont follow no heart bros. this is time to follow the WORD. you lead her all the way. you confessed she confessed. you probably confesed to the koka kuola you stole and the mummys money you took too lets not do the lies today then she did open up. she is was vulnerable too and tot table was being cleared but now you are dragging more mess unto the table. this is beyond your grade as i said. i dont know how old you are but seriously consider counselling. we all have a past as christians the cross and the blood covers that so just cover it too. love covers multitude of sins sir. if God marks iniquity we all would be down under today. past is past. mount zion films have a film on this tyhe boy said he was a cultist in uniben the girl said she was campus prostitute. they went through a lot that strenghtened their faith but God is an ever faithful God. |
Re: My Gf Told Me She Aborted In Her Last Relationship by ThiefOfHearts(f): 4:42pm On May 01, 2009 |
question is why should be asking HIm for forgiveness? She (stupidly) told him something about her past, what's the asking for forgiveness for? Is he God? Forgiveness is between her, her God and maybe the person who caused the situation. Wetin concern new dude with forgiveness, it's all whether or not he's willing to accept what happen. Dont see why she needs his forgiveness or why he should feel he should forgive her. for what? did she commit it against YOU? |
Re: My Gf Told Me She Aborted In Her Last Relationship by platinumnk(f): 4:57pm On May 01, 2009 |
ThiefOfHearts:Because they planned to get married. I fear for your husbands oh |
Re: My Gf Told Me She Aborted In Her Last Relationship by ThiefOfHearts(f): 5:00pm On May 01, 2009 |
what does that have to do with anything? they are whining about forgiveness, what they should be doing is getting her checked out to make sure her uterus is fine and she wont have reproductive issues in the future that's if he accepts her after this |
Re: My Gf Told Me She Aborted In Her Last Relationship by tpiah: 5:03pm On May 01, 2009 |
ThiefOfHearts: the woman was naive, unfortunately. |
Re: My Gf Told Me She Aborted In Her Last Relationship by platinumnk(f): 5:11pm On May 01, 2009 |
ThiefOfHearts: I believe some things you need to be honest with. If they are in the doctors office checking out her uterus, and the doctor casually says that she had a previous abortion witout her husband knowing, how can the husband feel? Some things need to be told. |
Re: My Gf Told Me She Aborted In Her Last Relationship by Nobody: 5:13pm On May 01, 2009 |
nues aweso: you are just amazing?! is there men like you in 9ja?! blood of the unborn child?! condition of the womb. you FAILED MISERABLY!!!! you never loved that woman, move on. this is the macho/ego bullshit that get men like you breaking up good relationships and landing with women that you dont love "but are pure" in your eyes. you are the kind of man that leaves a great woman that is honest with you and end up with a former ashawo who probably went to do her trade in far away land and never told you. |
Re: My Gf Told Me She Aborted In Her Last Relationship by ThiefOfHearts(f): 5:15pm On May 01, 2009 |
platinumnk: This is something she should know for herself before getting into another relationship. If she had a problem with her uterus, then i'd say she had better let the next person know. |
Re: My Gf Told Me She Aborted In Her Last Relationship by ThiefOfHearts(f): 5:16pm On May 01, 2009 |
MRbrownJAY: true dat. |
Re: My Gf Told Me She Aborted In Her Last Relationship by prittigrrr(f): 5:23pm On May 01, 2009 |
Some thoughts to ponder: 1. All have sinned and come short of the glory of God. 2. Ye that is without sin among you, let him cast the first stone. 3. Judge not lest ye be judged. 4. God will cast our sins into the sea of forgetfulness. If God has forgiven this woman the sins of her past, why can this man accept this woman, There is now no condemnation to them who are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh but after the spirit. If this lady has renounced this act how can this man be a partaker? This act is past, not present. If you love her accept her. Make sure you dont become a hypocrite. Just b/c this was not your sin, you are guilty of something. Let no man think more highly of himself than he ought. |
Re: My Gf Told Me She Aborted In Her Last Relationship by JJYOU: 6:58pm On May 01, 2009 |
does any ane know the mt. zion film title? we all have a past. JJYOU: ThiefOfHearts:toh, i was just praying temporary blindness for you, tpia and telefone without wire on this. i know she is definately coming herebefore i come from church now 2 of u have shown your face. pls mercy my dear sisters. mercy i beg. |
Re: My Gf Told Me She Aborted In Her Last Relationship by JJYOU: 7:02pm On May 01, 2009 |
@ Op, if i was you, i would use the fact she can tell me some thing as big as this to praise her and boost her very low confidence. here is help if you dont mind.
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Re: My Gf Told Me She Aborted In Her Last Relationship by Sauron1: 7:12pm On May 01, 2009 |
nues aweso: U should be glad she confessed to you. . . . . . . Take it on the chin and move on.
Errrrrrrrrrr, your girlfriend was not raped, was she?? 2 consenting adults had sex and she got pregnant. . . . . .How is this the guy's fault??
If you are sincere and clean like you claim, this shouldn't be too hard to take. Just take it on the chin. |
Re: My Gf Told Me She Aborted In Her Last Relationship by tpiah: 7:28pm On May 01, 2009 |
JJYOU: I think you're alarming yourself unnecessarily. The average Naija male cant handle being told his girlfriend had an abortion. Even some men whose girlfriends did multiple abortions on their behalf, can still condemn a woman they're dating, if they hear she has that in her past. Some will condemn a woman for being a baby mama. Others will condemn her for having had an abortion. What exactly is your fear here? The woman should ask God's forgiveness first, and the rest will fall into place. But what she doesnt need is someone who will hold that against her forever. I pray you also get temporarily blinded, btw. |
Re: My Gf Told Me She Aborted In Her Last Relationship by nuesaweso(f): 11:00pm On May 01, 2009 |
Re: My Gf Told Me She Aborted In Her Last Relationship by JJYOU: 11:24pm On May 01, 2009 |
nues aweso:bros, u have a higher chance of not being able to inpregnant any girl for that matter than for this girl having any troubles. you are not the only man in town for goodness sake. wetin now? u dey do like say the girl don win lottery meeting you. are u all that? |
Re: My Gf Told Me She Aborted In Her Last Relationship by nuesaweso(f): 11:34pm On May 01, 2009 |
Its not easy o, I must confess but I'll dust it off sha. God dey! |
Re: My Gf Told Me She Aborted In Her Last Relationship by ladybam(f): 12:05am On May 02, 2009 |
@poster comon.as long as her womb is not damaged n she is totally repentant of it, den y should'nt u give her a chance |
Re: My Gf Told Me She Aborted In Her Last Relationship by tope2000(f): 12:10am On May 02, 2009 |
If she can still have babies then whats ur stress . . . . atleast she told u |
Re: My Gf Told Me She Aborted In Her Last Relationship by ThiefOfHearts(f): 12:22am On May 02, 2009 |
nues aweso: Only thing she owes you is a fertility test. |
Re: My Gf Told Me She Aborted In Her Last Relationship by Akinagirl(f): 12:44am On May 02, 2009 |
Now I'am starting to wonder if she needs someone like you? I think she will do better finding someone who will not hold this over her head for the rest of her life. Poster please give it up, you are not perfect! |
Re: My Gf Told Me She Aborted In Her Last Relationship by JJYOU: 1:41am On May 02, 2009 |
ThiefOfHearts:will he have one too? i dont trust this boy at all. he is one of those people that will throw this word like a weapon to damage the girl later. |
Re: My Gf Told Me She Aborted In Her Last Relationship by ThiefOfHearts(f): 2:06am On May 02, 2009 |
JJYOU: which is why i said her action was stupid. I can imagine hem arguing one day and he calls her "Abortion Queen" as an attack |
Re: My Gf Told Me She Aborted In Her Last Relationship by acidrop(f): 2:12am On May 02, 2009 |
u cant hold that against her. . . . .u dont even knw the circumstances around it |
Re: My Gf Told Me She Aborted In Her Last Relationship by REALTRUTH1: 2:31am On May 02, 2009 |
@poster: This is childish and not issue of morals or principles, I can quit a relationship with a girl who never had an abortion if she does not capture my dreams and passions for life,,,and I would marry a girl who had an abortion though captures my dreams and aspirations for life.,,, Tell if you are a saint?In the past people used to say she must be a virgin,,,but life has gone beyond,,,being a virgin girl is not a guarantee to be a good wife,,,for a lady who confessed to you when she had the option to tell you a lie,,,thats the girl or lady I want to marry,,,If you know you don't want the girl,,pls leave her alone and go for non abortion girl and come here NL to tell us ur story in the future FTER u RE MARRIED, |
Re: My Gf Told Me She Aborted In Her Last Relationship by acidrop(f): 2:41am On May 02, 2009 |
abiooooo |
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