INTROVERT:
Nigeria boys will be like "but I have a bright future nah, even if I don't have money now".....






God bless you OP and like Sandra said if a guy dosent have money to spend on a girl he dosent deserve to kfcu...







And for all you nairaland boys above 25 dating 16-21 yo girls and deceiving them for kfcu, your punishment in hell will be special.

GJames:
I agree with the OP. This is the reason I have never made any attempt to woo a girl.
Money first, girl later.

GJames:
I agree with the OP. This is the reason I have never made any attempt to woo a girl.
Money first, girl later.

Oliviaarims:
I think this is worth making front page. But in my opinion,I'd say it's different strokes 4 different folks. Having more than enough money to spend does not guarantee happiness nd the success ov a relationship. There are so many ways to spice a relationship without d guy necessarily being rich. The attraction counts a lot...there's got to be love and a desire to stick together. There are girls out there who can conveniently put up with an average guy without looking out 4 some rich dude to come whisk her away. It's all about individual choices nd preferences. No die-hard rules...
I favour prospects,potentials...ambition....Again, I say..different strokes 4 different folks...





#Philosopher Quëën#

Oliviaarims:
I think this is worth making front page. But in my opinion,I'd say it's different strokes 4 different folks. Having more than enough money to spend does not guarantee happiness nd the success ov a relationship. There are so many ways to spice a relationship without d guy necessarily being rich. The attraction counts a lot...there's got to be love and a desire to stick together. There are girls out there who can conveniently put up with an average guy without looking out 4 some rich dude to come whisk her away. There are just certain things fancy outings nd instant luxury do not make up for. Buh,if u're lucky to get a man who's got doz qualities u desire plus money,then that's just some good luck. It's all about individual choices nd preferences. No die-hard rules...
I favour prospects,potentials...ambition....Again, I say..different strokes 4 different folks...






#Philosopher Quëën#

philcupid:
Wonder what kinda love y'all think money will give you, using money to build a relationship is like the lust you feel after se*x, it's vain and has no depth, so shallow when it's no longer coming u realize you only had a companion who was there to help you waste the money..... OP, if at all you really want a girl to love you, money should be secondary but not pushed to the background too coz it's important to sustain to an extent, we should be loved for who we are not how many zeros we have.... And all ya hungry girls quickly agreeing with OP, you also should be ready to offer more than just puss* to your man. PEACE#

daxlasaint:


Am all for love but pls take a minute and picture this; a loving relationship between two people who have virtually zero naira between them... how "Happy and lovefilled " would that relationship be say two months down the line with the brokeness being an ever present cloud over it?

virginboy1:

If only 80% of our girls could reason like you... Nice one Madam

Oliviaarims:

I'm not talking broke here...I said average. What does being broke,in ur definition entail anyway?

Oliviaarims:

I'm not talking broke here...I said average. What does being broke,in ur definition entail anyway?

daxlasaint:


Ok, average is reasonable ... thought you meant broke... my bad

... as for my definition of broke, hmmn... broke is when your income or available cash is insufficient to cover your NEEDS, much less your WANTS... e.g. my humble self, although I earn what the average nigerian will call a very good salary... after my NEEDS, am almost always broke (at least. By the standard of how buoyant someone on my salary is supposed to be)...