Janix2:
I need honest answers.
Notice this days that Women earn than men.

who is this one

You WOMEN ARE always backward

Just look at the kind of question you are asking?

faitheverest:
it depends... But if i dont help my husband financially,even my boyfriend,who will?

your husband side chick will help him

How are the mighty fallen..when big problem cari person knack for ground, small ones go follow jollificate.
Na Nigeria cause am sha, abi if no be as tins dey for we kontry how man for dey collect moni frm him wife&wife go get nerve come social media dey ask vomitus questn!
For beta, for wetin..abi u forget...

bettercreature:
Its an insult to any man to collect money from his wife

Is it an insult if a wife collect money from her husband?

MrHighSea:
Her job z to be counting my money

I like dis.

If her husband is a good man, sincere, kind, supportive, why not. Women are very considerate and loyal partners and would go all the way, if they see that their husband's got them.

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[quote author=Rukkydelta post=39391080]No! No!

Rukkydelta:
No! No! No! No! No!

the intensity t which u typed this No ehn....ah, ur husband ooooooo.

gabazin080:
What's the big deal there. Though am working but my gf will bring her salary to me before taking out of it because she trusted me.

Don't let her c this thread o

lol

Janix2:
I need honest answers.
Notice this days that Women earn than men.

everything narrows down to agreement, many people go into a marriage without solid plans on how it would be run, financed, and grow. if marriage is a life long thing then it is much more important than a career and i don't need to tell how we all prepare and plan our careers but sadly jump into marriage believing that it will take care of it self. It is very important to discuss about finances marriage because it is the second cause of broken marriages after sex.

there are methods being agreed upon by couples in financing their marriages

1) bring all the earnings together, draw out a budget and implement it. only humble, united, similar life style, and submissive couples should use this method and it should be agreed upon before marriage.

2) share the bills in accordance with your earning. this also takes a high level of agreement and trust

3) who ever has the money pays the bills. there is usually confusion.

4) the under earning spouse doesn't care and expects the high earner to take care of the bills. there is a lot of tension and disrespect in this home.

they may be more but these are the few i know

The most important thing is defining the modalities of your marriage before you go into it, talk about everything finances, sex child training, church, where to live, parents, vehicles, house chores, savings, future plans, short medium long term goals, vision. that's what courtship is meant for no going to fast food restaurants, clubs, and having sex.

Marriage is a team (Together Each Achieves More). it is also the industry where you give up the I's for the US.

Yeah it is wise, but always with a meter. Not much but enough to go out and get a cup of coffee for example. Keep her happy but be carefull not to be excessive.

nawtibownie:
It depends tho. I won't give a lazy husband who's not ready to work up to half of my salary because he's definitely going to blow it up.

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So you already factored in that there is a possibility that you will marry a lazy, spendthrift husband

Why can't you wish the best to yourself?
/

If he's not as financially buoyant as you then it's a no brainner..

only a lazy nigerian man would ask this silly question

[quote author=Janix2 post=39380143]

Both the wife's and husband's money belong to the family.

Some families have the arrangement where the wife's income is used for, say, feeding and other minor expenses.

Some men don't really bother about their wives' money because they have enough of their own.

But that doesn't mean she should hold onto her money as if they are strangers.

If she keeps her money, what is she going to do with it?

if the husband no chop the money some one will surely do

A man is the head of the house and it snot a normal thing for the wife to give him "pocket money"!
That is why men are required to "become a man" before marrying a wife.
God job, good pay.
It is the wife that is supposed to collect "house-keeping money" from her husband, even if she is still earning.
"Hand of the giver is always on-top".


But there are circumstances where a man loses his job temporarily .. while the wife is still working and earning.
In such case, the wife owes it a duty to share her income with her husband, after-all, she was also collecting from his back then, and there was no hullaballo!

I know "most" women are "greedily selfish" by nature.
You will know that most breakages in marriage starts when the husband loses his source of income and the wife is expected to "assist" in the family upkeep.
Women are just not wired for family leadership because they dont have that grace.

An Old, wise man once told me "You never know your wife until you lose your source of income and she assumes the "House headship" temporarily.
He recommended that every married man act out being unemployed and (no income) for a few months, to really know their wife.

it turns out he was right, in all cases l have seen.




Finally, if you "TRULY LOVE" someone, sharing ANYTHING (including your money) will be the least of your worry, when you are with them


Lastpage!

fart:
only a lazy nigerian man would ask this silly question

How old are you, Mr. Foreigner?

Shut da phuck-Up if you have nothing "Upstairs" to say...


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Nemerulez:
If her husband is a good man, sincere, kind, supportive, why not. Women are very considerate and loyal partners and would go all the way, if they see that their husband's got them.

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Every woman automatically has excellent qualities and can collect money?

No man has those and all men must fulfil certain criteria first before getting money if in need?

Wonderful!

Why do I smell hypocrisy?

FYI, most men are way too proud to depend on women. While most ladies have no qualms depending on men.

Apart from a few lazy oafs, it takes serious misfortune and emasculation for men to need a lady's money.

And when he truly needs it temporarily, don't rub it in his face.

Women are the real definition of selfishness. Men can give, women have to consult Ifa before they can give. What a world.

Janix2:
I need honest answers.
Notice this days that Women earn than men.

is it wise, imagine the question.
dont give nah! is it wise.

Nemerulez:
If her husband is a good man, sincere, kind, supportive, why not. Women are very considerate and loyal partners and would go all the way, if they see that their husband's got them.

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and if not?.divorce simple., is it wise.

should be the other way around.

Pls it is not wise! What is she giving him the money for?
Housekeeping allowance,his personal upkeep or what?
The man will just use her money and maintain his sidechic(s)

Miami11:
If she is crazy znd deranged she gives out part of her cheque.

talkative...... As if your mom dont help the house with her personal money?. Almost all middle and lower class families around the world share home responsibility.

People like you end up digging empty gold mine and marry jobless men cos of over sabi.

Acidosis:
When it comes to money, 99% of Nigerian women forget the word Love.

Yes o...esp with boyfriends,husband is slightly different though

Janix2:
I need honest answers.
Notice this days that Women earn than men.

Na your house dem dey earn pass man.

Abeg, which job you dey do?

Miami11:
If she is crazy znd deranged she gives out part of her cheque.

u dont understand what marriage is, u clearly have a lot to learn

It depends on the kind of family bond they share..A pity women nowadays only want mens money but can't give out their own money.




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Sh has it too much to waste; and she shud be ready to give and never stop.
The day she stops is the beginning of war

Am new here, pls welcm me, infact make Una clap 4 me. The journey no b here o