ThoniaSlim:

Its interesting that when it comes to a man marrying a woman who already has a kid(s) from someone else, then there is a comma or hesitation. . .but when its reversed its expected that the woman should have no issues whatsover marrying a man who already has a kid(s) with some other woman?

it's a mans world they say

why not

better her than someone who has aborted a couple of times

ThoniaSlim:

Its interesting that when it comes to a man marrying a woman who already has a kid(s) from someone else, then there is a comma or hesitation. . .but when its reversed its expected that the woman should have no issues whatsover marrying a man who already has a kid(s) with some other woman?

Hey Thonia - I wouldnt say it is "expected that the woman should have no issues." From my observation, the women are more forgiving about this than the men are. As a matter of fact, I know a bunch of women who find it attractive to see a father with his son/daughter at the park, mall or where ever. They always have this "assumption" that "if he can take care of his daughter like that, it shows that he would be able to take care of me like that." Trust me, I know a lot of guys who use their daughters especially as chick magnets. These guys are wolves mind you. But hey, it works!! The chicks that fall for it never seem to realize that there maybe a good reason him and baby mama aren't married.

@ Sissy;

My sis, how body tonight now? Na so I see you again.

Lax75:


@ Sissy;

My sis, how body tonight now? Na so I see you again.

body dey fine jare, u nko? i dey oo

Sissy,

I dey inside my skin ooo. Just watched that star trek movie tonight, not bad not bad at all. I also recommend the movie obsession. Kai. I pray say make I no ever run into that kind chick oooo.

not a fan of those scifi movies. it's boring to me . obsession was so predictable

Yeah it was but sheesh, still dont wanna ever run into tht kinda chick.

Swissess:

no, but after reading here that a guy is concerned about getting married to a girl that is a single year older than him, a difference of four, five years seems to be an eternety.

Nigerian men likes to be in control. all my brothers have wife younger than them.

But why are you more concern than your friend?

It is her problem to deal with. Everyone has to make their experience.