Mindfulness:


I truly understand.



Killing is against the law. Adultery and polygamy are not. A lady that dates a married man, dates a person who has got a free will and can say no.

You don't know adultery can lead to killings? Via HBP, depression on the wife's part.. then, via STDs on either or both spouses ....etc...

PresVA:
You don't know adultery can lead to killings? Via HBP, depression on the wife's part.. then, via STDs on either or both spouses ....etc...

If the wife develops HBP because her hubby is cheating, then there is a serious issue and it is her UNHEALTHY dependency on another human being, which can NEVER work out fine.

Driving a car can kill you too.

Ewuro4:


That's it, Just for Procreation?

Biochemical wine aka Love?

So to say.

So I'm guessing the solution is to find a way to improve this Bio-cocktail potency, no?

Yes and we shouldn't forget that humans also desire stability and friendship - well, at least some.

You're def on a mission here

I tell ya.

Thank you Mindfulness , 'been great & fun chatting with you.

The pleasure is on my side Ewuro. Thank you very much.

Mindfulness:


You are free to leave the thread if you are unable to stand your ground.

Stand my ground?
Against you?


Now ur making me laff...

Stop asking diversionary questions and attack my point head on... let's start from there

Deal?

babygirlfl:


Lol. At least the two of them will be punished. The one that surprises me are women who deal with mistress then go home and start begging Oga, cooking nice meals for Oga, dressing up sexy for Oga and praying for Oga.

I know right?

OR

Who knows , she may be planning for 'old age abandonment' and time to solemnly acquire what is rightful hers hence her mumuness.

Provided she has a say & she's a very relevant part of that marriage to start with. This is why we tell them to be independent and move with the right crowd.

njokusboy:


Stand my ground?
Against you?


Now ur making me laff...

Stop asking diversionary questions and attack my point head on... let's start from there

Deal?

If I don't ask questions and agree with everything you say, we will have nothing to talk about and that would be boring, don't you agree?

Another lesson for married folks, don't assume that you and your spouse must agree on everything. It will make your marriage boring.

Mindfulness:


If I don't ask questions and agree with everything you say, we will have nothing to talk about and that would be boring, don't you agree?

Another lesson for married folks, don't assume that you and your spouse must agree on everything. It will make your marriage boring.

Lol, I didn't say you should agree, I said you should state your disagreement....
Not using "chuku-chuku" tactics when you can't come up with something clever
Abi should I repost what I said?

njokusboy:


Lol, I didn't say you should agree, I said you should state your disagreement....
Not using "chuku-chuku" tactics when you can't come up with something clever
Abi should I repost what I said?

Chuku-chuku tactics.

My point is that we all do not share the same values and belief systems hence not everyone agrees that married people are off the market.

EfemenaXY:


Your last paragraph contradicts your first.

This isn't about religion but about differing perspectives. Personal opinions, some of which are based on religious beliefs.

Okay let's try this. Assuming the cheating partner here is a woman:

~ Some religions believe she should be stoned to death.

~ Some believe she should be publicly flogged / beheaded

~ Some believe she should be eviscerated prior to being burnt alive

~ Some believe she should be sacrificed to the gods

~ Some believe she should be driven out of the community / thrown into the river with a stone (or dead weight) around her neck

~ Some believe she should be left alone for Karma to deal with

So how do you reconcile these differing opinions, bearing in mind each proponent believes his / hers is superior to the others? How do you determine who's is superior without being biased?

D'you get where I'm coming from?

Nawa o, this our argument no go end today..what have I got myself into?

I don't think I did contradict myself. ..

I understand your question, you want to know how I handle differing opinions right?

To answer you, I don't believe any values/beliefs are more superior than the other.. what I know is that each person will try so hard to uphold his/her own because that's what he/she believes is right...

based on the examples you gave, If I were to give judgement, I would definitely choose one applicable to my community as the most superior because that's what I see as the right thing. ..

However, my judgement may change later if my mindset changes..

That's why I said before that it's ok to have different opinions because we see things differently. .. but coming to an agreement may be impossible except one decides to change his/her perception...

njokusboy:


Lol, I didn't say you should agree, I said you should state your disagreement....
Not using "chuku-chuku" tactics when you can't come up with something clever
Abi should I repost what I said?

Repost it.

What was it you said?

Mindfulness:


If the wife develops HBP because her hubby is cheating, then there is a serious issue and it is her UNHEALTHY dependency on another human being, which can NEVER work out fine.

Driving a car can kill you too.

It's unhealthy to trust your husband?

Really, as cocoandy said, if what you're doing hurts another unjustly, then it doesn't measure up...


I gotta run now, will come back to reply any further mentions. .

Mindfulness:


Chuku-chuku tactics.

My point is that we all do not share the same values and belief systems hence not everyone agrees that married people are off the market.

Are you implying that the single cheats do not recognise that they are doing something wrong? Don't bring isolated situations here oh

PresVA:
It's unhealthy to trust your husband?

Really, as cocoandy said, if what you're doing hurts another unjustly, then it doesn't measure up...


I gotta run now, will come back to reply any further mentions. .

It is not unhealthy to trust your husband, it is unhealthy to depend on your husband.

njokusboy:


Are you implying that the single cheats do not recognise that they are doing something wrong? Don't bring isolated situations here oh

I don't get the question. Who are single cheats?

PresVA:
Nawa o, this our argument no go end today..what have I got myself into?

I don't think I did contradict myself. ..

I understand your question, you want to know how I handle differing opinions right?

To answer you, I don't believe any values/beliefs are more superior than the other.. what I know is that each person will try so hard to uphold his/her own because that's what he/she believes is right...

based on the examples you gave, If I were to give judgement, I would definitely choose one applicable to my community as the most superior because that's what I see as the right thing. ..

However, my judgement may change later if my mindset changes..

That's why I said before that it's ok to have different opinions because we see things differently. .. but coming to an agreement may be impossible except one decides to change his/her perception...

Exactly!

Now you get my point (almost there).

Now, how d'you think it'll sound if someone says, "No, I can't discuss this topic with you because we've got differing religious (or not) backgrounds / beliefs"?

The point I'm trying to make is that learning how to express your opinion in such a way that cuts across religious beliefs is a sign of a good debator. I.e. irrespective of your religious afflictions, you should be able to level with anyone and not just a particular sect.

Interesting thread for a lazy Saturday.

Hello ladies!!

EfemenaXY:


Your last paragraph contradicts your first.

This isn't about religion but about differing perspectives. Personal opinions, some of which are based on religious beliefs.

Okay let's try this. Assuming the cheating partner here is a woman:

~ Some religions believe she should be stoned to death.

~ Some believe she should be publicly flogged / beheaded

~ Some believe she should be eviscerated prior to being burnt alive

~ Some believe she should be sacrificed to the gods

~ Some believe she should be driven out of the community / thrown into the river with a stone (or dead weight) around her neck

~ Some believe she should be left alone for Karma to deal with

So how do you reconcile these differing opinions, bearing in mind each proponent believes his / hers is superior to the others? How do you determine who's is superior without being biased?

D'you get where I'm coming from?

Choi!

How have you come up with this list? You are wicked.

Burntpalace:
Interesting thread for a lazy Saturday.

Hello ladies!!

Ileobatojo How you dey?

Ewuro4:


Ileobatojo How you dey?

Doing alright! How've you been?

Burntpalace:
Interesting thread for a lazy Saturday.

Hello ladies!!

A warm welcome. Share your views.

Burntpalace:




Doing alright! How've you been?

WHAT??!!

I don't believe you are her. Prove it.

Mindfulness:


Choi!

How have you come up with this list? You are wicked.

EfemenaXY:


WHAT??!!

I don't believe you are her. Prove it.

Lol! Efe my dearest. Sorry for not saying bye before. NL just got too time consuming. Needed to detox.


How are you?

Burntpalace:




Doing alright! How've you been?

So so , but we thank God.

Nice to have you back.

coogar ile is back in English Version.

^^Jydo and trouble making.

Thanks for the welcome. Good to see you.

Burntpalace:


Lol! Efe my dearest. Sorry for not saying bye before. NL just got too time consuming. Needed to detox.


How are you?

You've only had 2 posts and yet were "recognized" on the second post? Based on what? Nah - I don't buy it.

EfemenaXY:


You've only had 2 posts and yet were "recognized" on the second post? Based on what? Nah - I don't buy it.

Lol. Burnt palace=ileobatojo (in English).


It's really me. I could prove it by going around collecting scalps but I don't think I'll stay for long.

How can I convince you?

Yea well looks at this way.
If something belonged to someone first, because you need to consider yourself first doesn't make it right to take it. Then that means it's okay to rob someone because let's face why should I deny myself the pleasure of something you own if I can have it? Even if it makes you sad.

Those are instances where it is okay to displease yourself to please someone else.

I'm of the belief that people are free to live how they want and do they that make them happy without judgement. Only drawing the line at the point where such actions hurt others.

Mindfulness:


This is a very good argument and I used to think the same way which resulted in a serious argument with a friend of mine. I have changed my mind because why would a lady hurt the feelings of the man she so desires by rejecting him and consider the feelings of someone she doesn't even know? And why would she hurt herself by denying her own desire? Is her desire to be with someone less important than that of the wife she doesn't know?



I am in complete agreement with this.

Burntpalace:


Lol. Burnt palace=ileobatojo in English.


It's really me. I could prove it by going around collecting scalps but I don't think I'll stay for long.

How can I convince you?

She's not the only one needing convincing.

Me too.

Gosh if it's really you. Whopee!

Burntpalace:


Lol. Burnt palace=ileobatojo in English.


It's really me. I could prove it by going around collecting scalps but I don't think I'll stay for long.

How can I convince you?

Hang around for a while.

I'll give a couple of lengthy responses to a few arguments so I can discern your writing style and see if it matches up with Ile's.

Re: Scalp collection - sounds promising. You gonna do it?

cococandy:

She's not the only one needing convincing.

Me too.

Gosh if it's really you. Whopee!

Hold off on the whoopee first. Let her prove it. Too many fraudsters on nl.

cococandy:

She's not the only one needing convincing.

Me too.

Gosh if it's really you. Whopee!

Hi Coco! How's life? Good to see you.