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Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by MusingsOfALady: 8:38pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
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Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by EfemenaXY: 8:38pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
edwife: Why, thank you ma'am. |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by EfemenaXY: 8:39pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
MusingsOfALady: Lmao! |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by Nobody: 8:39pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
edwife: I enjoyed the conversation immensely but it would have been better if you hadn't ignored me. |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by Nobody: 8:41pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
MusingsOfALady: I am that I am. We agree to disagree, bottom line for me is women need to stop lying to themselves(I actually have a post on that) and placating themselves that their husbands were snared. Yes, yes, yes! That's crap. Hold your husband accountable but some can't because they were the side chick before marriage. I don't agree. |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by Nobody: 8:44pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
cococandy: Your husband belongs to you for as long as he decides to and can't be compared to an object that does not enjoy the human rights that are called free will and liberty. Those are instances where it is okay to displease yourself to please someone else. If I choose to - and anyone who puts him or herself first has my support. We should do it much more often. I'm of the belief that people are free to live how they want and do they that make them happy without judgement. Only drawing the line at the point where such actions hurt others. My well-being is more important to me than anyone else's. Am I selfish? YES! |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by Burntpalace: 8:47pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: A) tennis B) Saga C) me, sisikill, coog, saga, cool headed guy from romance section who's name I forget (aha! Debo) and the former supermod I forget D) mad that he didn't win and thought the judges were unqualified and playing favorites. |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by EfemenaXY: 8:47pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Mindfulness: Why not? Sounds like an interesting concept. Come to think of it, there may be some truth in it, based on the side-chick-now-wife's paranoia. |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by edwife(f): 8:48pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Mindfulness: To tell you the truth i was just not ready for your so many questions.I hardly debate and to start one with you will take me a day or a lot of concentration which i didn't have i am afraid. Next time i will be ready,i had a match to watch,food to cook so short answers were my only option or don't answer at all. You know before you deactivated we started getting along just fine and if you remember there is a comment i said about your personality.You are more focused on you and your opinion now and not others so don't see it this way. |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by EfemenaXY: 8:50pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Burntpalace: Rotflmao!!! Yes! Yes!! Yes!!! Yes!!!! Welcome back!! 2 Likes |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by damiso(f): 8:50pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
edwife: Some people get mind sha I know some side chics take it to a whole different level sha. I remember when I was in uni, I had one toaster (who was also toasting like 100 other girls ) .his girlfriend abi is it 'wifey' would be eyeing and giving me attitude all over campus(we had mutual friends ) it was so obvious to everyone That I was not interested in dating the guy (he was a club boy and I can't stand womanisers ) but I could never ever get over the blatant disrespect that the guy would mete out to this girl eg telling her to get down from his car while trying to chat with me )and she would not break up with him and choose to be 'eyeing or giving me attitude' all over campus when it was so obvious I was not interested. that was as a teenager o no strings,children ,marriage etc attached .that one na acid acid she for don dey pour for now Human relationships can be complicated sha. Welcome back ileobatojo. |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by Nobody: 8:50pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: Maybe some of them were "side chicks" some time in the past but the paranoia is rather the result of dependency and fear and also values, which they think are universal. |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by edwife(f): 8:51pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: Because it's usually not the case around here more often.I now choose people i discuss with. |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by Nobody: 8:52pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
edwife: Another one who seems to know me. |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by Burntpalace: 8:52pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Ewuro4: Had to take a break from NL. It was taking up too much of my time. I have to say it was worthwhile though I missed all you nlers, both naughty and nice. |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by Burntpalace: 8:54pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by edwife(f): 8:55pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Mindfulness: But honestly,i am very delighted to have you back differently.Nowadays i enjoy reading some of your posts. |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by Nobody: 8:57pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
edwife: |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by Ewuro4: 8:57pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Burntpalace: Don't blame you coz I get it. Miss you too. @naughty & nice.. Definately Naughty. Now sisikill and busybody .. E bode oh 1 Like |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by MusingsOfALady: 8:58pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Mindfulness: Why do you I feel you just want to yank my chain? |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by Nobody: 9:00pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
MusingsOfALady: I just want to get this thread going. I have an hour left before I leave the house and I don't want to get sleepy. |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by PresVA: 9:03pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
EfemenaXY:Your message here is flexibility right? There are times I compromise but unfortunately I can't do that on this matter because as a Christian, the commandment is clear.... So I told mindful it was better we ended the argument because she can NEVER convince me that adultery isn't sinful and I may never convince her on my stance too... besides I didn't want to talk too much then. .. However, I get your point but I must also tell you that you can NEVER make an opinion that will suit/cut across everyone.. people must always object. .. There's no one shoe fits all... |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by EfemenaXY: 9:04pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
edwife: Lol! I like this. I think I should borrow a leaf from your book. Burntpalace: Abeg don't ever disappear like that again. Y'all deactivating at the same time. Got me wondering if you'd all regrouped on another forum or something and were just waiting for Efe to come join una. I nearly followed suit. damiso: Now assuming this chick married that club toaster, how would she bring up her sons? And most importantly, what sort of mother-in-law would she be?? 2 Likes |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by babygirlfl: 9:04pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Ewuro4: True and like I always say choice and worth is what I believe in. Madam, this abandonment thing sha |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by MusingsOfALady: 9:05pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Mindfulness: Gotcha! Lol. Ok. Another angle is the role our society has played in this matter. Men are excused while a woman who is being cheated on is asked to try harder, wear lingerie, cook better food, offer 24/7 sex. The men are given a playful slap on the wrist (if any) and told to be more careful next time. |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by PresVA: 9:06pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Mindfulness:What's the difference between trusting your husband not to cheat and depending on your husband to be faithful? |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by EfemenaXY: 9:06pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Mindfulness: Right. So you're using us?? Gosh! I feel soooooooo used! So traumatised by this confession of yours.... |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by damiso(f): 9:07pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: I can't even begin to imagine ..I did not understand whether it was low self esteem,inferiority complex or just plain stupidity. Maybe because I have always been allergic to drama but the most reasonable reaction to me even at that young age was to break up with him Abi how hard is that I understand marriage is a bit more complicated but that example was just to show the mindset of people even from that young age. |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by Nobody: 9:08pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: I am not using you, I am entertaining you but if I were using you, you would enjoy it too. 1 Like |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by Burntpalace: 9:11pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: Lol! Hmmm, if JK, carefree, osisi, shollypopz et al regrouped on another forum, they didn't invite me Shout out to bukatyne! 2 Likes |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by bukatyne(f): 9:11pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: I am giving you a sitting ovation here 2 Likes |
Re: Beef The Other Woman? - What Not To Do! by MusingsOfALady: 9:11pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
babygirlfl: This abandonment thing in my opinion is not a great idea, except you are like 2decades younger. I mean you spend your youth suffering and smiling then when he is 60 and you are 55 you leave him and start life all over,? Start living alone or being a burden to your kids. If a woman wants to leave, leave now whole you have your youth. My opinion though |
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