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Re: Guys I Think I'm About To Marry A MONSTER, Advice Me Pls, No Matter How Harsh by jomoh: 4:06pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
Re: Guys I Think I'm About To Marry A MONSTER, Advice Me Pls, No Matter How Harsh by jomoh: 4:07pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
WhoBeThisMan: Call off the wedding totally and let everyone know why you're calling it off. They will beg on her behalf she too will beg in the end you should accede to their plea but give her and everyone the impression that you are ready to pull out of the wedding at any little sight of arrogance on her part. By this, the embarrassment would've been on her and the spotlight would forever shine on her. In other words, as long as she still believe you can walk away from the marriage, she would be very cautious with her behaviours towards you even after marriage. But whatever you do, never mention that the pastor warned you and don't make the begging too easy for them. Its a little bit on the extreme side but desperate times requires desperate measures. We know how to deal with them. 1 Like |
Re: Guys I Think I'm About To Marry A MONSTER, Advice Me Pls, No Matter How Harsh by MrPresident1: 4:07pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
sukkot: I am ElPresidente, and I endorse this message 100%. OP, WhoBeThisMan, ditch yo boxer shorts and go buy for yourself reinforced steel pants, you gon have to tear that petulant rubbish outta that termagant, there will be no half inches and no let ups no middle ground, only full scale your way or the high way hard-way-the-only-way type discipline can help you regain control now since apparently you cannot call off this wedding. In your case, were l'oko mi is better than gentulu man l'oko mi o She will unlearn and re-learn, na you be her husband and master (you need to check up the etymology of the word 'Husband') and she will love you more. www.thefreedictionary.com/husband Word History: The English word husband, even though it is a basic kinship term, is not a native English word. It comes ultimately from the Old Norse word hūsbōndi, meaning "master of a house," which was borrowed into Old English as hūsbōnda. I AM NOT SPEAKING ABOUT PHYSICAL VIOLENCE TOO. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Guys I Think I'm About To Marry A MONSTER, Advice Me Pls, No Matter How Harsh by Simitrendy: 4:09pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
With all this grammatical blunders. The story is fake It must be a Nollywood movie |
Re: Guys I Think I'm About To Marry A MONSTER, Advice Me Pls, No Matter How Harsh by sukkot: 4:11pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
MrPresident1:blood of my blood, flesh of my flesh, i salute you el Presidente. glad we get to see eye to eye again. |
Re: Guys I Think I'm About To Marry A MONSTER, Advice Me Pls, No Matter How Harsh by Nobody: 4:12pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
you already know what you need to do. |
Re: Guys I Think I'm About To Marry A MONSTER, Advice Me Pls, No Matter How Harsh by FisifunKododada: 4:12pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
E ja wo ninu o se. |
Re: Guys I Think I'm About To Marry A MONSTER, Advice Me Pls, No Matter How Harsh by kunle75(m): 4:21pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
WhoBeThisMan: you already have an answer and i dnt what else you need again |
Re: Guys I Think I'm About To Marry A MONSTER, Advice Me Pls, No Matter How Harsh by MrPresident1: 4:21pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
sukkot: I salute you too, son of my mother's womb. It is gratifying to break words again Only YAH Himself can explain the caliber of men He is manufacturing this days. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Guys I Think I'm About To Marry A MONSTER, Advice Me Pls, No Matter How Harsh by jomoh: 4:28pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
MrPresident1: The only way to break her down now it to call off the wedding in a very believable way. Also going ahead to make her believe he is ready to walk out on the marriage if she so much shows her arrogant side. |
Re: Guys I Think I'm About To Marry A MONSTER, Advice Me Pls, No Matter How Harsh by MrPresident1: 4:35pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
jomoh: You have a strong point tho' but my standpoint is also predicated on the FACT that they are already married, I do believe that when you have yanshed you are married. Wedding is formality, calling it off is useless, they are already married. Let him go to owode onirin, and get himself some iron pants, boxers onirin. He also has to grow some real steel balls too. |
Re: Guys I Think I'm About To Marry A MONSTER, Advice Me Pls, No Matter How Harsh by engrshakespeare: 4:46pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
WhoBeThisMan: Na u sabi, marry am na. It's obviously u like monsters. |
Re: Guys I Think I'm About To Marry A MONSTER, Advice Me Pls, No Matter How Harsh by Comradekenny(m): 5:05pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
Ayoemrys:Which kind advice be that.......Abegi run away as fast as you can,if u like borrow that of usain bolt,the earlier the better |
Re: Guys I Think I'm About To Marry A MONSTER, Advice Me Pls, No Matter How Harsh by jomoh: 5:06pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
MrPresident1: Am not advocating for total call off but he has to make it look very real that everyone will come begging. In that way he will let everyone know what she does that made him take the decision. In the end she will be so embarrassed with the attention and spotlight he has exposed her to, to the extent that she will be very cautious of her actions. After all the spotlight and a lot of begging, he can then accept to go ahead but still with a caveat that he will walk out at the slight sign of arrogance even after the marriage. Not even his parents must know about his plan. This would've broken her spirit so seriously to the point of confusion. She won't even be sure of what is right again. At this point he can now rebuild her in a loving way that will make her appreciate him better like the guy you quoted said. We're more like on the same page but am only giving a practical approach of how to go about it. |
Re: Guys I Think I'm About To Marry A MONSTER, Advice Me Pls, No Matter How Harsh by barcaboi(m): 5:13pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
WhoBeThisMan:bros...u have a month 2 cut it off.....a broken engagement is better dan a broken marriage. ......I am an example. ......no go wt sentiments |
Re: Guys I Think I'm About To Marry A MONSTER, Advice Me Pls, No Matter How Harsh by fart: 5:16pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
sukkot: As long as her puss.y is tight |
Re: Guys I Think I'm About To Marry A MONSTER, Advice Me Pls, No Matter How Harsh by PrinceDave001(m): 5:37pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
I wonder what advice you are looking for wat you should do is clear for all to see...... lemme be blunt if you marry that babe or any babe with such characters,aside from you being unhappy after the wedding you might just get untimely death as a reward...... that's enough advise for the wise.. |
Re: Guys I Think I'm About To Marry A MONSTER, Advice Me Pls, No Matter How Harsh by sukkot: 6:06pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
MrPresident1:sure you right. very gratifying indeed lol. ahhhh the caliber of men ? man the vibration frequency amongst these men today is extremely low. its a sign of the times. no real men who stand for something anymore. just a bunch of zombies roaming around. we await the messiahs to lift us out of this. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Guys I Think I'm About To Marry A MONSTER, Advice Me Pls, No Matter How Harsh by henrimoto(m): 6:14pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
Ayoemrys:do you know how it feels to have a female friend that looks down on you,not to talk of living with an arrogant woman as wife ? please, don't push the @op into a frustrated marriage. |
Re: Guys I Think I'm About To Marry A MONSTER, Advice Me Pls, No Matter How Harsh by kunbit(f): 6:18pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
WhoBeThisMan:And he said the story is his friend's SMH |
Re: Guys I Think I'm About To Marry A MONSTER, Advice Me Pls, No Matter How Harsh by yemi4ui(m): 7:20pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
WhoBeThisMan: Still on still never too late bro. A wedding is suppose to hold in my church last sunday. But guess what? It was cancelled on Friday because of d wife attitude. Nothing is too late o brother. U guys r gonna be staying together for life. What happns if things don't change for better soon after ur marriage (God forbid) jst think abt it. U don't manage marriage. If u r nt happy. Exit now or never. My 2kobo. |
Re: Guys I Think I'm About To Marry A MONSTER, Advice Me Pls, No Matter How Harsh by Chocboyslim: 7:34pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
You dey madt.. After u don chop d bae finish; now u re here calling her a monster. When she dey on her own, no be u waka cum toast her? If u know dat dsame spirit dat lead you to her, sumon dat dsame spirit to fixed her dan calling her a monster. |
Re: Guys I Think I'm About To Marry A MONSTER, Advice Me Pls, No Matter How Harsh by Tolupage(m): 7:34pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
It's better late than never, if you've started enduring the relationship now that you are not yet married then I'd bet you may never enjoy the marriage. Thank God you're yet to make the vow, forget about the shame, insults, finance and call it off bro. A broken heart is better than a broken home. |
Re: Guys I Think I'm About To Marry A MONSTER, Advice Me Pls, No Matter How Harsh by nnamdiosu(m): 7:45pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
WhoBeThisMan: hi bro. life I understand how u feel.the plans . the money spent. the people. etc. but remember one truth. don't think abt what others would think abt the marriage cos....they r just interested in the rice. your life is at stake. Quit now pls. but invite me to come and eat rice sha if u change ur mind. I'll hate to tell u later SHEBI I TOLD U....wen u open another thread here after marriage.....MY MONSTER WIFE KILLED ME. |
Re: Guys I Think I'm About To Marry A MONSTER, Advice Me Pls, No Matter How Harsh by denda(m): 7:52pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
hmmmmm A monster is any creature, usually found in legends or
horror fiction, that is often hideous and may produce fear
or physical harm by its appearance and/or its actions. |
Re: Guys I Think I'm About To Marry A MONSTER, Advice Me Pls, No Matter How Harsh by zizazizu: 7:56pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
A friend of mine, a doctor, had gotten to an advanced stage in marriage preparations when he discovered the woman had been camouflaging. Introductions had been made. A month to the wedding, he called it off. You can't pretend through a lifetime of marriage. Maybe when dating, one can be false. Living with the same person everyday for (wait for it) ever will bring out true colours. Believe me bro (or bro's friend), it will get worse. Go with your gut feeling. The worst you can get is names. Call it off. Have you ever slept in a room where rain drops through the ceiling throughout the night? Yes, exactly, very uncomfortable and distracting. That's how your marriage would be with a nagging woman. Ask your pastor. It's in the Bible. 1 Like |
Re: Guys I Think I'm About To Marry A MONSTER, Advice Me Pls, No Matter How Harsh by Adortem: 7:56pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
Pre-marriage anxiety syndrome.Talk to her,pour out your heart to her.Postpone the wedding first and if she doesn't change.Call off the wedding.But if you love her enough,work it out with her,a known devil is better than an angel.My 1kobo advice |
Re: Guys I Think I'm About To Marry A MONSTER, Advice Me Pls, No Matter How Harsh by pet4ril(f): 8:40pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
WhoBeThisMan:thats is an error, my dear, a broken reship is better than a broken marriage.... I have seen where asoebi and some guests arrived a marriage ground and the marriage was cancelled so it has been happening and yours won't be the end as well... Please open your eye now else, marriage will open it for you |
Re: Guys I Think I'm About To Marry A MONSTER, Advice Me Pls, No Matter How Harsh by CandyBar: 8:43pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
I Think I'm About To Marry A MONSTER, Advice Me Pls. Advice?? Monsters eat Fools for dinner You've gotten a glimpse of your future and you're asking for what to do.........You must be high on Beans & Plantain. |
Re: Guys I Think I'm About To Marry A MONSTER, Advice Me Pls, No Matter How Harsh by Nobody: 8:56pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
sukkot:Sukkot, what do you stand for? I know you stand for the messiah but what else do you stand for? |
Re: Guys I Think I'm About To Marry A MONSTER, Advice Me Pls, No Matter How Harsh by sukkot: 9:07pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
LaraiBoluwaji:i stand for peace, righteousness, justice, simplicity, knowledge-wisdom-and-understanding as the real wealth. ' my people perish for lack of knowledge ' |
Re: Guys I Think I'm About To Marry A MONSTER, Advice Me Pls, No Matter How Harsh by silversonuc(m): 9:08pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
WhoBeThisMan:this is still ya frnd typing? |
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