i recently went to see my gal and i was near her hostel i then called her
me> hello honey where r u ?
her> oh am in d hostel?
me> ok can u come outside, outside?
her> nooooooo am not in the hostel, i was lying, why did yu come without teling me?
me> ok, (ends the call)

nairalanders ponder about this cos too much toughts in ma mind now about that incident. help a bro out. what d u think?

hmmm. . . something fishy going on.

very fishy. Why couldn't she just be honest?

A

i kow that something fishy is gooing on. buti luv this chick and we have spent years in school and we ar almost finishing i had plans. i'm lost

A

as sad as it is. i cant break up just because she lied. is it possible to get to the roo of this and get more info on why she lied or something.

el_nino:

as sad as it is. i cant break up just because she lied. is it possible to get to the roo of this and get more info on why she lied or something.

Yeah, by logging off nairaland and talking to your girl.

A

the fact that you hung up the phone and left shows us that you are a MUMU. if she changed her mind on the phone then you should have ASKED HER, not us. who knows who was on top of her when you called?! grow some balls brotha and next time just go in and face your worst nightmare.
the longer you try to avoid the problem the harder will be the fall, unless you marry the rat and then you are ROYALLY FUKCED!!!!
talking to her now wont solve shit because she can deny that anything was wrong while, if you had just gone in,          !!!!!!

Some questions:
1. Is this the first time she is acting weird?
2. Is this her first time of lying to you?
If you have been going out with her for as long as you stated then you should be able to interpret her actions! You are a man!
My advise: Eliminate all doubts.

think about wat?

i suggest u begin thinking urself

Na today?

Just ask her about it. Face to face.

~ Another case of 'Love Gone Wrong' ~

@poster,
Its a learning process for you in the world of women,never trust them man. so try not to love untill you find the one you can trust,you will know when you find one cuz she will never give you a headche and you will have peace of mind.

@Poster,
There is nothing to think about, The act is telling you it's high time you reviewed that relationship.

actually it doesnt really mean she is cheating on you
you have gat no fact yet

There could be very good reasons for her actions. Speak to her, there isn't much anyone can do from here.

van der jo:

@poster,
Its a learning process for you in the world of women,never trust them man. so try not to love untill you find the one you can trust,you will know when you find one cuz she will never give you a headche and you will have peace of mind.

bit contradictive.
but hey, the poor poster with his lack of experience THINKS he has found the right one, should he therefore trust her?!