ibkaye:

You know that things differ in different cultural societies in terms of the way people think etc

In naija, I'm sure moving in with a guy would be seen as a 'cheap' on the girl's part, alie?

TOPE2000!:

I understand wat u mean but even of the guy isnt nigerian. . . . . two months into a relationsip doesnt mean u have to move in. . . ppl shud have self respect

congoshine:

You middle name just changed to 'Gboko' !

amebo no1.:

win her over, make her feel comfy, then she might easily give in, maybe she isnt giving him enough sex, so he wants to bring her closer

ibkaye:

I know na, I agree, a girl should not live with a guy unless they're married.

I meant that as in, the girl wanted to know of what his actions implied and from some Nigerian men's point of view, such a move would be seen as cheap.

jay bee:

As posted, dude never asked her to move in. Y'all are just concluding based on the apparent fact that he only asked her to leave some of her clothes behind automatically equates to he asking her to move in.

davidylan:

Are you not a man? Haven't we all played this game before?

Leave clothes . . . means she no longer has an excuse to leave once its late . . . and we both know where that will end up. Bed of course.

jay bee:

As posted, dude never asked her to move in. Y'all are just concluding based on the apparent fact that he only asked her to leave some of her clothes behind automatically equates to he asking her to move in.

TOPE2000!:

I have always known u've been a very bad boy . . . . . . before

ibkaye:

I know na, I agree, a girl should not live with a guy unless they're married.

davidylan:

Are you not a man? Haven't we all played this game before?

Leave clothes . . . means she no longer has an excuse to leave once its late . . . and we both know where that will end up. Bed of course.

Am Alone:

Reasons

The guy fit truely love her oooooo, BUT! She her self get dignity naaaa. Se the talk: she fit leave her cloth
Not even abeg you fit leave your cloth or more codely abeg you fit spend some few more days. . . . Make the Abeg dey there!

secondly the guy fit think say him dey in love so when him eyes go clear; "my friend will you leave my house??"


Lastly. . . I know some few guys wey dey call am bleeping contract. . .

And more reasons oooo but with the BUT! Now don't get it twisted no mean say ee no fit lead to something But he rear like unicorn

ThiefOfHearts:

lol majority of the Nigerians in the UK are living with their "bfs". Na you people start the trend for Africa o

davidylan:

That is not even being bad, just protecting personal interests.

A woman's first excuse to leave your house after 11pm is - what will i wear to work tomorrow? I cant take a shower because i dont have my things here . . . get her to leave an extra pair of all she needs at your place and problem is solved!

mi2009:

I am not moving in with the guy. I haven't even left anything at his home. He asked which made me think about his intentions.

jay bee:

To answer your question, I haven't played that game before.
And i will most def not conclude that a girl is trying to move in with me just because she leaves 1 or 2 of her clothes behind at mine.

St☆rStruck:

There's nothing wrong with it but 2 months is pretty early to be leaving some stuff back in his place. Personally, I won't recommend until you're sure it's going to be serious.

jay bee:

To answer your question, I haven't played that game before.
And i will most def not conclude that a girl is trying to move in with me just because she leaves 1 or 2 of her clothes behind at mine.

TOPE2000!:

Immediately u move in with a guy . . . . . say bye bye to marriage
Yes . . . u can spend weekends with him but move in . . . . Mba

mi2009:

To am alone

What is a fing contract?

St☆rStruck:


More often than not yes.

But in the poster's defense, she's only keeping an extra set of clothing in his place. Too early though . . . too early.

TOPE2000!:

That is the botton line

@david
just because a women leave 2 or more clothes in her man's house doesnt mean she wants to move in jor

TOPE2000!:

That is the botton line

@david
just because a women leave 2 or more clothes in her man's house doesnt mean she wants to move in jor

TOPE2000!:

@david
just because a women leave 2 or more clothes in her man's house doesnt mean she wants to move in jor

davidylan:

Do you have clothes in someone's house?

But seriously though . . . its slow and steady. It starts with leaving clothes, a face cream, small extra night bag . . . before you know it you've become his live-in lover. If you can leave clothes why not spend the night, then a weekend, then the month . . . then God knows how long again. Once you've started sleeping there then think of cleaning, then cooking, then you get a spare key . . . in short why not just become a wife-in-waiting. When he is ready to get rid of you though, i wont feel sorry for you.