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Re: My Sister Is Making Her Success A Curse To Our Family by calabardick(m): 12:39am On Nov 27, 2015 |
tpiadotcom: or, i have come across such families severaly, they like pity-party and they are chronic wicked from the way he compose his post i persive high level of hatred, envy and wickedness in that family. in some wicked families, when they know you have a kobo, they will fall sick in order to waste that money, when that money finish they will recover. if the OP wants to be just, let him give out her sister's number let someone call her and hear her reasons. i can swear anything, the OP is from calabar God purnish witches |
Re: My Sister Is Making Her Success A Curse To Our Family by charlesikhalea(m): 12:49am On Nov 27, 2015 |
My guy, do ur best for ur mum. The little u can give to her, give. Av experienced struggling tru the university n i understand its not easy, but do what u can. Also reason with ur sister, do not ask her to send down hundreds of thousands, simply ask for her support. If she refuses to help then let her be, life is full of surprises. Is ur family a polygamous one? These things happen mostly in polygamous homes. |
Re: My Sister Is Making Her Success A Curse To Our Family by marvelyole(m): 1:01am On Nov 27, 2015 |
EVILFOREST:Are you are Christian? Yes have faith,if no become born again...... But don't forget to pray Y |
Re: My Sister Is Making Her Success A Curse To Our Family by ijebu2020: 1:43am On Nov 27, 2015 |
Pray to God about her and also if you can locate the church she attends ,try go there without her consent and report her to the Pastor and elders.Make sure you do this on a sure Sunday service when she will be in attendance...make as if you want to give testimony and narrate how shes been treating your family bad..just my idea tho! |
Re: My Sister Is Making Her Success A Curse To Our Family by kyrian1985(m): 1:55am On Nov 27, 2015 |
Ginaz: You just spoke my mind.....she may be harbouring a grudge against the family. .. |
Re: My Sister Is Making Her Success A Curse To Our Family by NEROSKY(m): 3:13am On Nov 27, 2015 |
Pidggin: I feel u... i was in same situation with my mom 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Is Making Her Success A Curse To Our Family by nigeriancuban: 3:28am On Nov 27, 2015 |
are you really sure if she's really well to do the way the way u claim? I mean even if she is the advocate of a devil, no one would forget such a mother that easily... my opinion is that you are jumping to conclusions maybe because she now uses a ride and there is this impression always attached to people using ride that they can buy the world which is just an illusion.Not all can properly fuel that car constantly though...just be patient with her and give her time to build he foundation very well,trust me as a firstborn I know the pressure attached to it. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Is Making Her Success A Curse To Our Family by harveyspec: 3:44am On Nov 27, 2015 |
Brugge: You did mention in your previous post of how widely travelled you are, I guess the quote below will help put things in the right perspective Richy4: |
Re: My Sister Is Making Her Success A Curse To Our Family by tpiadotcom: 4:53am On Nov 27, 2015 |
calabardick: God save people from ancestral enemies, for real. I don't know if the op is Calabar, but this type of thing can be found anywhere. Never say never! |
Re: My Sister Is Making Her Success A Curse To Our Family by tpiadotcom: 4:54am On Nov 27, 2015 |
amparas: you make no sense. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Is Making Her Success A Curse To Our Family by Nobody: 5:22am On Nov 27, 2015 |
harveyspec:My brother I understand the situstion in our country but in the middle of it we should not forget how our parents found themselves in such situation. As soon as we accept that there is a problem with some of the ways we plan for the future and start taking necessary steps only then will we free ourselves from situation like this. |
Re: My Sister Is Making Her Success A Curse To Our Family by Nobody: 6:04am On Nov 27, 2015 |
Demainman1:That is a valid point but we both know that over 70 percent of family hardly get by let alone savings. Let us be honest we dont have saving culture(myself included) it is time we start having this conversation. |
Re: My Sister Is Making Her Success A Curse To Our Family by Nobody: 6:09am On Nov 27, 2015 |
engrkenny:Try and go through my posts on this subject. I am not saying people should not help or take care of their parents. My point is it is time as a generation we start making plans for the future and start doing this right. The idea of having 6 kids putting them through crises only to raise one and then place the responsibility of raising others on her shoulder, which most parents of our parents generation adopted isnt working any more. Times have change so should our approach to solving problems. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Is Making Her Success A Curse To Our Family by InvertedHammer: 6:13am On Nov 27, 2015 |
/ Pay her a visit. Tell her the problems your family is having without placing it as a burden on her. It is either she helps or she will give you a clue about what is the problem. Either way, it will help your family make an informed decision about her. There is no need for third party in this case which may end up aggravating and alienating her. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Is Making Her Success A Curse To Our Family by Nobody: 6:13am On Nov 27, 2015 |
kingthreat:Little I know you are still young and going through your post on NL I realized that you cannot engage in critical thinking or in any logical conversation. I doubt if you could do half of what I have done for my parents and still doing in your life time. |
Re: My Sister Is Making Her Success A Curse To Our Family by kingthreat(m): 6:31am On Nov 27, 2015 |
Brugge: Wait you just advocated leaving them to their own peril. Why you come dey help them? As for my person, first of all I could be older than you. Here I choose to be blunt and I owe nobody no apologies. And on helping my parents I have sacrificed even my Masters degree to make sure they are alright. And I will do more cos they are the pilllar on which any legacy I make was built. Charity begins at home. They gave me and I will give them without thinking twice. |
Re: My Sister Is Making Her Success A Curse To Our Family by josite: 6:36am On Nov 27, 2015 |
Les call a spade, a spade. Tell this guy to find out what was the mother's attitude to her efforts to become a successful pharmacist. What kind of words were employed by your mum in relating with this sister of yours. Take it or leave it some mothers don't just know how to be a good mother and to think the mum that says and does things right with her kids will come to the same harvest wit a careless mum is you not being fair to the principle of seedtime and harvest.What kid of seed did ur mum sew into your sister's life.it is like your sister is on a vengeance mission.im not saying she is right but im actually saying she has her own reason .you try to find out why. Really some parents are better off dead at the feet of Jesus rather than being alive. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Is Making Her Success A Curse To Our Family by Nobody: 7:51am On Nov 27, 2015 |
Bring her case to the lords chosen program this weekend |
Re: My Sister Is Making Her Success A Curse To Our Family by kushsy: 8:05am On Nov 27, 2015 |
Pidggin:harbouring a grudge against all your family members that you won't lend a helping hand when needed and God has blessed you!! A woman squad...Let God intervene no ni.. |
Re: My Sister Is Making Her Success A Curse To Our Family by macho44(m): 8:10am On Nov 27, 2015 |
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Re: My Sister Is Making Her Success A Curse To Our Family by oloyede252(m): 8:30am On Nov 27, 2015 |
Brugge:oh God,what i have done for my parents,hypocritical statement after saying you dont have to do anything for your parents.oga go sleep |
Re: My Sister Is Making Her Success A Curse To Our Family by datigbogirl: 8:40am On Nov 27, 2015 |
baby124: You can imagine even someone wey never get enough money go marry and born pikin. he was even telling me I should borrow him money cos he needs to buy land and didn't even care wen I told him me sef never buy land. if people know how selfish most siblings are we won't be here criticizing ds lady. seek out for yourself first cos if you ruin yourself finish deyll wash dr hands off your case. talking from experience I just can't start counting. Most outsiders are actually better dan family members. |
Re: My Sister Is Making Her Success A Curse To Our Family by Nobody: 8:43am On Nov 27, 2015 |
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Re: My Sister Is Making Her Success A Curse To Our Family by Nobody: 8:52am On Nov 27, 2015 |
Brugge: I totally agree with you on that. The world is past the agrarian age, when number of children count as wealth and achievement. |
Re: My Sister Is Making Her Success A Curse To Our Family by oloyede252(m): 9:00am On Nov 27, 2015 |
datigbogirl:so in the case of the od.where the mother is sick,father is dead,two siblings are in uni.one is working to help the family while the other is not.oya what is wicked in this.the only wickedness is you people given excuse for abandoning her family.one even wrote maybe she was raped.like seriously.is it the mother or her siblings in uni that raped her or her dead father.if your family is wicked that doestn't mean everyother family is. |
Re: My Sister Is Making Her Success A Curse To Our Family by Nobody: 9:02am On Nov 27, 2015 |
kingthreat:I dont need your apology mr. You see how sensible you are, you forgo improving yourself, which means brighter prospect for you and your family so you can focus your energy on your parents. Am sure at the back of your mind you have started nursing the idea that you children should do same. While not strive to improve their lots in the future. Mind you taking care of one's parent does not necessary means picking up all their bills . I will rather have the money to take of myself when am old and my kids coming around as often as time permits to check on me than them sending me money every month to take care of my bills while they are left without enough to travel to come see me. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Is Making Her Success A Curse To Our Family by Nobody: 9:04am On Nov 27, 2015 |
engrkenny:My brother is only when we see past sentiments that our society Will be a better place but for some unknown reasons we Nigerians are afraid of confronting status quo. |
Re: My Sister Is Making Her Success A Curse To Our Family by multicolored(f): 9:19am On Nov 27, 2015 |
Something is missing.... |
Re: My Sister Is Making Her Success A Curse To Our Family by Demainman1: 9:41am On Nov 27, 2015 |
Brugge: The only society where children are not obliged to help their parents is the western world because the government provide the help whether the parents plan for their old age or not. Africans help out, indians help out, Chinese help out. I don't know what you are talking about plan, plan and plan. Where I live, whether you plan or not, you will not go hungry in your old age neither would you lack medical attention because the government makes sure you don't. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Is Making Her Success A Curse To Our Family by JustCurious: 9:43am On Nov 27, 2015 |
Richy4: You've said it all!! Thank you. The act of paying it forward should not be seen as a difficult task especially if you are a beneficiary of similar act. |
Re: My Sister Is Making Her Success A Curse To Our Family by Nobody: 10:20am On Nov 27, 2015 |
Demainman1:can you tell me what is wrong in a situation where parents make better plan for themselves and their children future? I have two close friends one Chinese and the other Japanes, yeah cultural they take care of their aged parents but the average Chines and Japanes parents are going to die living a huge chunk of money for their family. So you can still take care of your parents even when they are financially okay. But what I stand on and I will continue to condemn in our society is when parents rather than making adequate plan choose to do otherwise with the notion that one of the kids will eventual become somebody and start feeding for them and other siblings. 1 Like |
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