didi-t:

Forget it, i won't because it would bring back too much memories but that is if i still love him, but if i don't feel a thing for him anymore i would definitely attend the wedding, i will also give him a very beautiful gift to let him know i was there.

seconded

guy d shoe is on ur toe n u alone know where it hurts u, so u alone know wat actually brot about the breakup n y u shud or shudnt attend d wedding.

i have been in this situation and i told my ex say I AM NOT COMING - he was abit shocked at my reaciron (as he liked playing Mr Nice guy) so he said why - because he would really love me to be there for old times sake, that i should come and celebrate with them - and the wife used to be my friend, telling let bygones be bygones - i said NO, he said am i busy? i said nope, i will be at home all day chilling, but i can think of better ways to spend my time i qucik tellam say

if na me be d pastor when go marry una - be say una no go marry, because me i no dey show face

and i didnt go - am i bitter? Yes. does one ever get over such betrayal - Yes, but if you have a mind like mine - YOU NEVER FORGET IT

LIFE GOES ON FOR BOTH OF US - we are both happy where we are

tell your friend to not go - esp if he still has some feelings or regret at the way their r/ship panned out - he should call some friends and go out and chill together - forget her for that one day completely

ofcourse i will.
i've attended 3 of my ex's weddings. There's really nothing to it.
they graduated and had suitors lining up, and i couldnt stand in their way so i just let go and i attended the weddings and even spayed money well on the dancing couples.
We're still friends till date.

Enockia:

yes i'll go and maybe i might get lucky and it might end up being my wedding

can't really stop laughing at this reply lol

why attend? because,
why not attend? because,

all boils down to how the relationship ended.

Why attend?
I speak for myself though, don't believe in being close to an ex.

for GOD'S sake there is notin wrong with it
just attend it let by gones be by gones
go to her wedding and wen is time for u to get wedded
invite her too.
chikena

The guy is in d best position to decide, he can't be wrong whether he decides to go or not, in any case, he shd call her and wish her well.

@ Poster


Hell Yeah,

Shiiit, i might even get me a chance to giv her my new number so she could holla me,

who knows what might get down between us after d wedding.

d married ones are d sweetest

@ruff

who said the "single" ones aint sweet??

Better think b4 u type and if you've got NOTHING valid to contribute. . .logoff from that cafe you're @ and go home. . el stupido

never

I for one will go but not alone.

why not? i'l even buy a gift for her. i even heard of this hot chik that had

countless "runs" so when she was getting married, about 20 of her ex-

flings organized themselves and attented her wedding with their own

"aso obi"!!!

sexylogan:



why not? i'l even buy a gift for her. i even heard of this hot chik that had

countless "runs" so when she was getting married, about 20 of her ex-

flings organized themselves and attented her wedding with their own "aso obi"!!!

that is really funny

No big deal of cause you will attend the weeding

it has happened to me,

i attended the wedding, bought a wonderful gift for the couple

and made sure my presence was noticed.

with no grudge at all.

u can depending on the way both of u broke up.

i invited all my girl friends wen i was getting married

No i would not.

Break up does not mean you can't be friends. You may, or may not attend if you wish. I don't think there is a big deal about it and attending the wedding will help you to face reality and move on.

Y will u cause havoc?

patwhizkid: Yes, i'll go there 2 cause havoc!

y will u cause havoc?

^

Huh - are u responding to a 4yr topic