crackhaus:

Huh, you agree?
A few minutes ago, you were saying the story is about money—now tell me thank you for putting you back on track.



Money is the determinant of feminism?

You are just here & there today mehn, what's distracting you? Tell daddy.

Your own head tells you to be contesting headship with your man?

Alright then.

Mindfulness:


So it can't be you.

Why would a rapper whose only words are biiitches and hoes marry a feminist?

crackhaus:

I said in a room, not on an anonymous forum where I can be anything I want.

Duhh, because she's a pseudo-feminist.
That woman sucks his d1ck on her knees

Mindfulness:


Fixed!

Mindfulness:


And enjoys it ...

crackhaus:

Miss glad to be female and feminine, how big is that arse?

crackhaus:

Yea, just like you do in that same position.

Mindfulness:


Do you want me to upload pics like one of your friends?
It would at least not contradict and violate my reputation on NL.

It's perfect size.

Mindfulness:


No, I enjoy it more.

crackhaus:

On your knees too?

Isn't that degrading?

Mindfulness:
Next thing we will read is Crackhaus writing that feminists are not expected to perform oral action.
It's against fairness and equality.

crackhaus:

Perfect size noni, abeg what is perfect size to you?

Use someone else's as a model for better understanding.

crackhaus:

To be honest, I have read it from one of those mad radical feminists...can't remember where.

She says it's men that should kneel to give cunning.lingus to women...problem is, we don't know how that is aesthetically possible when she's standing.

Mindfulness:


It's a matter of choice and not a prescription from the book about snakes that speak and tempt people to eat forbidden fruits so that their children and granchildren and grandgrandchildren and ....... have to be punished for crimes they have not comitted, so it isn't.

Mindfulness:


It's perfect size to you too.

Mindfulness:





ROFL


Crazy people everywhere.

crackhaus:

Just model someone else's for a more descriptive picture, someone popular.

Mindfulness:


I don't feel comfortable showing off.

crackhaus:

You see, that's what feminism can do to some women if they don't know where to draw the line.

crackhaus:

Kikikikikikiki, Mindfulness is shy even when all she has to do is mention the name of someone else.

bukatyne:
Like I always say, you can't be broke and be a feminist. Pick a struggle

The woman is quite frankly confused for lack of a better word

I always tell women. Leave this feminism megedefegede in your place of work. Don't carry it to your husband's house. Most of your so-called champions for this struggle are loving and submissive wives at home.

@bukatyne
I always chuckle when you women bring up the housechore/housekeeping line. Is it housechores
1) That can be paid for
2) That some men can actually do and participate in when they have the time
3) That a lot of women nowadays are actually pretty bad at

Lol that last part in particular because there are so many women out there that are very lazy in that aspect. Even aje pako ones that one would ordinarily expect to be decent at it from my experience are just as bad as babes from rich homes.

@A40
I don't understand your question

Mindfulness:
Bukatyne dear,

the only mistake you can make in a discussion with His Majesty Crackhaus is to take him too seriously. He is trolling around at least half of the time unlike others who are seriously venting their frustrations coming from their miserable experience with women. NL is suppossed to be therapeutic to them.

[size=18pt]Crackhaus is a feminist to the core.[/size] He loves strong, independent ladies who were raised by feminist pioneers. His provocations serve his understanding and sense of fun. Be playful and don't allow him to provoke you.

I am saying it because I know him very well and can see how he is trying to get under your skin.

A gentle e-slap here and there may be helpful too.

A40:

I'm basically talking about the housechores part some of you women always bring up as a leeway for not contributing to major projects like school fees, rent and other heavy capital expenses

crackhaus:

You are the only one here that doesn't want to gree, Mindfulness has boldly stated hers...it's your turn.

Do feminists still want special treatment, yes or no?
All these ones you're doing is just diversion.

crackhaus:

You don't know what I talk about, a feminist wrote her experience and regretted some choices and you still saw her as foolish, madam Tèaroses who is older and has been married longer said her own and you still don't know what she is talking about.

Abeg, God go appear for your room before you finally figure all this out?

crackhaus:
Getting angry about what again?

All I've been doing is laughing at that woman in the story ever since Tim brought that article here.

crackhaus:
That's why I said some na, the some included the finance aspect.

Where's your head at?

crackhaus:
Lmao... Was I offering you special treatment before?
See me see Bukatyne

The woman in the article is the one looking for special treatment from Franco...lol

Does being pampered mean having free access to all earnings?

crackhaus:
People like you = Pseudo-feminists.
Not YOU personally.

crackhaus:
Can everyone else see that sentence I put in bold?
Feminism is only about men doing chores, and was never about sharing finances 50/50.
Timbuktou abeg come see wetin Buka talk.

crackhaus:
The definition of a good husband to a woman usually depends on how often he makes her happy, anything less and he becomes a bad husband.

No be me talk am oo, na one wise old man tell me.

crackhaus:

Just for the records, are you not the one I once quizzed on this same section about the history of feminism (1st wave, 2nd wave, etc) and you hadn't heard anything about it at that point?

My memory works fine, and I have a feeling yours does too if you're being honest...because between you and I, it was clear that I knew much more about feminism than you (a feminist) did.

However Bukatyne, I'm giving you a chance to humor me and make me look stvpid by answering this:
Does feminism believe in the headship of a man in the home?

bukatyne:


Lols!

Thanks for the warning

Feminist crackhaus: FC sounds like a football club

bukatyne:


Ok

You expect women to contribute to major financial projects while they suck up doing chores alone? Who wouldn't want a good deal?

On a serious note:

Traditionally, men have always held the forte financially while wives took care of the home (chores/babies etc.)

If you want any arrangement outside the norm, get someone who shares similar views with you and/or trash it out before marriage.

At the end of the day, you both do what's best for your personalities.

bukatyne:


Don't remember that discussion however, if you ask now, you wouldn't be wrong to assume I don't know the waves and honestly don't care .

Feminism is a range of political movements, ideologies, and social movements that share a common goal: to define, establish, and achieve political, economic, personal, and social rights for women that are equal to those of men.[1][2] This includes seeking to establish equal opportunities for women in education and employment.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Feminism

The bold is what I have always believed in and when I saw this definition, it fit and that is it.

What is your definition of headship?

And I am neither spokeswoman nor god of feminism.

bukatyne:


What has age and length of marriage got to do with the discourse? She is opining men/women are not equal and I asked if her husband treated her as an inferior and no response yet.

The woman didn't regret feminism; she regretted marrying Franco which to me was also a bad decision



I will admit the woman is funny in a crazy way



What are the other special treatments? Yet to give me another one 100 posts later



The special treatment you can't even define?



People like me and yet you say not me?
Am I not a subset of the people (pseudo-feminists) like me?
Where is mindfulness to give you one e-slap?



mindfulness, make the e-slaps 2 please
First, sharing finances 50/50 Franco's way is sick. Joint accounts is much better/ delegate certain responsibilities to individuals/ 50% of their earnings into one pot/ go the traditional route
It is actually anti-feminists who make feminism about chores and finances. I expect an elder sister/brother to help me in chores if they have a lighter schedule.... and feminism have nothing to do with it.

I helped my youngest sister wash her uniforms and cook when she was preparing for WAEC and I was done with NYSC



The wise old man is very wise

How would you define a good wife to you?

bukatyne:


You are yet to give me a definition on special treatment

And I can only speak for myself. I am not an authority on what feminists want on an individual level.