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How Do We Define A Nagging Person? by ammamat(f): 3:19pm On Jun 02, 2009
How do u define a nagging person?
just knowing that you love me
and will always be by my side.

Is it when the other person did what is wrong and u talk? is that nagging,
Re: How Do We Define A Nagging Person? by izeek(m): 3:22pm On Jun 02, 2009
when an issue is continually talked about.
despite the fact that the other party is tired and wants to let go.
Re: How Do We Define A Nagging Person? by bblacky(f): 3:27pm On Jun 02, 2009
izeek:

when an issue is continually talked about.
despite the fact that the other party is tired and wants to let go.
dats d best way to describ it.
Re: How Do We Define A Nagging Person? by ammamat(f): 3:30pm On Jun 02, 2009
what if the issue had been talk about, but the person still go on doing that same thing, what happen in casese like that.
Re: How Do We Define A Nagging Person? by izeek(m): 3:34pm On Jun 02, 2009
means he is not willing to change, so u either conform or leave the rela.
Re: How Do We Define A Nagging Person? by honeric01(m): 3:38pm On Jun 02, 2009
A nagging person is a person who continuously complains about anything as long as it has not been solved or corrected.
Re: How Do We Define A Nagging Person? by izeek(m): 3:43pm On Jun 02, 2009
@hon,
i disagree.

so u mean when we argue about naija problems and the govt does nothing bout it we are nags?
Re: How Do We Define A Nagging Person? by ammamat(f): 3:47pm On Jun 02, 2009
Lol @ Izeek
My frined complain that i nagged, and i do not see myself being a nagging type coz i only talk when he does when i don't like, i don't just stay and nothing happen and starts talking.
Am always like, won't i talk when u do what i don't like? He always expect me to be mute at all the time.
Re: How Do We Define A Nagging Person? by izeek(m): 3:57pm On Jun 02, 2009
@amma,
desr a diff btw a talkative, and and eloquent person.
depends on the category u fall into.
but sometimes its funny u cross the boundry without knowing it.
Re: How Do We Define A Nagging Person? by Uby40(m): 4:08pm On Jun 02, 2009
a pain in my arse,of course
Re: How Do We Define A Nagging Person? by origina9ja(f): 12:03pm On Jun 05, 2009
someone that continually complaining or argue over
this is seen by some people the only way to communicate however it doesn't always work.

The Vicious Cycle of Nagging
Nagging can become a vicious cycle. The more you nag, the more your mate avoids you or withdraws both emotionally and physically from you.

Why Nagging Doesn't Work
Even though your gripes may be valid, nagging makes the other party resentful.
Nagging makes also makes the other person involve defensive.
Nagging puts you in the parent role, and the other person in the child role. This isn't healthy for a marriage or relationship.
Nagging is disrespectful.
Nagging is often perceived as criticism, so the other person may tune out making what you are saying ineffective.
When the other person is being nagged, he/she probably feels attacked personally.
Nagging makes the other person feel inadequate.

Ways to Avoid Being a Nag[/b]Don't blame.
Don't demean.
Don't attack.
Don't criticize.
Avoid making the other person feel stupid
Don't give in to your frustration

[b]Instead of Nagging,

Try Positive Approaches
Share your feelings
Keep your statements brief so they don't turn into long lectures
[s]Avoid using the phrases, "You always, " and "You never, " [/s] this is the main key
Consider saying "would you" or "will you" rather than "could you" or "can you". There's a subtle difference in the way the request will be heard by your spouse or who ever is involve.
Set a good example so they can copy and have a feel that you really dont like whatever they are doing.
Acknowledge your different perspectives regardless and show your appreciation
See what happens if you stop nagging.

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Re: How Do We Define A Nagging Person? by biola44: 12:27pm On Jun 05, 2009
a nagging person sounds like a broken record. grin
Re: How Do We Define A Nagging Person? by iice(f): 8:23am On Jun 06, 2009
biola44:

a nagging person sounds like a broken record. grin
grin
Re: How Do We Define A Nagging Person? by biina: 8:28am On Jun 06, 2009
A nagging person is one that nags.
male: naga
female:nagina
grin
Re: How Do We Define A Nagging Person? by honeric01(m): 12:34pm On Jun 06, 2009
Lol. grin
Re: How Do We Define A Nagging Person? by mamagee3(f): 10:25pm On Jun 06, 2009
A Nagging person is a radio without battery grin grin
Re: How Do We Define A Nagging Person? by mayorall(m): 8:40pm On Sep 28, 2014
I woke this 2009 thread. Oya mod front page.

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