luvson:

Relationship is a matter of good feasibility study. If you study a person very well befor entering into a relationship with such you will definitely have a little regret

filaman:

just quit sleeping with them aight.e no easy abi?

cystein:

Hi,

There are three bridges one needs to cross;

1. Never look down upon a learned poor man because one day he will be rich and yow will regret it.
2. Do not admire very wealthy men because some will perish as soon as their parents die or are in bad deals.
3. Never love a man who seeks sympathy because he is obviously lazy.

However take your time with a man before giving in. My case is an example. I met this girl sometime back, and i told her i was graduate without a job. Her buddies laughed and told her she was sick because i had no good background in terms of family. we stayed in a small house till our first baby. To cut the story short today her friends come calling and aways reporting their problems as if they have gone to see the IGWE. Start the race with a man my dear. In fact a woman is a man's bedrock. If you don't drive him, who will?

Q.nony:

Is not about finding the right person but creating the right relationship with any of the guys be'coz love teaches you until you lean.

rita25:

i have the some problem pls somebody help me out/am a graduate read accounting,24yrs of age bin in 3erious relationship,really sincere,yet men keep treating me badly.my ex is on my neck to marry him but he is a wife beater.my ex ex had to mary his tribal gal am so confused and want to be married by next year.tell me what do i do?

rita25:

i have the some problem pls somebody help me out/am a graduate read accounting,24yrs of age bin in 3erious relationship,really sincere,yet men keep treating me badly.my ex is on my neck to marry him but he is a wife beater.my ex ex had to mary his tribal gal am so confused and want to be married by next year.tell me what do i do?

Virgo83:

My Dear Sister Look Before You Leap. Stop chasing Money or Luxury, try to be diligent in your dealings and your Right Man will sure come your way.

rita25:

@ujujoan.trust me am not a slut never have been,well if u say am desperate then mayb becos i am extra nice person to a fault and men read it as bin desperate but thats just me my family friends an d neigbours can attestate to that.i thin k am just unlucky with men or wat do you think?

Ujujoan:

By saying men dislike sluts, I wasnt insinuating you were one. I'm sorry if it apperared that way.

And uh yea, u sound desperate.

Sometimes desperation is not a bad thing. When you set a target for yourself and want to reach it against all odds, it's not a bad desperation. But wanting to get married, against all odds, is!

This is because men naturally, tend to run away from women who they think want them by all means.

You are not unlucky, you are just compromising and you shouldnt. If you think a man is not worth your salt, then dont even bother trying it out, cos it'll definitely end in a heart break.

Trust me, if you get a good job and become indepenndent, carry yourself with dignity and live your life your way, it'll be the men who'll be begging you to marry them in no time!

Love that part!
Independent women rock!
Just concentrate on whatever you have to do in life, be it school(education), job e.t.c. Love often finds you WHEN you least expect it 
Direct all your energy to looking your best and doing YOUR OWN thang. Trust me, it pays in the long run!
Don't forget: Confidence is key