KanwuliaJara:


Did the OP see her looking for a husband?
This na 2016 almost o.
Husband nor dey reign again.
That na 'unto OLD SKOOL'!
Shioooooor!!!!

SAMBARRY:


Any woman that is ambitious makes their phenese shrink

EVILFOREST:

Good morning
Pls. OP when will all these RUBBISH posts end.. ?

bennyrazz:
..

JudgementHammer:

Can one expect any better comment from an antichrist? Just full of abuses that carry no iota of sense. Hell fire brain. Doomed future.

johnson232:

spurious and baseless....

sonOfLucifer:

I

Adaeze003:


I'm really not in the mood for biblical arguments. Thing is, we all interpret different things from the same bible so what's the point?

But feel free to see your wife as your property sha. Me? Love cannot lead me to anyone that can't reason properly so... no thanks.

bennyrazz:
you should have quoted my exact words, why quoting only my name Are you scared? The God I serve is a consuming fire. What about the god you serve?

sonOfLucifer:

It's called common sense which you clearly lack. Your God is a consuming fire? That explains how your brains got fried. Keep your dead Jew stories to yourself.

byvan03:
Live your life the way you want and let others live theirs. There really are no absolutes in this life, live the way that suits your aspirations . A woman that chooses career over marriage is no better than the one that chose marriage over career. Let people focus on the area of development that they desire the most, be it starting their own families or building business empires.


I must say that this article can be misleading depending on the perspective the reader is viewing from. Telling ladies to spend their entire youth chasing money and settling down much later in life isn't exactly a top notch advice. I would have mentioned why but am already tired of typing.

bukatyne:


I still don't understand why family & career/ job should be parallels....

Is marriage a space you sit and wriggle your hands daily

Mindfulness:


Ignore mode. Come back when you finish licking your wounded ego.

You took the time to dig up months old posts to misinterpret them deliberately? Your feelings must be very hurt.

SAMBARRY:
how can you be dignifying village men that grew up in a thick forest raised by another illiterate mother who's purpose in life was to live to please a man

SAMBARRY:


No it's an abomination for a woman to desire greatness. Everything must be about marriage and living to please a man

Any woman that is ambitious makes their phenese shrink as kanwuliajara would say

No wonder my posts always gives dustbin pusher and crackheads headache.unfortunately for the animals they're still in nl prison

All thanks to me

Till they know how to behave like normal human beings

sonOfLucifer:

my madam from before before.. happy new year in advance.

SAMBARRY:
omg.k baby

Oti funny ju

KanwuliaJara:


But na true the HOPEE tok o!

KanwuliaJara:


Muchechecheche
Abeg release the "cyber aGBEROsclerosis" o!!!!

KanwuliaJara:




HNY!!!!!

kelvinclint:
.Girls need to be taught to see beyond marriage.
.
An average Nigerian girl, or say African girls in a broader scope wants to grow up, finish school and just get married. Nothing limits a woman as much as this. A man plans his life thus-
.
"grow up, MAKE MONEY,
raise a family".
.
A girl plans hers like-
.
"grow up, finish school, get
married".
.
Girls are not taught to dream
independently, they think
their final destination is in a
man's home. The "better
tomorrow" they are taught to
dream of is a tomorrow
inside their husband's home.
No! It's wrong. You need to
first carve a life for yourself
before you put yourself in
the control of a man.
.
Girls are taught To dream to
be Queens. Meaning they are
taught that no matter how
high they fly they still have
to be under a man, her
king.... When they could
actually be Kings themselves.
.
You might say getting
married doesn't stop you
from winning, but that's false.
Marriage creates a lot of
limitation for women...
Socially, economically, even
psychologically. Women are
home makers. A woman's
primary concern is building a
home. When you finish school
and you get married almost
immediately, childbirth,
domestic duties, etc will limit
your hustle. You are gonna
live your life in the shadow
of your husband. You are
gonna be just another
puppet in the hands of your
husband.
.
Some women even become
housewives, like you live all
your life under the sole
control of a man? From being
under your dad straight to
being under a man.... How do
you live with that?
.
Women need to be taught to
dream. They need to be
taught they are also an
independent being, and they
also need to carve out a life
for themselves.
.
African parents need to stop
putting pressure on their
female children to get
married immediately after
school. Teach them to strive
like they are the ones going
to raise a family on their
own. Boys are brought up to
strive, to create a Kingdom,
why can't women be taught to
be same?
.
Women and men will never
ever be equal if women are
trained to see their ultimate
end in the comfort of
marriage. Take your time,
how can you be just 23 and
you are already feeling ripe
to marry? What have you
achieved? Will you die if you
don't get married quickly?
.
Girls need to focus more on
personal development after
school. Life starts after
school... Try to make a living
for yourself. Girls need to
stop being pressured to
marry too quickly! They are
not men's properties!
.
Y'all need a new mindset
Africans.

Kath5kouture:
Nigerian men getting unnecessarily intimidated by independent women since 1800BC.