Hi everyone,
Actually I rarely post or comment on threads on here but I have an issue bothering me presently and though I asked my close pals about it but we all know how guys support a fellow man like them on issues like that. In summary, I actually just graduated and during my school days there is this female banker that do attend to me whenever I go to make transactions.fast forward to a year plus after graduation, I went back to my school to make enquiry about some things and I needed to transact so I went to the bank to do the stuff. On getting there, immediately this lady saw me she started smiling and won't stop staring till it was my turn. Well one thing led to another and we get to talk and from there I grt to know that she knows me right before graduation and have always wanted to talk to me but ......well she collected my number and that's all. Now we both went on a date today and during our time out I got to know that she is married but not enjoying her marital life because the hubby is always on trip "tho I advised her right even when I no mean am" but she confessed that she had always liked me right since school and will like us to date. I was puzzled and had to tell her that I'm just 24 and she is going to be 30 but she seem in love and I'm confused. Tho I'm a lover of weird adventures but this caught me offgaurd.
Spoke to my friends about it but I still I'm gonna be the one to advise myself becuz I'm more the alpha in my circle and the one who advises the rest.
: when we on date, she don't seem shy walking with me tho I have this athletic look and a bit broad and taller than her, but I'm this kinda dude with a young face and I don't even have a single beard but she seem comfortable and free. Well I got carried away at a point while watching a football match, I lifted her when my team scored a goal.
To those who gonna ask about my status: I'm single and good with it, just bunch of girls I don't give room for attachement to and they know me for it.
Well I just need to know if its right dating her because she Is more and possess the things I look for in a lady. Tho I understand the fact that she is married but I think I'v been on this path for so long for me not to know the dos and don't in it. Please I just want your opinion concerning this likewise about my decision also.
Pls no foul words pls.. And no skinny jeans boys pls..and if you think you noticed any error in my spellings or use of english "the itk's" pls highlight it and notify me. It aint easy typing on phone. So thanks
And. Lest I forget, up barcelona.. Thrashing those alagidi atletico madrid aint easy.

long story didn't bother to read NO

Date a girl six years older ''sugar mummy''...date a married woman ''abomination''

chibwike:
long story didn't bother to read NO

good for you... Continue.. Even traffic sign no look am.

naijaboiy:
I just have a simple question for you Op.

If you are the husband and you discover that your wife is going on a date with a younger guy how will you feel?

I'm very sure you are matured enough and know the implications of whatever actions you take.

Thank you.

@naijaboy u got me thinking and speechless... #sigh#

Not right!
Not proper!
So wrong!

Bros remember you still have years ahead in your days to live. Remember you might also get a job that will demand you taking trips away from home for long. Remember that you're sowing something right now.
Don't allow the magic of emotion sweep away your logics. Lemme help you think out here bro, please don't think of marrying that lady you have better life to live ahead. Don't be scare of telling her NO. YOLO!

I don't think so

There's nothing wrong with d age difference but she's married and I think dat aint proper.......so for me cut her off cos karma is a BITCH_

OP are you seriously telling us this to advise you or to encourage you. If at 24 you don't know fire when you see it then all the advice in the world won't help you. Have you seen the story of those guys that climb out of high rise building in their underwear well you'll soon experince it live.

Dating a lady 6 years older is a No for me, but dating a married woman? Guy, you better respect yourself. Are you saying there are no more cute single ladies around?
It's another man's property that you want to covet. Be wise!!!

You should realize that she only needs you for the time being. Just someone to keep loneliness at bay. Once she is sated, she'll tell you to run along.

Don't be used by a married woman. You deserve better.

That's forbidden fruit, DONT EAT IT!!!


I actually don't have problem with the age difference. My only problem is that she's married. Never sleep with a married woman. Never!

There are thousands of single women/ladies out there, dating a married lady shouldn't be an option cuz NOTHING can justify that act. KARMA IS REAL bro

I drop mic

dollyjoy:
Not right!
Not proper!
So wrong!

Today is your Bday, right ?
Happy Birthday

[center]if you think you av all u want on a platter of gold, go ahead but remember bro david...u deserve someone better out dere bt no harm in truncating your destiny tho [/center]

Ok

Op is playing lotto with his destiny...


Even guys are now fucking greedy, gold diggers who needs women to make it in life

Smh

Mhizizzy:
Op is playing lotto with his destiny...


Even guys are now fucking greedy, gold diggers who needs women to make it in life

Smh

lol...lady this is not an issue of been a gold digger or so, moreover I'm doing fine financially.

Jacksparr0w1207:
That's forbidden fruit, DONT EAT IT!!!


I actually don't have problem with the age difference. My only problem is that she's married. Never sleep with a married woman. Never!

There are thousands of single women/ladies out there, dating a married lady shouldn't be an option cuz NOTHING can justify that act. KARMA IS REAL bro

I drop mic

thanks

jimmyolasun:
thanks

did you do it?

Jacksparr0w1207:
did you do it?

no, we are far from each other for now... Tho we still talk on phone

jimmyolasun:
no, we are far from each other for now... Tho we still talk on phone

ok. Make sure you don't

Cut every contact from her if possible

Jacksparr0w1207:
ok. Make sure you don't
Cut every contact from her if possible

thanks !!

QueenValerie:
Back ta play with the(f) eh? tryin' ta see if you catch some with this moniker? shame!

catch what?

QueenValerie:
PMs don't play dumb.I must say you make a pretty woman

Thanks. You also make a pretty man