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I Was Dying In Silence But Now I Have Decided To Speak Out And Maybe Get Help by swemzkid(m): 2:29pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
mastubation as we all know is a very addictive and wicked habit very easy and sweet to start, but the hardest habit to stop.I have tried to do away with it but can't. I have even confessed to a pastors, and prayed for severally, I have gone for water babtism all spiritual measures fail I believe there are people on NL that can help me so pls if u can help me in any way please do and God will bless you for saving a soul |
Re: I Was Dying In Silence But Now I Have Decided To Speak Out And Maybe Get Help by tripplephi: 2:33pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
swemzkid: Brother I can help you and anyone else who is facing it It's very simple God bless you... But first you must never condemn yourself 1 Like |
Re: I Was Dying In Silence But Now I Have Decided To Speak Out And Maybe Get Help by swemzkid(m): 2:34pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
is that all |
Re: I Was Dying In Silence But Now I Have Decided To Speak Out And Maybe Get Help by jonaifame22(m): 2:35pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Bro I doubt if God has a problem wth you masturbating, why not go ahead and enjoy it if u can't stop or even stop if u're tired of enjoying than tear urself apart cos of it! 1 Like |
Re: I Was Dying In Silence But Now I Have Decided To Speak Out And Maybe Get Help by Hero10001: 2:36pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Cut off your hands! |
Re: I Was Dying In Silence But Now I Have Decided To Speak Out And Maybe Get Help by mumumugu(m): 2:47pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
you are better off dead |
Re: I Was Dying In Silence But Now I Have Decided To Speak Out And Maybe Get Help by rosalieene(f): 2:50pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
swemzkid:firstly only the Holy spirit can help you. Beg God to grant u d grace to resist it. secondly, stop watching porn or looking at nude pix in social medias, discussion about sex has been the order of the day so i will advice u to stop opening pages that talks about sex directly or indirectly even here on Nairaland. Lastly, don't think of sex, try to keep yourself busy so as not to have d urge. Its well with you 1 Like |
Re: I Was Dying In Silence But Now I Have Decided To Speak Out And Maybe Get Help by coolh3ad(m): 3:10pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Wait first.. Why is the topic/talk of masturbation being unGodly and a sin soo sooo overrated?...Fornication nko?...what about lusting for a lady you barely know (most guys are guilty of this).... |
Re: I Was Dying In Silence But Now I Have Decided To Speak Out And Maybe Get Help by swemzkid(m): 3:11pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
rosalieene:thanks bro things to do to take my mind off it is just all I need u just helped |
Re: I Was Dying In Silence But Now I Have Decided To Speak Out And Maybe Get Help by Freshboi: 3:14pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
My simple piece of advice.. Have sex. Once you enjoy the pleasures of being with a woman, you would never self-service again. 2 Likes |
Re: I Was Dying In Silence But Now I Have Decided To Speak Out And Maybe Get Help by rosalieene(f): 3:56pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
swemzkid:lol.... am not a bro ooo |
Re: I Was Dying In Silence But Now I Have Decided To Speak Out And Maybe Get Help by rosalieene(f): 3:58pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Freshboi:could this possibly be an advice? wasted generation!. instead of you to encourage him positively. |
Re: I Was Dying In Silence But Now I Have Decided To Speak Out And Maybe Get Help by ghostwritter(m): 4:21pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Freshboi:yes o! All his gra-gra will calm down after he releases his speR'M inside the appropriate hole. 1 Like |
Re: I Was Dying In Silence But Now I Have Decided To Speak Out And Maybe Get Help by henrinity(m): 5:01pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
rosalieene:Nice one, no strings attached, do you stay in Iba?... Your face looks familiar |
Re: I Was Dying In Silence But Now I Have Decided To Speak Out And Maybe Get Help by Ruq: 5:28pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Freshboi: This is the wrongest chunk of advice. OP rosalieene has given a good advice, but leave God out of it. |
Re: I Was Dying In Silence But Now I Have Decided To Speak Out And Maybe Get Help by ishiamu(m): 5:50pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
An idle mind is the devils workshop stop being idle get yourself occupied when the urge comes up... go visit a friend or find someone to jist with... That's all |
Re: I Was Dying In Silence But Now I Have Decided To Speak Out And Maybe Get Help by Beetwaise(m): 5:51pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Quitting masturbation is quite difficult but it's attainable. You need self discipline, determination & resilience to quit it. To be truthful, praying alone will not stop it, rather you need to condition your body, soul & mind to stop it forever. Here are the advantages u will get when u stop masturbating: 1. You get to have a great amount of strength build up in your body. Excess masturbation reduces the strength, health & performance in males. 2. Your skin will become clearer, smoother & glowing unlike before. 3. You will see the need to actually be in a romantic relationship with the opposite sex instead of ejaculating & wasting your 'seeds' on your own. 4. You will have a boost in your thinking, communication & brain usage. 5. You will have self-control & discipline over your emotions. And lots more...... NB: To stop this habit, try to keep away from every sexually related articles, movies, shows, discussions etc. It will help u greatly. Next, take it upon yourself as a project. I bet u that 90 days is a perfect target to stop this ill behaviour forever. I've made my research & confirmed it. I'm on the project as well & I'm gradually regaining my God given soul, body & mind. I can achieve it & so can u. It won't be easy but put up a stubborn fight to subdue this act & u will forever be glad u did. Goodluck to u as u embark on the 90days (3months) project. 1 Like |
Re: I Was Dying In Silence But Now I Have Decided To Speak Out And Maybe Get Help by nenergy(m): 5:54pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
First step, avoid porn like lassa fever. Maturbation is a bus stop, porn is the vehicle. Don't start the vehicle and you won't get to the bus stop. Its worse if you're a virgin. Stay strong and get busy. It shall pass l 1 Like |
Re: I Was Dying In Silence But Now I Have Decided To Speak Out And Maybe Get Help by witorwitoutyou(m): 6:04pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
If u re a Muslim op,i will recommend dis 4 stteps 1,always keep ursef busy and try not to b alone most times 2,Do Dhikr always(remembrance of Allah) 3, pray your five solat in Jammah 4 Tahajjud |
Re: I Was Dying In Silence But Now I Have Decided To Speak Out And Maybe Get Help by rosalieene(f): 6:04pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
henrinity:yes I do |
Re: I Was Dying In Silence But Now I Have Decided To Speak Out And Maybe Get Help by rosalieene(f): 6:06pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Ruq:thanks but he needs God's grace. he can do nothing without God. |
Re: I Was Dying In Silence But Now I Have Decided To Speak Out And Maybe Get Help by henrinity(m): 6:08pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
rosalieene:oh okay, i guess i was right, i have seen you around |
Re: I Was Dying In Silence But Now I Have Decided To Speak Out And Maybe Get Help by rosalieene(f): 6:09pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
henrinity:ok |
Re: I Was Dying In Silence But Now I Have Decided To Speak Out And Maybe Get Help by Nobody: 6:27pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
God didnt send His son to die because we were righteous (Rom 5:, He came because of weak people like u & me....that we might be free. every human is struggling with one thing or the other....but pride and shame will not allow some to admit this. (three things are found in this world according to scriptures; lost of d flesh, lost of d eyes & d pride of life; 1John 2:16) but with the help of the Holy Spirit we overcome. Masturbation, like every other sexual addiction doesnt just happen, it is initiated by what one seea n lost after...you masturbate not because u do not pray, fast or deaire to change, but because you do not have enought LIGHT (the word of God). sin grows in darkness, a place where d word of God is absent. the Bible say in psalm 119:9: wherewithal shall a young man cleans his ways by taking thereto according to thy WORD. To stop mastubation, you need to make a conscious effort....what you should do include: 1. FILL YOURSELF UP WITH THE WORD OF GOD DAILY. not just reading.....I mean you study THE WORD AND ACT ON WHAT IT SAYS. 2. PRAY ALWAYS ABOUT IT.... that God should deliver you...because only He can do it....it is not by power nor by might but by His spirit. Zech 4:6. paul said in Rom 7:19 for i do not do the good I want to do, but the evil I do not want to do...this I keep doing. verse 24 says what a wretched man I am! who will save me from this body that is subject to death? he went further & said BUT THANKS BE TO GOD WHO DELIVERS ME THROUGJ JESUS CHRIST OUR LORD... 3. like u were adviced ealier...stay away from any form of porn, paters, games, sitea, media, etc. 4. Associate with GENUINE CHRISTIANS, & stay away from those that can possibly influence u negatively. 5. REMEMBER; ONLY JEAUS CAN SAVE....IF HE CAN'T, NO ONE ELSE CAN. He saves me, He can save you too. He love you just d way you are come & drop your burden at d sole of His feet & NEVER TURN BACK. Read Romans 7 & Romans 8. Stay Blessed. 1 Like |
Re: I Was Dying In Silence But Now I Have Decided To Speak Out And Maybe Get Help by Nobody: 7:49pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Pick up and read the book. ' Questions young people ask.. answers that work.' whether you're young or not it's the best recipe to your problem. Thank God later for this practical book on diff topics. you can also read it online on www.jw.org. best wishes. |
Re: I Was Dying In Silence But Now I Have Decided To Speak Out And Maybe Get Help by Walexsammy(m): 7:55pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
swemzkid:At least uve been able to discover ur fault. now u'll have to stop doing things that leads u to doin it, eg...porn |
Re: I Was Dying In Silence But Now I Have Decided To Speak Out And Maybe Get Help by cokpabi(m): 8:19pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
Pls bro develop willpower,where there is a will there is always away... 1 Like |
Re: I Was Dying In Silence But Now I Have Decided To Speak Out And Maybe Get Help by melison29(m): 9:14pm On Feb 15, 2016 |
First of all just note that you can't stop masturbation by ur own strength but by the help of the Holy Spirit, secondly pray for the grace of God,and abstain from watching porn n sex related stuffs it will help, a lot, lastly don't stay at a place when the urge comes look for something to do. Am telling u out of experience, it's past like six months I did it last so u too can do d same, may God help you in Jesus name Amen. Jesus loves you and I |
Re: I Was Dying In Silence But Now I Have Decided To Speak Out And Maybe Get Help by HARDBUOI: 12:18am On Feb 16, 2016 |
rosalieene: bae but ur pix makes me mersterbhate |
Re: I Was Dying In Silence But Now I Have Decided To Speak Out And Maybe Get Help by lords1: 12:51am On Feb 16, 2016 |
o7t77 |
Re: I Was Dying In Silence But Now I Have Decided To Speak Out And Maybe Get Help by Nobody: 1:44am On Feb 16, 2016 |
rosalieene: oh pls holy spirit? whats wrong with you Nigerians! you see the gospel as panadol for everything lol bad thing happens its the devil good thing happens its God lol what about the actions you took? someone is having a mental issue instead of you to advice him you are talking abt prayer smh that's why we don't move forward we keep thinking that the solution to everything is in the church we believe in God more than 2/3 of the countries in the world but yet we don't progress you know why we only believe in God here because of what we want, house, car ,job, wife, husband. that's why wen the pastor see you gullible people and mentions those things in prayers you all shout amen like if it will fall from the sky we need to wake up and stop this stupid outdated backwards way of looking at Christianity heaven will ONLY help does who help themselves so if you like shout amen and be forming faith lol As for you mr i have an issue, you dont have an issue young man, get a job, stop being alone at home , keep yourself busy, get a girlfriend that knows how to bleep very well, trust me you wont think abt it again |
Re: I Was Dying In Silence But Now I Have Decided To Speak Out And Maybe Get Help by Nobody: 7:31am On Feb 16, 2016 |
Like they said, Keep God out of it. it human mind power, your mind is the greatest and vulnerable sex organ you need to deal with. Mas tubation is healthy anyway but addiction is why its bad. To quit a habit, it has to be replaced with another because your brained is trained to love a certain type of feeling which is irreversible but applying self control to curb excesses. Get you a girl just for sex. |
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