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Re: Help!!..did I Marry The Wrong Lady? by Adaezeagu(f): 7:44am On Feb 18, 2016 |
She's wicked joor 5 Likes |
Re: Help!!..did I Marry The Wrong Lady? by ednut1(m): 7:58am On Feb 18, 2016 |
dump the fool abeg. tomrw u may be d one in need or ur kids. wat will she do den. 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!..did I Marry The Wrong Lady? by Silas0(m): 8:09am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Miami11: 1 Like |
Re: Help!!..did I Marry The Wrong Lady? by Silas0(m): 8:17am On Feb 18, 2016 |
[quote author=Miami11 post=43014385]Do you consult her before giving out stuff from the house, maybe she has plans to use them and don't like when you give them out. You are in a patnership it does not hurt to consult her before giving out stuff, Some people are not used to extend families, some people were just brought up in nuclear family so getting used to people who have to support the whole village is hard, People have different personalities, I remember when my sister in law came to my house and put on my clothing without permission, it drove me crazy, I did not grow up with sisters, so I wasn't used to sharing. She on the other hand have 7 sisters and they share everything. Poster this is not a big deal, maybe she likes hanging on to old stuff, just try learn and work with her. [/quote I strongly believe you are replicate of his wife. No wonder an old woman feels uneasy when she's mentioned in a proverb. 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!..did I Marry The Wrong Lady? by calculator123(m): 8:23am On Feb 18, 2016 |
yemi16:can u kick her ass out?if yes pls do so u would live long. 3 Likes |
Re: Help!!..did I Marry The Wrong Lady? by yemi16: 8:28am On Feb 18, 2016 |
mizquote: Like i mentioned earlier...i already bought a new replacement even before giving out the items... 4 Likes |
Re: Help!!..did I Marry The Wrong Lady? by yemi16: 8:37am On Feb 18, 2016 |
lynnfeb: thanks dear..i appreciate the advice..... |
Re: Help!!..did I Marry The Wrong Lady? by yemi16: 8:53am On Feb 18, 2016 |
pureview: Thanks and i appreciate your advice...especially the begging aspect...where u have said i need to stop being the first to initiate the peace/begging process....i have had this advice from a couple of folks also on the begging aspect... Its not gono be a solo ride the next few months...but i think a man has gat to be a man....wish me luck! 3 Likes |
Re: Help!!..did I Marry The Wrong Lady? by BuddhaPalm(m): 8:56am On Feb 18, 2016 |
yemi16: Therein lies your problem. You didn't marry the wrong woman. You've not exactly been wearing the pants. Whenever you give a woman too much leeway, no matter how seemingly well-behaved she is, she becomes insufferable. NOBODY, ever, should tell you how to spend YOUR MONEY, most of all in YOUR HOUSE! 3 Likes |
Re: Help!!..did I Marry The Wrong Lady? by ivoatt(m): 9:09am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Na wa oooo my.cf |
Re: Help!!..did I Marry The Wrong Lady? by Nobody: 9:13am On Feb 18, 2016 |
yemi16: Please don't report her to the pastor.... Trust me, this is not a major issue that needs external interference (from my own perspective if you do this at the point you have lost it) This is your home and its for you to manage and not the pastor to run with biblical doctrines... Be firm with your stands when the need arises also give secretly when you can 5 Likes |
Re: Help!!..did I Marry The Wrong Lady? by Lionhearted: 9:16am On Feb 18, 2016 |
yemi16: She gave you a good advice. If and when you want to do things for your family don't tell her or let her know. Neither keep it a secret either... 1 Like |
Re: Help!!..did I Marry The Wrong Lady? by UnknownT: 9:17am On Feb 18, 2016 |
yemi16:Will she stay when things get temporarily hard for you? |
Re: Help!!..did I Marry The Wrong Lady? by redcliff: 9:17am On Feb 18, 2016 |
zayhal: you are the real wife material..!!! 1 Like |
Re: Help!!..did I Marry The Wrong Lady? by sannirules(m): 9:18am On Feb 18, 2016 |
a biblical verse says " a brother is born for adversity". You're doing the right thing by helping. Avoid telling your wife what you do for him. Plus how can your wife call your bro to return the stuffs, common this is your brother we talking about here. You need to step up and be the man of the house abeg. In my opinion, she crossed the line by doing that. 7 Likes |
Re: Help!!..did I Marry The Wrong Lady? by repogirl(f): 9:18am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Your wife is selfish ooooo Is that how she has also cut herself off her family members? 1 Like |
Re: Help!!..did I Marry The Wrong Lady? by mudiana(m): 9:18am On Feb 18, 2016 |
my brother start praying oh! u married someone who doesn't believe in giving 3 Likes |
Re: Help!!..did I Marry The Wrong Lady? by ifoundmyperfect: 9:19am On Feb 18, 2016 |
yemi16: YES YOU DID..... 4 Likes |
Re: Help!!..did I Marry The Wrong Lady? by U2ice(m): 9:20am On Feb 18, 2016 |
yemi16: Then wats her ish wiv u helpin ur blood caution her well oo mk she calm down 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!..did I Marry The Wrong Lady? by babyfaceafrica: 9:20am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Miami11:so he has to consult his wife before helping his brother?.....did she consult him before sending stuffs to her family?....she is just petty and selfish!!!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!..did I Marry The Wrong Lady? by viktor01(m): 9:21am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Make her understand that in life, nothing last forever. The tables could turn tomorrow. BTW, never tell a woman everything. 3 Likes |
Re: Help!!..did I Marry The Wrong Lady? by U2ice(m): 9:21am On Feb 18, 2016 |
peterdrury: Gbam!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!..did I Marry The Wrong Lady? by oglalasioux(m): 9:22am On Feb 18, 2016 |
How can you ask us what to do when she told you from the onset that it's the reason she left her ex? You walked into it wide eyed. Deal with it. 3 Likes |
Re: Help!!..did I Marry The Wrong Lady? by Taiwoabolade: 9:23am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Stop telling her what ever happened between you and your brother, 3 Likes |
Re: Help!!..did I Marry The Wrong Lady? by Nobody: 9:23am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Mindfulness: Very very dumb and daft comment/question from you, dude. 1 Like |
Re: Help!!..did I Marry The Wrong Lady? by omonighoblessing(f): 9:23am On Feb 18, 2016 |
just for the records .......for anyone dating ,my pastor always say ..."do not neglect warning signals "......don't at all.it's only a sign from God to help u avert problems later. meanwhile. ..since u know her reactions already, u don't have to tell her anything concerning your family or any help u want to render them.as long as u know u are doing the right thing...she don't have to know since her outcome won't be nice.just do a transfer or go pay to the acc....by ur self......be wise in ur dealings. 3 Likes |
Re: Help!!..did I Marry The Wrong Lady? by Nobody: 9:23am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Don't tell her if you want to give out things to your family. Cefinis! Some ladies sha , she wanna separate d husby 4rm d family . It's not possible nah. Family always comes 1st 3 Likes |
Re: Help!!..did I Marry The Wrong Lady? by AFRICANDICEY: 9:24am On Feb 18, 2016 |
Your brother does not need to come to your house for money; you can do a transfer. Your wife must not always be in the picture. She is not a bad wife but ''over protecting her husband finances''. Be diplomatic with her, always convince her of your reasons. If you can help your brother get a job. 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!..did I Marry The Wrong Lady? by redcliff: 9:24am On Feb 18, 2016 |
[quote author=Silas0 post=43024594][/quote] so would you consider money an old thing his wife likes hanging on to? I understand the message you are trying to pass. But lets not ignore hr fact here that his wife is a selfish and greedy woman. and wicked too.. 3 Likes |
Re: Help!!..did I Marry The Wrong Lady? by TheLeakyTribe(f): 9:24am On Feb 18, 2016 |
yemi16: I'm just wondering if you tell her before doing these things you've mentioned. Not to ask for permission but because she's your partner and should be a part of decisions you make even to support your brother. If you never told her and just called your brother to pick up stuff, would you have been cool with it if you got home one day to see she sent the same stuff to her parents or siblings without informing you because 'you were gonna replace them anyway'? Bottom line Communicate. Treat your spouse like you would want to be treated, she's in your life for the rest of your life! 1 Like |
Re: Help!!..did I Marry The Wrong Lady? by ojoyebola1: 9:25am On Feb 18, 2016 |
My brother you did not marry wrong oh you two just have to agree on matters like this before been done. 1 Like 1 Share |
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