what is a bad boy

syren:

Bad guys are usually tough, dominating, protective, and, i must admit, more exciting, etc and women like those qualities, only problem is with those qualities often comes a disrespectful attitude and heartbreak which some (women) tend to ignore or believe they can avoid,

Exactly. Everything has a downside sadly.

What of women who date bad boys thinking they have the power to change his bad habits

albridge:

I couldnt agree with you more, its think your very correct. girls are used to behaving like the perfect creature, like angels when no dey mess, when in actual fact they are not. Thats why they preffer being with bad boys who will allow them to express their dark side and not expect anything better from them.

Wow he got it right on spot. I don't know but something about bad boys are just alluring to me. I know at the end of the day, they aint nothing buy a bad boy. but it is so exciting to be with one you know. like you do things you wouldn't dare do with any other type of guy. But i also know that i truly only see the potential of them being a "good" boy. so you try to change them but you can take a bad boy from his life style but you can't take out the bad in him.

albridge:

I couldnt agree with you more, its think your very correct. girls are used to behaving like the perfect creature, like angels when no dey mess, when in actual fact they are not. Thats why they preffer being with bad boys who will allow them to express their dark side and not expect anything better from them.

I disagree with you.

Women are natural mother hens. . . . . . .They see a bad boy and they want to be the one to make him change his ways.
The urge to be the one to "change them" and set them straight then is considered to be a great accomplishment.
They want to be the one that saves them - to feel important, to earn respect, to have something worth the struggle.

onyinye2:

Wow he got it right on spot. I don't know but something about bad boys are just alluring to me. I know at the end of the day, they aint nothing buy a bad boy. but it is so exciting to be with one you know. like you do things you wouldn't dare do with any other type of guy.

like what? steal a car    i don't get what you mean.  it's vague  

I once thought bad boys were ok, but each day as I grow more, I began to understand why people think they're very childish and disrespectful.

Bad boys are now turn offs. Even those that pretend to be bad boys, esp on NL. TURN OFFs!

HCH3COO:

like what? steal a car    i don't get what you mean.  it's vague  

Yeah i would go and steal a car next we will go rob a corner store at night

Ruby_Pearl:
I began to understand why people think they're very childish and disrespectful.

True. Oh so childish and rude. Then again when they have teenagers clamoring on their back, why wont they feel the need to act up?

People need to realize it IS girls that go after them. WOMEN however do not. Quite a difference between the two. They've already been there, done that and realize that such guys arent worth it. The ones who havent, are girls mentally.

onyinye2:

Yeah i would go and steal a car next we will go rob a corner store at night

i don't need to be a bad boy to know that t his behavior is unacceptable. I don't flirt with jail time sweety. It's a no no.

Hmm, bad boys, it depends in what aspect you are talking sha, in some areas, it can be damn sexy

ibkaye:

Hmm, bad boys, it depends in what aspect you are talking sha, in some areas, it can be damn sexy

you speak some truth.

onyinye2:

Yeah i would go and steal a car next we will go rob a corner store at night

Must one steal, rob, kill and rape to be a bad boy??

some of them change when they find the right woman.  But i guess that woman must put up with some of the bullshit first.

@karma
yep, you're right.

what I noticed is that more than half of them are drop outs/ baby daddies.

they're too busy trying to impress girls than trying to make sth of themselves. Before they realize their mistake, its too late. Too bad!

Hannibal:

Must one steal, rob, kill and rape to be a bad boy??

lol

onyinye2:

you speak some truth.

walahi talahi

@topic
my own bad boy is not one who steals, rapes etc, i dunno sha, i can't even explain it, just something about his attitude, not necesarily disrespectful

Hannibal:

Must one steal, rob, kill and rape to be a bad boy??

Tell that to HCH3COO.

@HCH
Was that an insult?
verbal insult.

so what's a bad boy o  don't all pepole have these good and bad qualities

Don't worry about what it is.
Just don't become one, simple.

Onyin, why did you say ask acetic acid?  I mentioned stealing.  In my definition of a badboy, the badboys I know do some type of stealing.


ruby you're seein things.

Yes, let it be me seeing things.

Knowing that you modified it. good job

onyinye2:

Tell that to HCH3COO.

Seriously, a lot of women don't really know what the bad boy image represents. . . .

A typical bad boy is  

--Cocky
--Arrogant
--Always puts himself first
--Is inattentive to a woman's needs
--Does what he wants when he wants to do it, regardless of what anyone else thinks
--Acts like a loose cannon
--Struts his masculine sexuality
--Isn't even remotely a "nice" guy
--Treats women badly
--Often uses women for sex

A Bad Boy exudes untamed masculinity, independence and confidence.
To women, these traits -- especially confidence -- are an aphrodisiac.
The problem is, in the hands of the Bad Boy, confidence becomes selfish arrogance.
But women are responding to guys like this on a purely elemental, emotional level.

This is what distinguishes women from girls as TOH mentioned.

@topic
by the way, it is not 'always', just sometimes, being a 'bad boy' is not what gets me attracted, it just adds to the interest, only sometimes

I can easily be an alpha male without hoisting the label of a bad boy.

HCH3COO:

I can easily be an alpha male without hoisting the label of a bad boy.

definately

@topic
people like a mixture of things, as in you can hold traits of a bad boy and whatnot, it doesn't really matter, just don't be too much of a pushover

HCH3COO:

I can easily be an alpha male without hoisting the label of a bad boy.

you an alpha male? dat will be the day.

ibkaye:

@topic
by the way, it is not 'always', just sometimes, being a 'bad boy' is not what gets me attracted, it just adds to the interest, only sometimes

truth in that

ibkaye:

@topic
by the way, it is not 'always', just sometimes, being a 'bad boy' is not what gets me attracted, it just adds to the interest, only sometimes

Are u sure of this??

Take a mental note of the guys u have dated in the past with the bad boy attitude. . . .
U would agree with me u enjoyed ur relationship with them more than "nice guys" who can be boring and dependent.
Just as men are turned on by a woman's femininity, so too do women respond to overt male masculinity -- and the Bad Boy has it in buckets.

Oka im not saying that im attracted to dudes that steal cars and rob old ladies. It is just that swagger, that attitude about them. But i just feel every guy has a little bad in him no matter how much he tries to deny it. Some just have more than others.

Hannibal:

Are u sure of this??

Take a mental note of the guys u have dated in the past with the bad boy attitude. . . .
You would agree with me u enjoyed your relationship with them more than "nice guys" who can be boring and dependent.
Just as men are turned on by a woman's femininity, so too do women respond to overt male masculinity -- and the Bad Boy has it in buckets.

hehehehe, well i can't really answer you there, i have never dated

just talking from observations

onyinye2:

you an alpha male? that will be the day.truth in that

I hope that will be the day you repent and stop running your mouth.    I don't think that's going to happen.

onyinye2:

Oka im saying that im attracted to dudes that steal cars and rob old ladies. It is just that swagger, that attitude about them. But i just feel every guy has a little bad in him no matter how much he tries to deny it. Some just have more than others.

Bummer. It's a shame you can't help who you are attracted to, huh ?