HCH3COO:

I hope that will be the day you repent and stop running your mouth.    I don't think that's going to happen.

I don't run my mouth. I just say what i feel. if you can't stand it, then sit down.

Oka im saying that im attracted to dudes that steal cars and rob old ladies. It is just that swagger, that attitude about them. But i just feel every guy has a little bad in him no matter how much he tries to deny it. Some just have more than others.

Was the bolded part an error?

ibkaye:

hehehehe, well i can't really answer you there, i have never dated

just talking from observations

Never dated??
I rest me case.

Hannibal:

Never dated??
I rest me case.

which case?

My case.

Ruby_Pearl:

Was the bolded part an error?

Oka thanks for pointing that out. That was an extreme error.

Hannibal:

My case.

ok

onyinye2:

I don't run my mouth. I just say what i feel. if you can't stand it, then sit down.

You contradict yourself. You mentioned on the other thread that you like to run your mouth to air what's on your mind. If I can't stand it i can always walk away ; it's easy.

HCH3COO:

You contradict yourself. You mentioned on the other thread that you like to run your mouth to air what's on your mind. If I can't stand it i can always walk away ; it's easy.

I said i was quick at the mouth when im angry, but as you can see brutha, i aint angr.

onyinye2:

I said i was quick at the mouth when im angry, but as you can see brutha, i aint angr.

sure .

ibkaye:

which case?

Just didn't realise we have a NUN on NL.
Which of the convents are u browsing from?

Hannibal:

Just didn't realise we have a NUN on Nairaland.
Which of the convents are u browsing from?

hehehe, if you knew my age you would understand, don't really want a relationship with anyone at this moment in time, don't think it is necessary yet

15 would be a very safe guess.

Eysh, am not that young

Hmmmmmm . . . .16 it is then.

lol nah

Tired of guessing.

Say it in roman numerals already.

:p

Thanx. . . .
I am not fazed if u edit.

alright no problem

ibkaye:

alright no problem

But most of ya age-mates are married in Sokoto/Borno states.

hahaha you mean the northern parts? funny enough, i am from the north, but that isn't how i roll

How do u roll?
Most gurls get married by the age of 9.
From one arranged marriage to anutha. . . . . . It's a wild-wild world up there.

hehehe roll as in i don't follow the nothern ways
neither does my mum sha, if it were not for her dad, i'm sure i would have been one of those girls there
terrible what they have to go through abi

It's not terrible. . . . . It's their tradition. . . .their culture.
Early marriage is encouraged by Islam so these people are just following their Holy Book.
So, go to the North and marry a Mallam.

yes it is tradition, i just don't believe in forcing someone to marry someone
hahaha, mallam? if it happens it happens, high unlikley though

ibkaye:

yes it is tradition, i just don't believe in forcing someone to marry someone
hahaha, mallam? if it happens it happens, high unlikley though

They are not forcing these gurls to marry. . . .

Islam is just preventing these young gurls from the sexually permissive society.
It is clear that young girls have sexual urges at puberty. . . . .in order to keep these girls from sins. . . they quickly marry them off to husbands.
Everything is under the guide of the holy book so it's not illegal.

well isn't an 'arranged marriage' technically 'forced' in a sense 
of course it isn't illegal etc, i still don't agree with it sha
i guess that's just how it is
sure some girls do it but im sure a good majority of them are not happy

Arranged marriage is not technically "forced"

If we think about what kids don't want and parents make em do then everything is forced.

From going to school, taking medicine, injections, domestic chores and staying indoors are all forced on kids.
If we base everything on the rights of a child, the world would collapse.
I'd rather a gurl marry early to a husband suitable for her than go on a shagging spree as a prostitute.

@ Hannibal

how is a woman being popular a turn off? I'm confused. If she gets on well with people surely that's better than a social outcast right?

syren:

@ Hannibal

how is a woman being popular a turn off? I'm confused. If she gets on well with people surely that's better than a social outcast right?

don't mind these men. they don't know what they want.

syren:

@ Hannibal
how is a woman being popular a turn off? I'm confused. If she gets on well with people surely that's better than a social outcast right?

It's a huge turn off. . . . .
Men prefer gurls that are laid back, reserved and reticent.
She has to be reluctant to draw unnecessary attention to herself.