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Re: When You Do Not Love Him Enough by olac21(m): 7:05am On Mar 16, 2016 |
pinkpebbles: Dnt mind that fool!is being cute a pre-requisite for marriage?ask yourself maam and do not be misled by the unwholy pieces of advice you get here!my take is you should give him more time! |
Re: When You Do Not Love Him Enough by olac21(m): 7:14am On Mar 16, 2016 |
pinkpebbles: My intuition tells me that you do not love the guy cos he isn't cute!guess am right?but again,do not follow that girls stupid advice.she's being running her mouth here of recent. |
Re: When You Do Not Love Him Enough by tunex11(m): 7:22am On Mar 16, 2016 |
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Re: When You Do Not Love Him Enough by pinkpebbles(f): 7:31am On Mar 16, 2016 |
Lol. Ok. I wont follow her advice. Thnks olac21: |
Re: When You Do Not Love Him Enough by AfroKnight: 2:50am On Mar 31, 2016 |
Smellymouth: Word. It couldn't have been said any better. 2 Likes |
Re: When You Do Not Love Him Enough by Smellymouth: 6:52am On Mar 31, 2016 |
Lalasticlala, pls come and share your views |
Re: When You Do Not Love Him Enough by dyn1800: 9:57am On Mar 31, 2016 |
You're the best person to advice yourself......just follow your heart pinkpebbles: |
Re: When You Do Not Love Him Enough by Arsenate(m): 9:57am On Mar 31, 2016 |
Op is a kid. Probably in her early twenties. Nativity and indecision written all over her posts 2 Likes |
Re: When You Do Not Love Him Enough by sheunsheun(m): 9:58am On Mar 31, 2016 |
Yea, provided the man really loves you. I will always say, it is better for a lady 2 marry a man who loves her than d oda way round, in time you will love him. 3 Likes |
Re: When You Do Not Love Him Enough by sod09(m): 9:58am On Mar 31, 2016 |
No...i will never let any lady marry me outta pity or intention of growing in love |
Re: When You Do Not Love Him Enough by braxjay(m): 10:01am On Mar 31, 2016 |
OP answer these questions is he rich ? does he spend on you freely ? does he love you ? does he make you happy ? if yes MARRY O before Nkechi take over. many are waiting to be called MRS since 1970 to date. ( love can Grow over time) BUT have it at the back of your mind THAT .............. most men cheat at least 90% (marriage wont change that ) just pray he respects you well enough to hide it there are always girls out there to hustle for your hubby ( in this world, men will run out of money chasing women, but never run out of women chasing men with money) |
Re: When You Do Not Love Him Enough by emmykk(m): 10:02am On Mar 31, 2016 |
pinkpebbles:love grow everyday...normally it should be that you ought to like him,it is little by little that you later love him. young people talk of love in the sense that he should be handsome. go ahead and marry him,provide r he lives you |
Re: When You Do Not Love Him Enough by Acidosis(m): 10:02am On Mar 31, 2016 |
The danger of marrying someone you don't love enough is that you will easily cheat on them. Of course, two people, (acquaintances) can live together for 1000 years without necessarily "loving" each other, but you need total love to survive some storms. When he goes broke, ahaha! You'd freely walk away! A woman who loves her man won't. See I have seen true love (the type they call Ruth Abobaku! This type of woman can give her life for her hubby). Without love, I won't marry. It is better to love yourself only and remain single, than move in with a man you don't love or admire (at least). That's a big disaster. I envy the lucky man you'd end up falling in love with after marrying this nice man to escape spinster-hood. Do you want to spend the rest of your life calling and thinking about another man while eating and making love with your hubby? Don't do it! Challenges would come, and you need LOVE to overcome such. 3 Likes |
Re: When You Do Not Love Him Enough by corporate2016: 10:02am On Mar 31, 2016 |
[quote author=pinkpebbles post=43795211]If you do not love a man enough to marry him, can you go ahead and marry him hoping you would love him later or u shud call it quits?[/quote pls don't marry him |
Re: When You Do Not Love Him Enough by femi4: 10:04am On Mar 31, 2016 |
pinkpebbles:i ll go ahead if we are compatible, beauty fades and love can grow with time 2 Likes |
Re: When You Do Not Love Him Enough by MadCow1: 10:04am On Mar 31, 2016 |
pinkpebbles: FRANKLY SPEAKING: Don't do it.. Its possible for love to grow afterward if both parties are willing to make it work and put in the effort to be sensitive towards each others emotions. But where that does no happen, you are stuck. The love would die out fast. You will find yourself in a constant state of unhappiness and may get depressed fast. This can lead to so many bad things including assault, divorce and even murder. The role of love and friendship in a marriage can never be understated. 1 Like |
Re: When You Do Not Love Him Enough by valeno(m): 10:04am On Mar 31, 2016 |
police question!!!!!! |
Re: When You Do Not Love Him Enough by Lexusgs430: 10:04am On Mar 31, 2016 |
pinkpebbles: Love and marriage are complimentary inputs. Without initial Love, why marry? Is the marriage out of desperation or biological clocks battery about to run out or other reasons? |
Re: When You Do Not Love Him Enough by Mekzmoney(m): 10:05am On Mar 31, 2016 |
U don't manage a man or woman in marriage, or u wud end up in divorce or cheating.... So beta beware. LuveU2: |
Re: When You Do Not Love Him Enough by jericco1(m): 10:05am On Mar 31, 2016 |
pinkpebbles:take it into advisement at ur own peril |
Re: When You Do Not Love Him Enough by Nobody: 10:06am On Mar 31, 2016 |
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Re: When You Do Not Love Him Enough by mrkel(m): 10:07am On Mar 31, 2016 |
Re: When You Do Not Love Him Enough by danjay22: 10:07am On Mar 31, 2016 |
pinkpebbles:Luv isn't somtin u fake.Go wit ur heart,know where ur heart lies else u wil regret ever getting married. |
Re: When You Do Not Love Him Enough by demarc001: 10:07am On Mar 31, 2016 |
pinkpebbles: Lol "into advisement" (the tyrant) |
Re: When You Do Not Love Him Enough by byvan03: 10:07am On Mar 31, 2016 |
No, I will not marry him and hope to love him later. I have to be drunk in love to promise for better for worse. If it doesn't feel right, don't do it. Get married to the one you really want to be with. |
Re: When You Do Not Love Him Enough by Waskolo(m): 10:07am On Mar 31, 2016 |
pinkpebbles:Love grows, it depends on how you water it 1 Like |
Re: When You Do Not Love Him Enough by Patented: 10:08am On Mar 31, 2016 |
the 1st part of your statement contains the key to answer to your question na!! na quit pinkpebbles: |
Re: When You Do Not Love Him Enough by awesomeboi(m): 10:12am On Mar 31, 2016 |
u can talk to him by letting him knw wat u like and doing it for u |
Re: When You Do Not Love Him Enough by Mekzmoney(m): 10:13am On Mar 31, 2016 |
always be optimistic and don't be persimistic, miss.... Help urself. pinkpebbles: |
Re: When You Do Not Love Him Enough by Mekzmoney(m): 10:13am On Mar 31, 2016 |
always be optimistic and don't be persimistic, miss.... Help urself. pinkpebbles:Try n build d love. 1 Like |
Re: When You Do Not Love Him Enough by atuanso: 10:13am On Mar 31, 2016 |
Smellymouth: apologies for quoting u. all though we need someone who is compatible with us, we should not forget that this too is quiet hard to find. think about it this way, everyone who is tired from a days jobs , wish they can come home to a nice cooked meal ready. however sometimes, we just have to get to the market and prepare our meal over. my point is that everyone must increase their capacity to tolerate and accommodate one another in other to maximize each others potential. we cant always expect things to be ready as when we want. and NO love is not overrate. |
Re: When You Do Not Love Him Enough by yemicoal(m): 10:14am On Mar 31, 2016 |
pinkpebbles:Before love comes in Mutual respect and trust comes first. Once this two are present in your relationship trust me hun you are good to go. There is nothing called 'Love enough' Love is Love |
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