I’m in my twenties and live with my 30-year old boyfriend. He has a good job and pays almost all the bills. I work in a bank and work on Saturdays as well. On Saturdays, my boyfriend’s close friends come around to the house to watch sports and leave the flat looking like a dump.

When I arrived home last Saturday, they were all watching football and there were dirty plates, cigarette stubs and beer bottles all over the place. I lost my temper and switched the TV off and my guy got really pissed off.

He tried to grab the remote control and I ended up falling down in an unflattering heap on the floor. Then I started crying and they all left to go to one of the guys’ flat to continue watching the match.

We haven’t spoken to each other because of the incident and I don’t know where our relationship is going. I can’t put up with his unfeeling behaviour much longer.

Tracey121:

Tough Situation that has been happening to my sister and I have never been able to pin down how to deal with it, I guess most guys turn to be monstors once they are comfortable around their women, I mean I cant handle that to my own sisters how do u handle it to ur BF or Husband coz those ppl tend not to listen and be stubborn, I think those kinda things requires both teams to sit down and talk about their concerns and how they can go about it but that isnt easy when the other party is as stubborn, guys can be a lot of work and stress at times and again some1 stands there and say get married so that u can be unhappy maybe? some things man just get out of hand, I mean my sister is been married to this guy for 10 yrs and [b]he is been treating her like a queen and all of a sudden he changed to this monster that I dont even know myself[/b]But Seriously now U shudnt have switched off the TV not in front of his buddies

justwise:

Maybe ur sister under-estimated him, she is used to been treated well, she failed to appreciate that, she might think its automatic to get those juicy treatment. He will not just switched off and start being nasty, something triggered it

Tracey121:

And there is only one thing that change a man's behavior and that wud "He has or Got another womanliness to mess" and trust me its always that or maybe he is hoping to get the new womanliness soon so he is paving his way to a new womanliness and now he wants his wife to be out of his case

IFELEKE:

The height of it was when she switched off the t.v set in the middle of a crucial match,I really don't know what i will do(if it were to be me) because i don't joke with soccer.@Poster,
The only thing she can do is to profusely apologise and hope he forgives totally(which i doubt).

galatico:

That serves the Girl right!!! You know guys are passinate about soccer, so you don't have to disturb them when they are watching soccer, what she did by switching off the Tv only made the matter worse, what she should have done was to ignore all temptations and just walk in, then after the match she should be outspoken and tell her guy what she dislikes,

Sam Milla:

Champions League Finale

Manchester United vs Barcelona.

Imagine your wife or girlfriend switching off the tele in the middle of the game,

Especially if you are a crazy supporter of Soccer,

izeek:

i guess this just runs with barcelona fans.
imagine messi with the ball and she is asking me for a kiss! she go wait abeg.
even if nah babe wey i still dey runs. lol

oyb:

eh - i thot you'd just sit on it  

That's a thought. But then, will it still be considered as punishment?

spikedcylinder:

That's a thought. But then, will it still be considered as punishment?

izeek:

@sista in-law saga
[b]the problem with us guys is that from the onset of arelationship, we tend to treat our ladies like eggs.
not like amsaying its wrong, but this ladies get soo used to the idea of being handled as eggs, dey refuse to accept any other form of treatmen[/b]t.
ur sister must have been used to being handled like a queen, and now that he wants to handle her like the the ordinary lady she is,
she is feeling like he wants to maltreat her.

what i just feel is ladies should know that u dont get queely treatment at all times.
and hey when me dey watch footie, i dont like being disturbed.

and hey not every fight with the wife means paving way for another.

IFELEKE:

now let me divulge a little.
Armed robbers came to attack me at home during the champions league final between my Barcelona and Man Utd. I had my attention focused on the match(while on floor cooperating with them as they looted) through out the ordeal and i got injured when I vehemently resisted the disconnection of my decoder.
I didnt know where the courage came from but i successfully resisted it and saw the match to an end. . .a bitter-sweet experience it was.
Now Sam & izeek
What do you think i would have done if the distractions were to come from my girl?

oyb:

that would depend on how much weight of the famous ikebe you exert and er. . .er. . . how long your downtown trips take  

Beauty _ikebe is in the eye of the beholder.

izeek:

@ifeleke,
hope u dont have a gun!
can imagine real, barca and ur wife wants a back massage.

sexybabes:

I can just imagine what you would have done, Lol!

IFELEKE:

Yeah, it's better imagined than witnessed.