she rarely call. I do virtually all the calling. I do the giving also. yet she claims she loves me. sometimes I wonder maybe its because she is a student. but I am not convinced. Matured ladies on Nairaland, please I need your opinion;

Is it possible for a woman to be in love with a man and yet not call him regularly or text him once in a while but flash him regularly even though he recharges her phone often?

Lol...ofcurz u feed her with these recharge cards & she juz only saying what u expecting to hear exactly from her...

No

So you want a reward for recharging her phone? She must be calling your phone? Besides she is a student she is busy with school stuff.

She doesn't need to call you. You do the calling.

You can only know by talking to her about it not bringing it to NL because 'they' are going to 'spoil' ur joy. 'They' will change ur mind and mentality. Communication is what you need, u hear(abi na read)

That's why we keep advising guys to stop dating broke girls, they want you to do virtually everything for them.

It is time for you to unveil Plan B. Working guys have no business dating students. Find a lady who knows what it feels like to earn money.

Nigga, you are on a looooong tin!

She doesn't love you. If a lady cannot call you, she does not love you.


She is a sarewagba to someone else while she is your queen.

No love Bro.. Being a Student is never a yardstick for that

Don't you have something better to do? Other than calling her, please limit your attention and make yourself useful.

she's fυςking toying with your heart; fυςking use your head; to her; your nothing more than a fυςking recharge card “vending machine"; all she needs to do; is fυςking play with your fυςking emotions; with the fυςking “i love you" comment and she fυςking gets what she wants;

My nigga, take good advice from the masters...



1. Never bring your problem into social media... never ever.. dnt even mix ur offline life with it.

2: if u ever need advice, call one or two frnd's or chat with dem on whatsap and hear what they have to say..

3: quit calling that girl... and pls stop sending her recharge cards. You dnt owe her anything.

Vinshu:
So you want a reward for recharging her phone? She must be calling your phone? Besides she is a student she is busy with school stuff.

She doesn't need to call you. You do the calling.

haba, Op should keep calling ba? it's obvious from the statement that OP has been *magalized(a source for money and recharge card when broke), I knw it's ur opinion but i don't want a fellow man to be mumu forever.

Pls don't walk away, run away from the karishika, Ladies that love you will always give you attention even busy lady bankers would text once in a while, i can categorically say that you are a maga and you are at the bottom of her priorities. you are only beeped when she needed something. pls find a gal that makes you her number 1.. bless you

unapapadeycraze:
She doesn't love you. If a lady cannot call you, she does not love you.


She is a sarewagba to someone else while she is your queen.

OP, believe him 110%. If not OYO

colabotu:
she rarely call. I do virtually all the calling. I do the giving also. yet she claims she loves me. sometimes I wonder maybe its because she is a student. but I am not convinced. Matured ladies on Nairaland, please I need your opinion;

Is it possible for a woman to be in love with a man and yet not call him regularly or text him once in a while but flash him regularly even though he recharges her phone often?

you should know better.

same way my ex was- she rarely calls but visits though. i realised it's just her nature. i complained and she promised to change but she didn't. she once told me that she's always having airtime but it does not always just occur to her to call. one of her visits, she received a call in which i heard a guy ( who she said was her former classmate) from the other end complaining that she doesn't call and this made me believe that it's just her nature. she once told me how her mum kept saying she's never seen a male friend with her. i really would love to walk her down the aisle but she doesn't seem to be serious with relationships even after spending nice time together, so, i just moved on. my advice: just jettison your love for her and move on.

cognize:
OP, believe him 110%. If not OYO

I concur

I am in the same dilemma...

Ask her what she does with the cards you sent her.

She's calling the real Boo. You are the eleri-Boo.

HateU2:
You can only know by talking to her about it not bringing it to NL because 'they' are going to 'spoil' ur joy. 'They' will change ur mind and mentality. Communication is what you need, u hear(abi na read)

Nice advice. I salute your wisdom.

Calling is not an obligation so kindly stop if you're uncomfortable with it.

Cutehector:
My nigga, take good advice from the masters...



1. Never bring your problem into social media... never ever.. dnt even mix ur offline life with it.

2: if u ever need advice, call one or two frnd's or chat with dem on whatsap and hear what they have to say..

3: quit calling that girl... and pls stop sending her recharge cards. You dnt owe her anything.

I he didn't bring this to social media you won't have advised him

This is how good guys go bad aswear

She's calling her school heartrob. Go find out bro b4 its too late

Vinshu:
So you want a reward for recharging her phone? She must be calling your phone? Besides she is a student she is busy with school stuff.

She doesn't need to call you. You do the calling.

we have being dating for over a year and most of the time, its always like that even when she is on break. whenever whenever we talk about it even to the point of agurment most times, she always insist that she truely love me that she is just not the calling type. which as for me I find it hard to believe. I dont give a damn about the recharge cards I only say it so that no one will misconstrued the fact that she dont have airtime to call.

brilliant5:
She's calling her school heartrob. Go find out bro b4 its too late

thanks men, thats my thought also.

Chrisjane:
No

thanks for your direct answer. I get it.

Yomieluv:
Ask her what she does with the cards you sent her.

She's calling the real Boo. You are the eleri-Boo.

the stupid girl says she is using it to call all her female friends and her family members. I think are right. I also think she is using me as a spare boyfriend.

Mustack:
I am in the same dilemma...

sorry my brother may God deliver us. just follow the thread mabye u will get one advice or two also.

Cutehector:
My nigga, take good advice from the masters...



1. Never bring your problem into social media... never ever.. dnt even mix ur offline life with it.

2: if u ever need advice, call one or two frnd's or chat with dem on whatsap and hear what they have to say..

3: quit calling that girl... and pls stop sending her recharge cards. You dnt owe her anything.

we have being dating for over a year and most of the time, its always like that even when she is on break. whenever whenever we talk about it even to the point of agurment most times, she always insist that she truely love me that she is just not the calling type. which as for me I find it hard to believe. I dont give a damn about the recharge cards I only say it so that no one will misconstrued the fact that she dont have airtime to call.

colabotu:


we have being dating for over a year and most of the time, its always like that even when she is on break. whenever whenever we talk about it even to the point of agurment most times, she always insist that she truely love me that she is just not the calling type. which as for me I find it hard to believe. I dont give a damn about the recharge cards I only say it so that no one will misconstrued the fact that she dont have airtime to call.

if she says she ain't d calling type den why continue to give her airtime? Who does she uses it to call? Well some girls are like dat cuz dey feel they just duno what to say when the make fone calls.. it seems you both are sort of in a long distant relationship, correct me if I am wrong.. u guys need to communicate actively in person, like there should me more visits.