KingCheezyPuff:
I object ta number 6!!!
I am not a "man wrapper" but highly selective.
With so many choices I just want to be sure I've made the right one.
An naturally I need ta take a few samples

I object ta number 8 too!!
Water!! Coffee
What kinda date is that.A cheap one!
I need ta know if this man is generous....with me

tonytony208:


In other words, you are broke girl who doesn't agree with number 6 and 8, abi? I've resolved never to date a girl that has no job and not financially responsible to herself.

But #6 an #8 aren't broke woman specific.
But smart choices I makin' fer the future

KingCheezyPuff:
But #6 an #8 aren't broke woman specific.
But smart choices I makin' fer the future

tonytony208:


Hmmmm...see cover up! How does 8 impact on the future. Chai!

I don't want a man that doesn't consider me worth his money.
You know there are guess that will have sex with you but won't even do so little as take you out to dinner an woo you.
Money IS important/valuable so if he can spend his little or his lot on me.... It mean something.
That I like the idea too.It's nice.

KingCheezyPuff:
I don't want a man that doesn't consider me worth his money.
You know there are guess that will have sex with you but won't even do so little as take you out to dinner an woo you.
Money IS important/valuable so if he can spend his little or his lot on me.... wow.

tonytony208:


Hmmmm...but both of you enjoy the sex now. Sex is never a one sided thing. Since both of you enjoy it, the man shouldn't be made to pay for giving you sweet experience.

Like the op is trying to point out, not all dates should involve eating and drinking.

True.But that just seems like a real date ta me.
Well when you ain't doin' outdoor stuff.
Why is it bad
Why can't we just go someplace less expensive.
If he's the wooer yeah he need ta divvy up an take me out

Help him spend wisely... OK.He can not by the newest game system, cell phone etc.

Why is spending on me what he needs to cut out
.

KingCheezyPuff:
True.But that just seems like a real date ta me.
Well when you ain't doin' outdoor stuff.
Why is it bad
Why can't we just go someplace less expensive.
If he's the wooer yeah he need ta divvy up an take me out
.

tonytony208:


Lolz

I guess it depends on what you are looking for in a wooer.

If your intention is to know "who" he is and not "what" he is, you won't even bother if he doesn't take you out, since taking you out doesn't reveal who he is, but only reveals what he pretends to be. But this is no big deal if you are out looking for a pretender.

I explained this above..... does he think I'm worth his valuable money.Simple.

BTW I modified that other post look again

KingCheezyPuff:
I explained this above..... does he think I'm worth his valuable money.Simple.

BTW I modified that other post look again

tonytony208:


I sincerely feel it is misplacement of priority for a lady to see "spending on her" as a must.

Relationship is supposed to be partnership and not parasitism.

After spending on you, what will you do for him or give him? Just sex? Then you aren't doing anything for him; you are just taking from him.....and that is synonymous to parasitism.

I agreed that you don't have to go out an eat all the time..... But you overlooked it
I suggested less expensive places...... but you shot it down.
Help him spend more carefully you said.....spend less on gadgets an less important things I suggested but your termed me a parasite.
It's apparent you see spending on a woman as harmful to a man's future.
Is he not investing in one with her

Sex is not all a women gives into a relationship so for you ta say that's all we bring shows me how you see us.
No wonder you think we're an expense to be cut out.

KingCheezyPuff:
I object ta number 6!!! I am not a "man wrapper" but highly selective. With so many choices I just want to be sure I've made the right one. An naturally I need ta take a few samples
I object ta number 8 too!! Water!! Coffee What kinda date is that.A cheap one! I need ta know if this man is of a generous heart.

success10:

U FALL MY HAND..
U THINK LIKE TYPICAL NAIJA GAL..
SO, A DATE MOST BE AT EATERY OR RESTAURANT?

No.But I like that.
An I'm not 9ja....African American. What say you now about yer women