Unhappy Please Help. I am engaged but in love with someone else.
The long and the short of it is - My fiance and I are getting married in 3 months, and I am in love with someone else. I love my fiance, but I am IN love with another. I know the immediate response I will get is - don't get married. But it is not that simple. I could post pages and pages of explanation and my thoughts, but I will try to make it more to the point.

I have been with my fiance for almost 10 years (engaged for 2) and we are in our mid twenties. We have had our ups and downs and even broke up for almost a year when I thought we would be getting engaged. He apparently thought differently. But we made it through that and I never looked back. My fiance is a great guy - one of those genuine guys that are hard to come by. But we have lost all passion for one another over the years. I know that he and I could live relatively happily, more as good friends than lovers, one of those "good enough" marriages, as they say. I know he will be a great dad and would do anything for me. But there is something huge missing from our relationship - the connection, somewhat physical, somewhat spiritual, etc.

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common my friend dont be a fake.

After 10 years of intimate relationship, u hv reached the point of cheating. It is not love, u just want to fool around.

U love ur fiance and want to be with her for the rest of your life because of may be all the love, understanding, common interest bla bla bla . . . but when u see that girl, ur VP just cant rest. You love one, u lust many

are u male or female??ur user name indicates u r male while ur post implies u r female.anyway it seems u ve just met this new love and after spending another 10 years with him/her u ll begin to have fall in love with another,the ealier u realise that love is not a feeling but a decision the better.Go ahead and marry ur fiance since u said u love him.U said u r in love with another but u dont seem to know if that person loves u as much or even has genuine feelings for u.open ur eyes and stop dreaming,are u just knowing u dont connect after 10 years?

NEXT THREAD PLEASE.

wbb

*yawns widely and closes thread to avoid my stress compounded*

LOL, is this going to be a same sex marriage ? or is this a fake post?