DemiGoddess:
True talk Mimz...somehow sha




Honestly, if married women put just 10% of the energy they use in senselessly suspecting their husbands into paying attention to their hubby then, infidelity wouldn't be this common.
Why beat up the slut lady
Where were you?

Before he married you, you were probably doing something that attracted him, wearing clothes that drew him close, saying stuffs that quickened his breathing and after marrying you, you unceremoniously turned to a frigging withered hag!
And you are ranting 'cause another beat you at your game
Just go get your husband back.
Anyhow sha, a man who's gon' cheat, gon' cheat.



But what is a lady doing with a married man
God can't give me that hubby cause Amadioha never disappoints

I protect and guard what is mine reasonably jealously

doveda:


I used to tow that line but when you read about women who purposely set on making married couples break their vows, you would realise that it is better to blame both parties for working together to break the marriage. The man owes an obligation to his wife. He set out to break it. The mistress knew but could care less. He didn't cheat with himself. He had to do it with someone else. But then, mindfulness's perspective is quite convincing. Why indeed should single women respect the institution of marriage? Outside moral(which is subjective) or religious reasons, I am afraid I can't see other reason why mistresses should be held accountable.


I am not saying that she should have attacked the woman. She might just end up with jail for what she has done.



@Mindfulness, I like your point of view. Why should single people

daretodiffer:
She has every right to kill her. She became her business the moment she knowingly slept with another man's husband.

Islamically and Biblically, both have sinned. Morally, they have acted unconsciously. The concubine and the husband have acted together to break the husband's vows and trust to his wife

The way some people think sef?

Mindfulness:


You can meet someone at work and fall in love with them. Some people fall in love at first sight.

And again, some people see nothing wrong with falling in love with married people because they believe in polygamy or do not see marriage the way you see it.

garfield16:



the concept of self control and self respect is obviously lost on you.
You lowest form of immorallity is the one who justifies his/her immorality. I have nothing further to say to you other than to thank God that you are not my wife and will not be involved in the moral upbringing of my children!

daretodiffer:
+----------------Established fact? Can people get any dvmber?

Mindfulness:



Exactly!

The only person who can be held accountable - if at all - is the husband who promised a monogamous union.

Amberon11:
nah! you're lower than dumb. how do people put up with you?

mimzy:
Like seriously!!! What the heck!!! I just read a story on FP bout a wife (and her friends) that beat up her husband's mistress at work, used scissors to cut her hair, stripped her, poured slimy substances on her body and made her walk naked from the office to the car!!!

This is all shades of wrong!!! Whatever in the world happened to the woman beating up her husband if she really wants to prove macho If there is anyone that should be put in check, it is the husband for crying out loud, she has not freakn business with that mistress.

Yes, the wife has every right to be angry but she has absolutely no RIGHT WHATSOEVER TO TOUCH THAT LADY!!!
If you as a woman cannot put your husband/boyfriend/fiance in his place, then do not go about picking up your man's phone to curse,stalk or arrange to have their mistresses beaten!!! its b*sh!t.

Mindfulness:


First of all, not every human being shares your religious beliefs.
Secondly, if God is so angry with the person who crosses his plans, why not leave the punishment to him?

Mindfulness:


First of all, not every human being shares your religious beliefs.
Secondly, if God is so angry with the person who crosses his plans, why not leave the punishment to him?

Silumi:

God uses us to met out his punishment We humans carry out ours cos We feel its faster. I hope u re an answer wiser. i was on my own o u came and met me if u like just b throwing rhetorical questions every wer and be feeling fly and intelligent.
God uses us to met out his punishment We humans carry out ours cos We feel its faster. I hope u re an answer wiser. i was on my own o u came and met me if u like just b throwing rhetorical questions every wer and be feeling fly and intelligent. U re attacking everyone dat is calling d woman's act mmoral and unholy if u re following a married man u better liv him if not ur pic and case is next stop using this forum to salvage ur guilty conscience it is wrong. Marriage is a holy instituition dont argue about such sensitive issues.

Ngoziada592:
All the women who support this you are no better than wife beaters who say they are correcting their wives or punishing them for an offense . No one had any right to assault another person for any perceived offense except in self defense. We can't all go around assaulting people we feel have hurt us or else it would be a jungle

doveda:

The way they put up with you
Are you nubian? You sound lik ethe retar.d

Ngoziada592:
All the women who support this you are no better than wife beaters who say they are correcting their wives or punishing them for an offense . No one had any right to assault another person for any perceived offense except in self defense. We can't all go around assaulting people we feel have hurt us or else it would be a jungle

Mindfulness:


Does anyone understand this write up?

Mindfulness:


Does anyone understand this write up?

Chazzyboy:
are u a mistress?

mimzy:

No I am not and I will never be one... Why the question?

daretodiffer:
She didn't made any vows but she ensured that it was broken. She took part in it!

Silumi:
Any woman who follows a married man lacks the fear of God and so deserves anything heathen act done to her for daring to come between what the lord has joined together. D gal never see anything next tym if she see married man she go fly.

Amberon11:
[s]we are not talking of medieval archaic barbaric societies governed by the myopic sharia law. we are talking of modern western societies. And even at that, the sharia law is gender biased when it has to with adultery and the likes. The women gets stoned to death[/s] while the men only receive lashes. This is an established fact.

UIA04:
@mimzy I'm not in support of beating your husband's concubine

But if you read the story well the wife's mom was the person who got the job for the lady. Technically it was the wife who helped the concubine get that job in her husband's company. And I'm sure as in many African settings that lady would have been more than just a worker, she might have been going to the house from time to time to help "aunty" with a thing or two as gratitude for the job, unknown to the woman that the lady was sleeping with her husband. That is betrayal of trust and it hurts much more than just a random lady doing her husband.

Jungle justice isn't the answer but that lady deserved whatever was meeted on her.

olrotimi:

Did he approach her with a gun to her head? What happened to her moral decency to turn him down, knowing fully well that he was married. Na yam wey another woman don suffer to cook na im she balance chop well.
I can bet the life of me that she would have turned down many single guys before the man approached her, perhaps she broke off from her bf just to date this man. Those of us arguing that she didn't do wrong should Pls consider and put urselves in the position of this man's wife.Do you know how painful and heart wrenching it is for your husband to be taken away from you by another woman, perhaps after laboring together, setting the home, polishing and grooming the man and perhaps making him what he is today. Do you also consider her children? How would they feel?
Violence is wrong, very wrong but hey ladies, prevention is always better than cure. When a married man approaches you, run! Cos whatever comes after that, na ur headache

wickedworld:



Correct, mistress stab the wife in the heart. But ppl making coment are not looking it from that angle.

A man want to cheat go far away not someone close to the family or someone the wife know.

mimzy:
Like seriously!!! What the heck!!! I just read a story on FP bout a wife (and her friends) that beat up her husband's mistress at work, used scissors to cut her hair, stripped her, poured slimy substances on her body and made her walk naked from the office to the car!!!

This is all shades of wrong!!! Whatever in the world happened to the woman beating up her husband if she really wants to prove macho If there is anyone that should be put in check, it is the husband for crying out loud, she has not freakn business with that mistress.

Yes, the wife has every right to be angry but she has absolutely no RIGHT WHATSOEVER TO TOUCH THAT LADY!!!
If you as a woman cannot put your husband/boyfriend/fiance in his place, then do not go about picking up your man's phone to curse,stalk or arrange to have their mistresses beaten!!! its b*sh!t.