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Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 10:24am On Apr 16, 2016 |
garfield16:At last someone with a brain |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Adaeze003(f): 10:25am On Apr 16, 2016 |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 10:26am On Apr 16, 2016 |
garfield16: Why should they respect it? 2 Likes |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by ifeomaekol(f): 10:26am On Apr 16, 2016 |
If I were a jugde, that 'wife' ll sleep in the cell for two weeks, do community service frm 6am - 3pm for a month. Am nt in support of infidelity bt there are ways of handling issues especially like this. The time she spent on tracing d whereabouts of her husband, time spent on beating up this lady--if she had used jux 20mins to sincerly pray she would hv seen results, if she had used anoda 30mins to find out frm d husband d reason(deep talk) for he's change of attitude, she would hv gotten results. Nw d question is? What if that lady didn't kw, d guy was married? N for those dt ll quote me on this----yes there r guys out there dt conceal perfectly dia marital status frm d public. If dt wife had acted wisely I would hv blamed d mistress bt wt her act--------i believe she should b punished. Marriage isn't easy, bt as a woman find out wat trips ur husband, there r men dt cn control dia wild urge while sm cnt n if u find out ur husband falls among d later-----u study well. An elderly woman told me once dt wen I go out with my frd (guy) watch him carefully, if he keeps staring@ girls well dressed, plenty of makeup etc -kw that, that is wat appeals to him n start dressing like dt. If u kw wat he likes make it available simple. That wife had no beef wt d mistress bt wt d husband---simple. Every married woman should safe guard her home with prayer, a good character, and then leave d rest to the most high. 1 Like |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by sherrylo: 10:39am On Apr 16, 2016 |
[quote author=midehi2 post=44663010]the wife for jam agbero girl this can even make her loose the husband shes fighting for, he can probably send her packing, clean up that girl and marry her some women no get sense atall... there are other ways to tame your husband not this barbaric way [/quote Gbosa for you there No sensible wife does that. The mistress has to draw the battle line, gather her own group attack the wife back seriously even give her mark so she can always remember. |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Slapsticker: 10:39am On Apr 16, 2016 |
she is prolly an ex concubine. buh what do I know? "money is all I know. if you ain't talking money I can't hear you, the volume is somehow low." 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by AfricanEfe: 10:54am On Apr 16, 2016 |
The op she is a master of concubines that's the reason why she's taking side. ONE WORD FOR _____( ASHAWO ) That's What You Are |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Ngokafor(f): 10:55am On Apr 16, 2016 |
Acidosis: ... ...frustrations has to be poured out.By any means necessary. |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Whybee(f): 10:57am On Apr 16, 2016 |
They all have their own portion of blame... The mistress.. According to the story I heard was like a sister to the wife all this area sister things, she needed a job and the wife asked her to start working with the husband in the restaurant he owns, treated the mistress like a sis, but she stabbed her at the back by dating her husband to the extent the man abandoned his wife even built the mistress mother a house... The woman should have had another way of treating the betrayal than battering the mistress( you can even do worse if it's you) the man is shameless |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Amberon11: 10:57am On Apr 16, 2016 |
that's some barbaric low level prehistoric medieval age train of thought you have there. Like seriously?? are you in 100BC? look Herr, in this modern dispensation, nobody has no damn! right to cause inflict bodily harm on another or pose a threat to someone's life. Cheating is wrong, no doubt, but nobody has any bloody right to physically abuse another for this cause. The mistress should sue for damages. We are neither governed by biblical or Koranic laws. I daretodiffer: 1 Like |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Amberon11: 11:04am On Apr 16, 2016 |
There is no sense in this post. Now listen, no one owns anyone. And mind you, the man broke his marriage vows, not the mistress. The man must have approached her too. Why are people this myopic? The woman has business with her husband not the mistress. smh olrotimi: 2 Likes |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Ngokafor(f): 11:05am On Apr 16, 2016 |
Acidosis: ....but some concubines have been known to re-set the teeth of such aggressive wives...I have even witnessed such.As a matter of fact the mistress tore the wife's clothes to shreds after beating the living day-light out of the wife..The man himself borrowed leg and vanished into thin air ..It was really an eye-sore. ....I kind of felt sorry for the wife(even though she was really foolish)..dem sleep with ya husband still naked and beat you join..na waya. 1 Like |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Ngokafor(f): 11:07am On Apr 16, 2016 |
..hian!!!...nairaland and their issues,which one is 'unclad' again?..person type nakked dem change am to unclad. |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Amberon11: 11:09am On Apr 16, 2016 |
I thought so too. Her posts are always meaningless, senseless and irrational. joseph1832: |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by DonBenny77(m): 11:10am On Apr 16, 2016 |
she deserves what she got served. Op for defending the LovePeddler you sound like the type that sleeps with married men. Ladies of this generation dont have fear of God you know a man is married yet u still seduce or accept advances from him. You must b an animal n as such deserve to be treated like one. Everyone cant b the same some wives can tolerate that while some can go to the xtent of shooting the bi*ch dead. |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 11:13am On Apr 16, 2016 |
Amberon11: Read again, this time read in context of what I wrote |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by prettyaura: 11:15am On Apr 16, 2016 |
I taya for some ladies ooo...sometimes i even wonder why some ladies will go fetish to gain the love of their men back...instead of doing that, why not ask for a charm that will make u forget him and move on with ur life instead of winning him back? and if you ask me, the lady in question will forgive her man and do like nothing happened...against a stranger who may not even know the man has a wife or woman somewhere due to the lies the man might have told her...smh 1 Like |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Arobake: 11:18am On Apr 16, 2016 |
Last I checked, polygamy is legal in 2 (Islamic marriage and Traditional marriage) out of the 3 types of LEGAL marriages in our country! It's only Court marriage (you sign court papers in the church too) that excludes polygamy. **But even Court marriage/church marriage only means you cant marry in court or church again. If you marry subsequent wives traditionally orin the Islamic ways, these marriages are NOT illegal in Nigeria. **So if a lady doesnt mind being 2x wife, why should she say no to a married man? She is Not doing anything illegal. (And before anyone thinks im a frustrated spinster - no, Im not. Im an old happily married woman. ***This is all shades of wrong. olrotimi: |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Amberon11: 11:18am On Apr 16, 2016 |
Oh yh? so the mistress is the "fool for being used as an instrument" but the cheating, philandering man isn't?? Now, did the mistress break the marriage vows or the man? so the husband only gets to "answer loads of questions" while the mistress is deserving of death? In a civil society, this woman would get nothing short of 10yrs to life. Too many dumb people roaming. Creamish: 1 Like |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by prettyaura: 11:18am On Apr 16, 2016 |
Mindfulness:abi oo.. u call them single and u expect them to respect wat they know nothing about? if your own man cant respect you by being faithful to your marriage, dont expect a total stranger to. |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by prettyaura: 11:21am On Apr 16, 2016 |
[quote author=Ngokafor post=44750860] ..hian!!!...nairaland and their issues,which one is 'unclad' again?..person type nakked dem change am to unclad. . |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 11:23am On Apr 16, 2016 |
Mindfulness: because you respect yourself and because one day you want to have a husband who can respect you but then if I have to explain it to you you probably don't have any self respect or self esteem. A woman involved with a married man is worse than a street prostitute. How would you feel knowing your mother was sleeping with a married man? if you think that's ok then I have nothing further to add. Respect yourselves. If you are sleeping with a married man for material gain you are a runs girl, if you are sleeping with a married man sneaking around and going home to an empty bed while he goes home to his wife, then you have no self respect or low self esteem. Married men will always try it but because something is available or on offer does not mean it is right. |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Amberon11: 11:23am On Apr 16, 2016 |
May your days be long. kramfonos: |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by prettyaura: 11:26am On Apr 16, 2016 |
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Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Amberon11: 11:27am On Apr 16, 2016 |
You are very sensible. misspicy2: |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Ngokafor(f): 11:27am On Apr 16, 2016 |
prettyaura: ...i know that smartie-pants,but i wrote in pigin, therefore 'nakked' flows better than 'unclad'...,thank you. |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by misspicy2(f): 11:28am On Apr 16, 2016 |
doskie:You feeling yourself ain't it? |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 11:28am On Apr 16, 2016 |
prettyaura: I am sure you are involved with a married man. when you spend all your youth with married men then you get to your 30s and 40s and are still single then you become prayer warriors forgetting that you wasted your youths being side chicks and mistresses. it's about respecting yourself. |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Acidosis(m): 11:28am On Apr 16, 2016 |
Ngokafor: Yes oo, it happens.. There are times, the weak civilians pound on armed terrorists.. |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Amberon11: 11:31am On Apr 16, 2016 |
pls remember the title, I'd love to see the movie. Cameron Diaz is bae ClassCaptain: |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by misspicy2(f): 11:31am On Apr 16, 2016 |
Amberon11:Thank you 1 Like |
Re: A Concubine Should Not Be Made To Pay For The Sins Of A Cheating Spouse!!! by Nobody: 11:35am On Apr 16, 2016 |
Am sure daretodiffer is single. Women like you usually can't stay with a man. You talk without your brain. daretodiffer: 1 Like |
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