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5 Wrong Moves Guys Makes Online That That Turns Off Ladies by HerexG(m): 3:46pm On Apr 13, 2016
Ladies all around the world be it Africa, Asia and America are almost the same, they share very similar feature not letting their guard off most especially when you are a stranger. The internet today is fast changing that every day, you could start with a word as short as “Hi” and end up hitting and keeping the price. But a lot of dudes go about this the wrong ways; these are 5 wrong moves guys makes online that that turns off ladies.

1. Unattractive DP: Images speaks more than a thousand words, it would speak for you and save you the energy of describing your physical features. You will find most dude taking pictures in front of a dirty wall or a shabby looking background with a funny pose and then upload it as their display pictures on their social media platforms. You will find some taking pictures with a blurry camera with a funny pose like bending beside flowers and shrubs like in the 60s. Dude step up your game this is the 21st century take decent with a mix of some raunchy good quality pictures, it goes a long way to give the ladies of what you would taste like.

2. Asking too much and dumb questions: This is a huge turn off for the ladies and many guys are guilty of this, they want to know everything about a lady the very first minute they start conversing and they most time get short of words and start asking dumb questions like “Are you a Christian or Muslim ? What kind of phone are you using ? Do you have light (power) blabla ? Even if you want to ask questions be creative about it, ask it in a way she will start to pour out her mind to you by that way you will discover her area of interest instead of directly asking her what her area of interest is. And finally when she finally start asking you questions, your jackpot is around the corner. Below is a brief example of what I mean

Wrong move
Ade: Hello Dear
Chika: Hi
Ade: How are you?
Chika: Fyn
Ade: How was your night?
Chika: Fyn ooo (this time the babe start losing interest, might even ignore)
Ade: You are so sexy and hot
Chika:

Good move
Ade: Hello
Chika: Hi
Ade: How are you doing today?
Chika: Fyn
Ade: Hope you had a great night
Chika: Yes I did and you?
Ade: My night was splendid; I’m Ade from Lagos and you?

3. Being uninteresting or Boring: This is where your explorative and creative skills is needed, try to explore her needs and desires and amplify it without making it look obvious. For example her desire is bread and butter; present those bread and butter as a hot delicious sandwich. Play with her imaginations, leave her with wild imaginations after each chat, and cleverly show off your knowledge most especially in the area of her interest. Most ladies admires intelligent guys, you don’t have to be a nerd to be intelligent, step up that sexiness and handsomeness with something in your brains. Don’t leave reading and learning alone to the nerds.

4. Stalking: After hitting a good start up chats, or maybe gaining little attention from the lady most guys’ gets overzealous and become the ladies monitoring spirit. They start looking up for the lady online almost every minute, gosh! Give it a break! Ladies needs some amount of space , in fact make them believe you are busy even if you are not, and not the other way around your last time on Whatsapp ,BBM,Facebook 2secs ago all day. Dudes give it a break, apply the law of demand and supply, make them miss you, this would prompt them to start looking for you, then your value increases.

5. Trying too hard to impress: At this point most guys allow the attention they are getting from their crush to get over there head, by making a fool of themselves, letting out way too much information that might in a way turn off the lady’s surmounting emotions Dude be a gentleman you be more of the reader than the typist


Whew! I hope I have been able to be of help to you my delectable readers, please always try to check back for some more informative and exciting piece from my humble self HerexG wink!

source: https://herexg.wordpress.com/2016/04/13/5-wrong-moves-guys-makes-online-that-that-turns-off-ladies/

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Re: 5 Wrong Moves Guys Makes Online That That Turns Off Ladies by Stanleywaxy(m): 3:51pm On Apr 13, 2016
Oh Chi m o

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Re: 5 Wrong Moves Guys Makes Online That That Turns Off Ladies by Section8(m): 3:53pm On Apr 13, 2016
6/10
Re: 5 Wrong Moves Guys Makes Online That That Turns Off Ladies by tee59(f): 4:55pm On Apr 13, 2016
Proposing to ladies they hardly met nor seen physically.
Re: 5 Wrong Moves Guys Makes Online That That Turns Off Ladies by IamLEGEND1: 4:57pm On Apr 13, 2016
& why would I want to impress some faceless hoe online?

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Re: 5 Wrong Moves Guys Makes Online That That Turns Off Ladies by Nobody: 4:58pm On Apr 13, 2016
They are looking for who to scam
Re: 5 Wrong Moves Guys Makes Online That That Turns Off Ladies by Nobody: 4:59pm On Apr 13, 2016
IamLEGEND1:
& why would I want to impress some faceless hoe online?
Re: 5 Wrong Moves Guys Makes Online That That Turns Off Ladies by Maxity02(f): 5:00pm On Apr 13, 2016
next plz
Re: 5 Wrong Moves Guys Makes Online That That Turns Off Ladies by seunny4lif(m): 5:11pm On Apr 13, 2016
Make I book space
Wetin be the headline self grin
Re: 5 Wrong Moves Guys Makes Online That That Turns Off Ladies by seunny4lif(m): 5:15pm On Apr 13, 2016
grin
Like now
Hello
Shey you have eating grin
Shey you sleep on bed not mat grin
Maxity02:
next plz
Re: 5 Wrong Moves Guys Makes Online That That Turns Off Ladies by seunny4lif(m): 5:16pm On Apr 13, 2016
angry
Wetin you mean angry
Toolz na Twitter now grin grin
tee59:
Proposing to ladies they hardly met nor seen physically.
Re: 5 Wrong Moves Guys Makes Online That That Turns Off Ladies by ClassCaptain(m): 5:18pm On Apr 13, 2016
Lol
Re: 5 Wrong Moves Guys Makes Online That That Turns Off Ladies by LuveU2(f): 5:19pm On Apr 13, 2016
Most of the guyz here behave weird.
This minute they are hitting on you, the next moment they are cussing all women. How do ladies here cope?
Re: 5 Wrong Moves Guys Makes Online That That Turns Off Ladies by Maxity02(f): 5:25pm On Apr 13, 2016
seunny4lif:
grin Like now Hello Shey you have eating grin Shey you sleep on bed not mat grin
I have a question for u...

do u want to spoil my day for me

ask me those questions and watch me ignore u for life
Re: 5 Wrong Moves Guys Makes Online That That Turns Off Ladies by IamLEGEND1: 5:30pm On Apr 13, 2016
Oyind17:
aaah! my madam don show face!
#ImStillLoyalMa
Re: 5 Wrong Moves Guys Makes Online That That Turns Off Ladies by WiLdFLame(m): 5:33pm On Apr 13, 2016
**Sniffs**
Re: 5 Wrong Moves Guys Makes Online That That Turns Off Ladies by seunny4lif(m): 5:45pm On Apr 13, 2016
grin grin
Lol
Na questions now grin
Maxity02:
I have a question for u...


do u want to spoil my day for me


ask me those questions and watch me ignore u for life
Re: 5 Wrong Moves Guys Makes Online That That Turns Off Ladies by seunny4lif(m): 5:47pm On Apr 13, 2016
grin
Dats normal now grin
LuveU2:
Most of the guyz here behave weird.
This minute they are hitting on you, the next moment they are cussing all women. How do ladies here cope?

Re: 5 Wrong Moves Guys Makes Online That That Turns Off Ladies by Maxity02(f): 5:52pm On Apr 13, 2016
seunny4lif:
grin grin
Lol
Na questions now grin
that's nt a question!


where r those romantic words/question that can make one blush... that's what we want
Re: 5 Wrong Moves Guys Makes Online That That Turns Off Ladies by layla129(f): 6:04pm On Apr 13, 2016
Your so called "good move" is a wrong move for me. Here is my good move...
Guy: good morning,how was your night?
Me: it way splendid, thank you. Yours?
Guy: it was cool
Me: wink
Guy: Just wanted to check on you and see how you're doing this morning. We'll chat better after office hours...take care of yourself
Me:I will. Have a lovely day

That you move will only work for me if a weekend undecided what is my name is Ade on a monday morning? angry
Re: 5 Wrong Moves Guys Makes Online That That Turns Off Ladies by seunny4lif(m): 6:04pm On Apr 13, 2016
grin
Girls self una dey complex self
Person go dey romantic una no go respond until the person unleashed insult grin grin
Maxity02:
that's nt a question!


where r those romantic words/question that can make one blush... that's what we want
Re: 5 Wrong Moves Guys Makes Online That That Turns Off Ladies by Maxity02(f): 6:09pm On Apr 13, 2016
seunny4lif:
grin
Girls self una dey complex self
Person go dey romantic una no go respond until the person unleashed insult grin grin
will d person reply u when u unleash d insult?? hell No!


just play along and be a gentleman
Re: 5 Wrong Moves Guys Makes Online That That Turns Off Ladies by seunny4lif(m): 6:10pm On Apr 13, 2016
grin
I no dey work of Mondays grin
layla129:
Your so called "good move" is a wrong move for me. Here is my good move...
Guy: good morning,how was your night?
Me: it way splendid, thank you. Yours?
Guy: it was cool
Me: wink
Guy: Just wanted to check on you and see how you're doing this morning. We'll chat better after office hours...take care of yourself
Me:I will. Have a lovely day

That you move will only work for me if a weekend undecided what is my name is Ade on a monday morning? angry
Re: 5 Wrong Moves Guys Makes Online That That Turns Off Ladies by seunny4lif(m): 6:11pm On Apr 13, 2016
grin
Yes she will insult back grin
Maxity02:
will d person reply u when u unleash d insult?? hell No!


just play along and be a gentleman
Re: 5 Wrong Moves Guys Makes Online That That Turns Off Ladies by layla129(f): 6:14pm On Apr 13, 2016
seunny4lif:
grin
I no dey work of Mondays grin

Na you sabi...sha no follow me dey talk "my name is Ade, you?" On the morning of a weekday
Re: 5 Wrong Moves Guys Makes Online That That Turns Off Ladies by Maxity02(f): 6:16pm On Apr 13, 2016
seunny4lif:
grin Yes she will insult back grin
hahahaha

not everybody will.. some will ignore u.cause silent is d best answer
Re: 5 Wrong Moves Guys Makes Online That That Turns Off Ladies by HerexG(m): 6:17pm On Apr 13, 2016
layla129:
Your so called "good move" is a wrong move for me. Here is my good move...
Guy: good morning,how was your night?
Me: it way splendid, thank you. Yours?
Guy: it was cool
Me: wink
Guy: Just wanted to check on you and see how you're doing this morning. We'll chat better after office hours...take care of yourself
Me:I will. Have a lovely day

That you move will only work for me if a weekend undecided what is my name is Ade on a monday morning? angry

It's just an illustration, it could be a weekend though.
Re: 5 Wrong Moves Guys Makes Online That That Turns Off Ladies by seunny4lif(m): 6:17pm On Apr 13, 2016
grin grin
It's romantic now grin
layla129:


Na you sabi...sha no follow me dey talk "my name is Ade, you?" On the morning of a weekday
Re: 5 Wrong Moves Guys Makes Online That That Turns Off Ladies by Nobody: 6:18pm On Apr 13, 2016
[quote author=IamLEGEND1 post=44671251][/quote] I dey na but I dey observe
Re: 5 Wrong Moves Guys Makes Online That That Turns Off Ladies by kendrick9(m): 6:21pm On Apr 13, 2016
All these things u posted might work on a foreign girl but simply put most nigerian girls are boring..They cant initiate a discussion always waiting for the guys to make the move..Worst of all is there replies are so irritating like the use of k, hmm,lol...Wtf is that?.. nigerian girls are boring online abeg.
So these things u posted might work on a few of them.
Re: 5 Wrong Moves Guys Makes Online That That Turns Off Ladies by sulmeza(m): 6:21pm On Apr 13, 2016
IamLEGEND1:
& why would I want to impress some faceless hoe online?
i wonder oo...dos hoes go wan dey feel one kind now..yeye op
Re: 5 Wrong Moves Guys Makes Online That That Turns Off Ladies by layla129(f): 6:22pm On Apr 13, 2016
HerexG:


It's just an illustration, it could be a weekend though.

Even if its a weekend... i like a little space first

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