oshaosha2014:
Keep receiving gifts anyhow, and using the 'your husband is secure' cliche to justify yourself, when you and your husband jam "the mad one," you will not know when you both will agree that he can have his way with you because of these gifts. Awoof dey run belle o!

True talk. Most times ladies do this... Now question one is... WHY would a lady accept gifts from all and sundry even people she knows are after the forbidden fruit? And put all of that under the notion that "her husband understands"....men have ego....and when another man buys something you cannot easily afford atm for your wife and she s drooling over it, it can send you into countless "angersms".....but as per guy wey u be u go just form say "nothing dey happen". I personally think that ladies who are not contented with what they have are usually the ones who justify collecting gifts from all and sundry.... Nothing goes for nothing as the saying goes.... No punches pulled at anybody. I'm jst a young man who doesn't know anything abt marriage. Just talking from even a relationship point of view