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| Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by GentleMimi: 6:43pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
Hi,peeps.I am presently in an argument with a group of friends about the moral value behind the act of a female who goes to visit her ''guy'' and then enters his kitchen to cook for him (even when his health is in perfect condition). Now,some of my friends argue that there is nothing wrong in the act,in fact,it is an avenue to exhibit her cooking skills. Others counter that it makes the guy loose some of his respect for her after a period of consistent cooking and caring(mind you,this is coming from a male ooo).They go on to say that ''familiarity breeds contempt'',and that a guy looses interest if the girl seems too eager to please. Now,i would really wish some NL guys would give me their HONEST opinion on this matter.Babes,do you think it a big deal to go to your bobo's house and then cook for him? *Yipeeeeee! My topic made FP! Lol! My ban elapsed this evening so i guess this is a perfect way to celebrate! I dedicate this topic to my ''point and kill club,A.K.A derailers paradise'',my fans and haters.Mmmwwwuuuah! 5 Likes |
| Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by simplyme3(f): 6:47pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
and this is someone who sees your unclothedness and sleeps with you on a daily basis. So what's moral about cooking for him? Nonsense. 49 Likes |
| Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by GentleMimi: 6:53pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
simply_me: and this is someone who sees your nak.edness and sleeps with you on a daily basis. So whats moral about cooking for him? Nonsense.Hey,babe chillax,no be quarrel. Let us assume that it is not all girls that bleep their guys.If u sleep with ur bobo,and still go ahead to cook for him....wetin come remain na? |
| Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by Enegod(m): 6:54pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
so, i should be the one cooking for her...huh  10 Likes |
| Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by Idowuogbo(f): 6:57pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
Bleep or no bleep, cater to your man. It's 2013 for fevk sake! Kini big deal?! 17 Likes |
| Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by GentleMimi: 6:58pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
Enegod: so, i should be the one cooking for her...huhyes na....sharpen ur cooking skills!  1 Like |
| Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by Enegod(m): 7:01pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
GentleMimi:will rather sharpen my yanshing skillz  12 Likes |
| Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by GentleMimi: 7:03pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
......also putting religion into consideration,someone brought up that argument that His church does not condone intimate courtship.He says that his church does not allow sex,cuddling,kissing,unsupervised visitation(this one cracked me up!),a girl cooking for a guy etc. 1 Like |
| Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by GentleMimi: 7:04pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
Enegod: will rather sharpen my yanshing skillzBehave yourself! 1 Like |
| Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 7:12pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
I am not a fan of it! I can only do it once in a blue-moon, by dt I min lyk once in a year! I am not his wife, he needs to understand that! If he wants to know how good my culinary skills are, i'll gladly entertain him if he comes to my house! Dt's all! 59 Likes |
| Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by GentleMimi: 7:22pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
alutacontinua: I am not a fan of it!I love u! (i am not a lesbo ooooo).You brought the words outta my mouth! 10 Likes |
| Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 7:24pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
GentleMimi: Lol Love u too, dearie!  2 Likes |
| Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 7:25pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
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| Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 7:26pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
alutacontinua: I am not a fan of it!gbam 4 Likes |
| Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by Idowuogbo(f): 7:29pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
Na wa o! So if na once in a year you dey do am, dat means na take away u and Oga dey chop if laziness grip d bobo ba? ALuta, I gats try ur style o! Wow! Dis ur own pass military sha. 3 Likes |
| Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by GentleMimi: 7:32pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
Idowuogbo: Bleep or no bleep, cater to your man.Yes,we have to cater for our men...but why should you give it all? What do u have to hold on to later in the relationship? When u play all ur cards,u may realize it isn't a smart move. 4 Likes |
| Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 7:37pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
Idowuogbo: Na wa o! So if na once in a year you dey do am, dat means na take away u and Oga dey chop if laziness grip d bobo ba? ALuta, I gats try ur style o! Wow! Dis ur own pass military sha. I'm talking from d angle of we're nt living together! If laziness catch him, he's on his own! He shld be eating out, abeg! I bliv he'll survive if i'm not in the picture!  4 Likes |
| Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by Idowuogbo(f): 7:51pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
GentleMimi:Smart move? Na supersonic relationship? So ur guy don turn Nintendo? Girlie, u give less o u give more o, same same! Na love dey hold man. 15 Likes |
| Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by Idowuogbo(f): 7:53pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
alutacontinua:Yearrite! ALuta, u go bone cook that food. Forget all this ur shakara, na2day? **yimu** 5 Likes |
| Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by ivyy(f): 8:19pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
In honesty I hated it shege. When I go to my bfz crib and he begs me to coook especiali if some friends are over ( for my mind I done turn to slave abii) You need to see boning. Bone of life and sharp sharp he wil join me in the kitchen But With time I got used to it. Looking at it critically, you and your bf in the house and then when one or both of you gets hungry, you guyz have to go eat out? Haba! You guyz can eat out once in awhile , other times you cook, he cooks(that's if he can, if not u bear it all) either way,we all know that as a girl you wil do the cooking more  Why would a guy disrespect you cause you cook for him once in a while  For some guyz if not most, its the fastest way to their hearts oStill I don't expect guyz to force their gfs to cook for them if they don't wana 77 Likes |
| Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by lilmax(m): 8:28pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
alutacontinua: I am not a fan of it!he his not your husband so you will also see money once in a blue-moon  93 Likes |
| Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by Iaz93: 8:45pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
GentleMimi: Hi,peeps.I am presently in an argument with a group of friends about the moral value behind the act of a female who goes to visit her ''guy'' and then enters his kitchen to cook for him (even when his health is in perfect condition).NONSENSE! That guy is still a kid. How can you lose respect for your partner because she cooks for you and she's caring? Damn!! That kind of person isn't fit to be a husband. NO! NO! As for me, I can't just sit down doing nothing when she's in the kitchen. I'll join her, we go cook am together! It'd be fun If we cook rubbish, we go chop am together. 62 Likes |
| Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by Miner13: 8:51pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
Cook for me keeee to me ooo i do not really belief she can to my taste and beside if she Bleep up |
| Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by Miner13: 8:55pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
Cook for me keee can she cook better than i do. I do not belief that. If she bleeped up in her cook it can make me to hate her. I can only allow that when she finally become my wife 1 Like |
| Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by njuwo(m): 9:00pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
Guys make una no mind dem o. Force ur babe cook for u so dat u go knw hw her food dey taste o. Nor be say she no cook for u anyday una cum finally marry u cum discover say na rubbish she dey cook. Na all dis kind tin dey make sum men chop breakfast lunch dinner for mr biggs o. A word they say is enough for d wise. Ur babe no gree cook for u to taste her food mean say she no love you GBAM! I rest my hand. 11 Likes |
| Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 9:04pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
If am in his house...,he cooks for me. But, soup is not among the tins he can cook.(he enjoys cooking) If he is in my house..., i cook for him. I still remember hw he devoured the ora soup and pounded yam, i cooked for him last weekend. To be sincere, it gives me joy watching him eat my food to the last drop. 15 Likes |
| Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 9:07pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
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| Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by Nobody: 9:08pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
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| Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by otijah(m): 9:15pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
It is very very wrong, cause while cooking the food the guy maybe staring at her ass, which can nw lead to kitchen s*x, which means s*x be4 marriage and is a sin in the sight of God 24 Likes |
| Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by xynerise: 9:15pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
alutacontinua: I am not a fan of it!You never ready to be my daughter-inlaw be that  |
| Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by sEGXY2(m): 9:18pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
E no bad if your babe cook 4 you now diff pple wit diff principle |
| Re: Cooking For Your Boyfriend In His House: Is It Right Or Wrong? by Caracta(f): 9:20pm On Nov 26, 2013 |
This topic again? I can cook for him but there'll be limits. There's a line between girlfriend and wife. As long as i am not living with him, i can cook for him. I love cooking but i do it out of love, not out of obligation. I cook for people i am not dating, how much more my own personal person? Again i say, there are limits. A girlfriend is not a wife...not yet! 24 Likes |
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