Hadez:


Oh, you are pained now? That is how it feels hurting a woman's personality. Go ahead and face the oloshos in your family since they are also guilty of those lists one way or the other.




Feeling guilty? Only an idiot and someone who's mother didn't train him well on how to respect a lady will type and support that rubbish you called a list. Nairaland boys are just dumb set of misogynists

pureHoney2:

Op for your mind you make sense die Abi? Just kotinu inugo? Wasted sperm

Hadez:


Oh, you are pained now? That is how it feels hurting a woman's personality. Go ahead and face the oloshos in your family since they are also guilty of those lists one way or the other.




Feeling guilty? Only an idiot and someone who's mother didn't train him well on how to respect a lady will type and support that rubbish you called a list. Nairaland boys are just dumb set of misogynists

Stupedinluv:
Oh the way you guys talk about ladies and marriage i might consider staying single last last.

Why not just let people be for once

If they religiously follow what you have up there, you will use your second mouth to cry fraud and pretence.

This life nawa.

Stupedinluv:
Sacrifial friend? or FWB

Stupedinluv:
Oh the way you guys talk about ladies and marriage i might consider staying single last last.

Why not just let people be for once

If they religiously follow what you have up there, you will use your second mouth to cry fraud and pretence.

This life nawa.

octopusfreaky:
25 is the best age for a lady to get married and i dont fnk a good woman will kontinue flirting at dat age. So OP, its better u surround yourself with good ladies. They are out dreeeokay

Angelberry:
Chill lady! He didn't call you olosho, you are taking it personal. Edit your post and remove his mom.

I see no reason why you are personalizing this.

Hadez:
Who are you to judge ladies? Imagine calling ladies olosho. Is that how to address women are you this silly

Angelberry:
Chill lady! He didn't call you olosho, you are taking it personal. Edit your post and remove his mom.

I see no reason why you are personalizing this.

Hadez:
Who are you to judge ladies? Imagine calling ladies olosho. Is that how to address women are you this silly

Tallesty1:
Ode, you have lost all respect that you deserve as a woman offline and you're losing it online too. It is not my fault that you're gradually becoming worthless; trust me, I will gladly do it if there's anything I can do to help but there isn't so endure. I wish I can see the guy that drilled everything out of you. He deserves a medal and I bet he has a zombie dick because it ate your brain too.

Useless thing.

I normally ignore your type and wait until their 18th birthday but I have been offline for long and this seems like fun.

I don't bash ladies pig, I bash whores and you're their general secretary.

emusmith:
What happens to airing my opinion? Unlike you who have none, if you do, open a thread on it.

Hadez:
Who are you to judge ladies? Imagine calling ladies olosho. Is that how to address women are you this silly

Norajones:
See fight. Oh my God. Hahaha. What happened to gender equality? Marriage will happen when it will happen. Girls stop being used and deceived by men. And men step up Your game and be loyal. No one is your one and only. Some men get married only for the purpose of reproduction(have kids)

emusmith:

Smithy: Stunts ladies who are 25+ shouldn't be pulling

Hmm...as I look around, I see reasons to also note from a different perspective that everything is not BLACK and WHITE, there are also GREY areas.

The number of 25+ ladies are increasing by the day and funny, some of these women don't understand the significance of etching closer towards '30'.

Like it or hate it, all guys can't be wrong at same time. There are some stunts you shouldn't pulling if you are 25+ and if you persist, history will keep repeating it self:
- Late marriages
- Unhappiness in the home.
- Divorce etc


1. Being Over- Dramatic

Drama! Drama!! Drama!!! Yes, girls are dramatic by default but if you are heading towards 30, you should reset you default settings. All of a sudden, you quit talking to a guy you've known for years or even months and you expect him to...to what? To decipher and doggedly go after you. Later tomorrow, you'll say, "I'ld have left you but you forced me". That's what guys don't understand. Mind you: guys have admirers too but they chose you. Reduce the drama.



2. Changing guys like under wears

You'll see a girl who claims is getting ready for marriage test-running different guys like a guy testing which console will work on his PS2. Yes, you did it as a 'kid' but now? Haba! You wonder why no responsible guy is coming your way, it's simply because you've friendzoned all of 'em.


3. Still upholding the Principle of "oloshos"

Do I know the principles? At least I know that they date all kinds of men, Sugar daddies and Alhajis included. You can't be cross-dating and still expect a responsible young man: Mba! His mummy's prayer negates that!

4. Pursuing guys after "free" rides, meals, dates etc

There is nothing as naughty, demeaning and cheap-looking as a 25+ girl who claims to have no feeling for a guy BUT wants free meals, rides, from same. That's irresponsible. If na so 'love' dey catch you, get a guy that will love you for free. Don't get a guy's hope up, and later you start acting innocent and weird. That's witchcraft!

5. E-robbery

A robber takes from you and doesn't sit with you. "She" runs away. I have heard some guys who have been "robbed" by some of these chicks. To them it's a game but it's an indirect way of strengthening yourself as a "single and searching" for a long time.


PS: It hurts me to see a girl deceiving herself, all in the name of "I still have more time". The truth is: the shortest 5 years in a ladies life is the 25-30 range. A word is enough for the wise.

Stupedinluv:
Oh the way you guys talk about ladies and marriage i might consider staying single last last.

Why not just let people be for once

If they religiously follow what you have up there, you will use your second mouth to cry fraud and pretence.

This life nawa.

emusmith:

Smithy: Stunts ladies who are 25+ shouldn't be pulling

Hmm...as I look around, I see reasons to also note from a different perspective that everything is not BLACK and WHITE, there are also GREY areas.

The number of 25+ ladies are increasing by the day and funny, some of these women don't understand the significance of etching closer towards '30'.

Like it or hate it, all guys can't be wrong at same time. There are some stunts you shouldn't pulling if you are 25+ and if you persist, history will keep repeating it self:
- Late marriages
- Unhappiness in the home.
- Divorce etc


1. Being Over- Dramatic

Drama! Drama!! Drama!!! Yes, girls are dramatic by default but if you are heading towards 30, you should reset you default settings. All of a sudden, you quit talking to a guy you've known for years or even months and you expect him to...to what? To decipher and doggedly go after you. Later tomorrow, you'll say, "I'ld have left you but you forced me". That's what guys don't understand. Mind you: guys have admirers too but they chose you. Reduce the drama.



2. Changing guys like under wears

You'll see a girl who claims is getting ready for marriage test-running different guys like a guy testing which console will work on his PS2. Yes, you did it as a 'kid' but now? Haba! You wonder why no responsible guy is coming your way, it's simply because you've friendzoned all of 'em.


3. Still upholding the Principle of "oloshos"

Do I know the principles? At least I know that they date all kinds of men, Sugar daddies and Alhajis included. You can't be cross-dating and still expect a responsible young man: Mba! His mummy's prayer negates that!

4. Pursuing guys after "free" rides, meals, dates etc

There is nothing as naughty, demeaning and cheap-looking as a 25+ girl who claims to have no feeling for a guy BUT wants free meals, rides, from same. That's irresponsible. If na so 'love' dey catch you, get a guy that will love you for free. Don't get a guy's hope up, and later you start acting innocent and weird. That's witchcraft!

5. E-robbery

A robber takes from you and doesn't sit with you. "She" runs away. I have heard some guys who have been "robbed" by some of these chicks. To them it's a game but it's an indirect way of strengthening yourself as a "single and searching" for a long time.


PS: It hurts me to see a girl deceiving herself, all in the name of "I still have more time". The truth is: the shortest 5 years in a ladies life is the 25-30 range. A word is enough for the wise.

Eberex:


I can see you have ran an out of ideas and all you do now is search for other people's post and re-mix it.

emusmith:
I re-mixed other people's post? What have you done? It's better to remix ans make fp than to just hutsle to be FTC in a "remixed" thread. You werent even ftc. What do you think?

Teespice:
God knows I have stopped commenting on topics like this but I need to make something very clear.

why are you guys like this? a woman takes this advice, no show. she takes the next persons advice yet no headway. do you know the kind of pressure she is to conform to what society and your likes say all the time.

she decided on the kind of guy she wants to settle down with, you people will be the ones to shame her and her choices. she sleeps with someone, everyone joins the band wagon to slut shame her. she is expected to do this and do that not for her happiness but because of the notion that she will end up in a man's house.

I am no feminist and I keep saying that I am all for equity and not equality because I recognise that there are specific roles for each gender to play.

anyhow, I have always learnt not to take anything I read on the internet especially nairaland seriously because more often than not, people would come online and say things to feel good about themselves or contradict themselves and in reality, they shovel and grove for the next girls attention.

women, be yourselves. do things because you want to do them not because of what the next person will say or think. for all you know, you have no idea what goes on in their lives. if you keep living according to the dictates of what people think you will be the one miserable at the end of the day and guess what, these same people will be the ones to gloat.

I am out. going through the comments on this thread so far, my post is more than justified.

CaroLyner:
why are nigerians so particular about marriage tho

Its the essence of their existence

they will rather marry than succeed in life

**rotfl**

Eberex:



No wonder you had a stupid post. Well i don't blame you, its the mod who put it up on front page i put the blame on. Secondly your aim of making front page is achieved, congratulation for making it to front page first time since the inception of NL. No wonder you have the time to reply to almost every comment made on this post.

I bet you popped up a champaign to celebrate your front page success too. Just count yourself lucky we are not in a physical room if not, the people making comment on your post would have broken your head for coming out to talk of something you copied from another stupid person.


Enjoy your front page while it last.