Hi, theres this girl, she is a friend to my friends girlfriend. WE met a few weeks ago, i did not even take interest in her, she later started calling me, texting me inceasantly on whatsapp, e.t.c.

She even invited me out, we both went to see her family folks, bought drinks for me, she was showing me what a typical Nigerian guy will call 'green lights'..

She visited me once, but we did not have sex, she was even pestering me and asking me when next she should come..

I told her i will be around on wednesday, so we agreed.. Unfortunately on that wednesday, something came up, so i had to ditch her and attend to other stuffs, when she came , i told her i was going somewhere, so she couldnt wait.. I went out later.

Later that evening, we were chatting on whatsapp, then i made a joke about kissing her in public,

then her demeanour changed.. She told me that i am kidding, that we are 'just friends'.!

Now, im confused.

Was i in the friendzone all along or i messed up somewhere, coz i dont understand.

Help me please, i dont want to be just friends

viickerz:

Hi, theres this girl, she is a friend to my friends girlfriend. WE met a few weeks ago, i did not even take interest in her, she later started calling me, texting me inceasantly on whatsapp, e.t.c.

She even invited me out, we both went to see her family folks, bought drinks for me, she was showing me what a typical Nigerian guy will call 'green lights'..

She visited me once, but we did not have sex, she was even pestering me and asking me when next she should come..

I told her i will be around on wednesday, so we agreed.. Unfortunately on that wednesday, something came up, so i had to ditch her and attend to other stuffs, when she came , i told her i was going somewhere, so she couldnt wait.. I went out later.

Later that evening, we were chatting on whatsapp, then i made a joke about kissing her in public,

then her demeanour changed.. She told me that i am kidding, that we are 'just friends'.!

Now, im confused.

Was i in the friendzone all along or i messed up somewhere, coz i dont understand.

Help me please, i dont want to be just friends

Go read 48 laws of power. The answers are there. Block head!

Which of the chapters ? I have read the book.

nigeriancritic1:

Go read 48 laws of power. The answers are there. Block head!

SillyeRabbit:
Which of the chapters ? I have read the book.

Go back!

Lol...

nigeriancritic1:

Go back!

nigeriancritic1:
Go back!

bros, i dont av acces to the book.. Tell me here abeg

nigeriancritic1:
Go back!

bros, i dont av acces to the book.. Tell me here abeg

nigeriancritic1:
Go back!

bros, i dont av acces to the book.. Tell me here abeg

If u want to kiss a girl, her lips isn't chained, u grab her and kiss d daylight of her lush lips.


If she likes it, fine, if she doesn't, fine.


Am damn tired of asking people permission before doin smth.

donbenedict:
If u want to kiss a girl, her lips isn't chained, u grab her and kiss d daylight of her lush lips.


If she likes it, fine, if she doesn't, fine.


Am damn tired of asking people permission before doin smth.

ok.. Wat do i do about the 'just friends' stuff

viickerz:

Hi, theres this girl, she is a friend to my friends girlfriend. WE met a few weeks ago, i did not even take interest in her, she later started calling me, texting me inceasantly on whatsapp, e.t.c.

She even invited me out, we both went to see her family folks, bought drinks for me, she was showing me what a typical Nigerian guy will call 'green lights'..

She visited me once, but we did not have sex, she was even pestering me and asking me when next she should come..

I told her i will be around on wednesday, so we agreed.. Unfortunately on that wednesday, something came up, so i had to ditch her and attend to other stuffs, when she came , i told her i was going somewhere, so she couldnt wait.. I went out later.

Later that evening, we were chatting on whatsapp, then i made a joke about kissing her in public,

then her demeanour changed.. She told me that i am kidding, that we are 'just friends'.!

Now, im confused.

Was i in the friendzone all along or i messed up somewhere, coz i dont understand.

Help me please, i dont want to be just friends

When a woman wants to fvck you, first, she tests your mettle: "How strong is your desire?"

When your desire is strong, you will not be fazed by any changes in her demeanor.

You will not be deterred by whatever comes out of her mouth.

When your desire is strong, you will not "make jokes". You will not hide your intent behind a joke.

And finally, the best way to get out of the friendzone is to not get into it in the first place. Let there be a pen1s behind your actions.

viickerz:

ok.. Wat do i do about the 'just friends' stuff

duno. Girls are confused people

lalasticlala, push this my link go FP... niggas needs to step up...https://www.nairaland.com/3048204/5-sure-ways-leave-friendzone.

bro click that thread and learn.

Brother,If you believe, you go defeat

Stand up to your feet

And say no to your defeat

If you believe

Only Jah fit do the rest
Baba you fit change your Zone ooo
its up to you....

BuddhaPalm:


When a woman wants to fvck you, first, she tests your mettle: "How strong is your desire?"

When your desire is strong, you will not be fazed by any changes in her demeanor.

You will not be deterred by whatever comes out of her mouth.

When your desire is strong, you will not "make jokes", you will not hide your intent behind a joke.

And finally, the best way to get out of the friendzone is to not get into it in the first place. Let there be pen1s behind your actions.

what do u suggest i do

Guy ur own is better. I have over 20 girls who have friend zone me. Sometimes i just sit and cry. Smh. Its not easy

Sugarcious:
Guy ur own is better. I have over 20 girls who have friend zone me. Sometimes i just sit and cry. Smh. Its not easy

ah. Guy, wahala wa o

op..she wants to know how serious you are and how much u mean to ....Trust me!. Be bold. She has flashed d greenlights already but u ain't making a move to show how serious u are.

viickerz:

Hi, theres this girl, she is a friend to my friends girlfriend. WE met a few weeks ago, i did not even take interest in her, she later started calling me, texting me inceasantly on whatsapp, e.t.c.

She even invited me out, we both went to see her family folks, bought drinks for me, she was showing me what a typical Nigerian guy will call 'green lights'..

She visited me once, but we did not have sex, she was even pestering me and asking me when next she should come..

I told her i will be around on wednesday, so we agreed.. Unfortunately on that wednesday, something came up, so i had to ditch her and attend to other stuffs, when she came , i told her i was going somewhere, so she couldnt wait.. I went out later.

Later that evening, we were chatting on whatsapp, then i made a joke about kissing her in public,

then her demeanour changed.. She told me that i am kidding, that we are 'just friends'.!

Now, im confused.

Was i in the friendzone all along or i messed up somewhere, coz i dont understand.

Help me please, i dont want to be just friends

Search for the term 'friend zone' in the search bar. Your problem has been addressed a zillion times in Nairaland.

Jacksonville:
op..she wants to know how serious you are and how much u mean to ....Trust me!. Be bold. She has flashed d greenlights already but u ain't making a move to show how serious u are.

how sure are you abt this?

Sugarcious:
Guy ur own is better. I have over 20 girls who have friend zone me. Sometimes i just sit and cry. Smh. Its not easy

And wat on earth is makin u cry......

viickerz:

Hi, theres this girl, she is a friend to my friends girlfriend. WE met a few weeks ago, i did not even take interest in her, she later started calling me, texting me inceasantly on whatsapp, e.t.c.

She even invited me out, we both went to see her family folks, bought drinks for me, she was showing me what a typical Nigerian guy will call 'green lights'..

She visited me once, but we did not have sex, she was even pestering me and asking me when next she should come..

I told her i will be around on wednesday, so we agreed.. Unfortunately on that wednesday, something came up, so i had to ditch her and attend to other stuffs, when she came , i told her i was going somewhere, so she couldnt wait.. I went out later.

Later that evening, we were chatting on whatsapp, then i made a joke about kissing her in public,

then her demeanour changed.. She told me that i am kidding, that we are 'just friends'.!

Now, im confused.

Was i in the friendzone all along or i messed up somewhere, coz i dont understand.

Help me please, i dont want to be just friends

Thought you have a girlfriend??

Jst stop being caring...dnt like u'r tasty FINISH...she'll come begging

firstking01:
Thought you have a girlfriend??

where, how

Nturguy1122:
Jst stop being caring...dnt like u'r tasty FINISH...she'll come begging

expantiate pls

viickerz:
how sure are you abt this?

I'm quite sure. Give it a try..

viickerz:

Hi, theres this girl, she is a friend to my friends girlfriend. WE met a few weeks ago, i did not even take interest in her, she later started calling me, texting me inceasantly on whatsapp, e.t.c.

She even invited me out, we both went to see her family folks, bought drinks for me, she was showing me what a typical Nigerian guy will call 'green lights'..

She visited me once, but we did not have sex, she was even pestering me and asking me when next she should come..

I told her i will be around on wednesday, so we agreed.. Unfortunately on that wednesday, something came up, so i had to ditch her and attend to other stuffs, when she came , i told her i was going somewhere, so she couldnt wait.. I went out later.

Later that evening, we were chatting on whatsapp, then i made a joke about kissing her in public,

then her demeanour changed.. She told me that i am kidding, that we are 'just friends'.!

Now, im confused.

Was i in the friendzone all along or i messed up somewhere, coz i dont understand.

Help me please, i dont want to be just friends

@bolded 1, You should hit your head with a pitch book 10 times! yea you deserve that much!

ladies can make u comfortable so u start goofing and they subtly steal ur balls( the control nob, mumu switch) from u and either kick u to the gutters ( if u aint financially buoyant) or turn u into a maga, if you are. but if you know ur onion, they wud be so attracted to u and defy all odds to be with you.

there were alot of mistakes u have been making with her and she is obviously somehow in control now. she has been setting the pace, doing the taking out, u even went as far as going to see her fam folks! dude, dude!

and no she wasnt showing u green lights, She was silently stealing the control knob and u willingly handed it over to her... by pretending to show u green light( ladies know the only way to floor a man is to show him a lil something; be it green light, b00bs, laps...)

Mistake 1: going to her fam folks , some1 u barely know: immediately she brought that idea , u wud have made joke of her saying : " are you pregnant and are trying to make me go pay your bride price unknowingly? i see tru that, and im not coming. U havent really impressed me.

or u can say, how i'm i sure you aint planning to rape me over there? ............................ turn her down with jokes and never go!

Mistake 2: letting her invite you out: unless ofcos she is a main bae, this shouldnt happen. U r the man and u are meant to take the lead, all u have been doing so far ooze a YES MA'AM typa guy! ladies aint looking for a weak guy( woman wrapper...they wud try to turn you into one and immediately u turn, they move on...confusing huuh?) , they are looking for guy who know their onion in the world of women.


there is something u didnt tell us when she visited: DID YOU TRY TO HAVE HER AND SHE TURNED U DOWN or u didnt just try at all? because i know with so many guys, this is a rare occurrence, they just feel a woman coming to ur place wants to get rumbling.

with your actions and inactions, you are getting yourself friendzoned( gurls dont have the power to just fried zone you)

@ bolded 2, you just made things very difficult for yourself now by making that wack statement, that cudnt pass for a joke!
this is how she interpreted that statement: Im actually a peacock on heat and i cant wait to devour you raw anyhow, anywhere.

it is like telling a new catch that u cant wait to blow her ....even if she was interested in that b4, she wud just shot down, the way forward with women is the way backward. this means, be so much in control of your emotions that even though you are so much interested in her, you lean back and behave like you aint....this drive them crazy because every other guy wud show them that are so much down!


she hasnt really totally friend zoned u, what she meant by " we are just friends" is: im still trying to figure out if you are worth it or not, and u r already sounding up like we are already in a relationship! NO we are just friends for now until u prove otherwise.

SOLUTION?

Start Acting the man you are.

Start making fun of any statement she makes, be sassy, be witty be funny, these generates attraction! and totally behave like you aint so much interested in her. do the opposite of all you have been doing, if she ask when she can see you again, tell her you wud think about it, hang up dont call her back.........

dont spend too much time talking to her on phone and always be the first to cut the call: right, this is where we draw the curtains, work calls, bye.
BE IN CHARGE!

You can follow this thread to up ur game in the world of women................ https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only/1 cos

just like making money, no body teaches you about women in school......u are just expected to know!

viickerz:

Hi, theres this girl, she is a friend to my friends girlfriend. WE met a few weeks ago, i did not even take interest in her, she later started calling me, texting me inceasantly on whatsapp, e.t.c.

She even invited me out, we both went to see her family folks, bought drinks for me, she was showing me what a typical Nigerian guy will call 'green lights'..

She visited me once, but we did not have sex, she was even pestering me and asking me when next she should come..

I told her i will be around on wednesday, so we agreed.. Unfortunately on that wednesday, something came up, so i had to ditch her and attend to other stuffs, when she came , i told her i was going somewhere, so she couldnt wait.. I went out later.

Later that evening, we were chatting on whatsapp, then i made a joke about kissing her in public,

then her demeanour changed.. She told me that i am kidding, that we are 'just friends'.!

Now, im confused.

Was i in the friendzone all along or i messed up somewhere, coz i dont understand.

Help me please, i dont want to be just friends

lol...gals ehn, dem go show u all d different colors of light,still tel u thier mind

HARDDON:
SOLUTION?

Start Acting the man you are.

Start making fun of any statement she makes, be sassy, be witty be funny, these generates attraction! and totally behave like you aint so much interested in her. do the opposite of all you have been doing, if she ask when she can see you again, tell her you wud think about it, hang up dont call her back.........

dont spend too much time talking to her on phone and always be the first to cut the call: right, this is where we draw the curtains, work calls, bye.
BE IN CHARGE!

You can follow this thread to up ur game in the world of women................ https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only/1 cos

just like making money, no body teaches you about women in school......u are just expected to know!

thats some harsh honesty bro.!
In short, tell me the way out.
Are u on whatsapp?

BuddhaPalm:


When a woman wants to fvck you, first, she tests your mettle: "How strong is your desire?"

When your desire is strong, you will not be fazed by any changes in her demeanor.

You will not be deterred by whatever comes out of her mouth.

When your desire is strong, you will not "make jokes", you will not hide your intent behind a joke.

And finally, the best way to get out of the friendzone is to not get into it in the first place. Let there be a pen1s behind your actions.

Thanks for this...