Successjoy:
Nigeria is Just there o (you know what we are currently going through ). And i 'm okay. Thanks for asking. God bless you

Bless you too

Success joy,I just wish you understand

Sometimes I feel like dying in my dreams

Its okay

Hang on guys things will be better.

ladyju:
@ICQUIN I think that was what made my problem worse.I'm a very private person. When my problem started. I didn't have anyone to talk to. I went through a lot all alone. When my depression started, I was lonely, no friends to talk to.

If I decide to go for a walk or drive, I see people, friends chatting happily, It will look as if I'm d only one sad without friends.
Now I realize dat I need friends but I don't even know how to make one.

Can we be friends

Thanks guys,yeah yeah at enoqueen

ladyju:
@ICQUIN I think that was what made my problem worse.I'm a very private person. When my problem started. I didn't have anyone to talk to. I went through a lot all alone. When my depression started, I was lonely, no friends to talk to.

If I decide to go for a walk or drive, I see people, friends chatting happily, It will look as if I'm d only one sad without friends.
Now I realize dat I need friends but I don't even know how to make one.

It's exactly the same with me, I went through my depression alone with no one to confide in even though I have people to talk to, I realized they didn't even care enough to know something was off with me. Seeing good friends being there for each other makes me more sad cause I feel like I'm the only one alone.

Smallish:

It's exactly the same with me, I went through my depression alone with no one to confide in even though I have people to talk to, I realized they didn't even care enough to know something was off with me. Seeing good friends being there for each other makes me more sad cause I feel like I'm the only one alone.

same thing here....people to talk to but no one to confide in,it's terrible...all I do is read some threads on NL.

How about a whatsapp group then?
cc AlfaAce Smallish ladyju MariamAlheri mastermaestro

ARE YOU HURTING?

At some point in our lives, we all have experienced one form of hurt or the other; either as a result of heartbreak from a relationship, by losing someone dearest to us to death, by being abused, raped, rejected, or as a result of separation from siblings and parent due to divorce etc. And at that point, we feel so twisted up inside like the whole world has risen against us and we hope for the ground to open up and swallow us. Life becomes meaningless and we no longer see reasons to live. The place of love is replaced with fear, trust with betrayal, joy with anger, and forgiveness with vengeance. Deep down in the midst of all these, we feel these hurt are unique to us; that we’re the only ones having such experience, and our hearts begin to resound with endless questions of ‘why me?’’, ‘why would such a thing happen to me?’’, ‘why would God allow it?’’

It is very painful for instance, to have given yourself to someone without reservation; to have poured out your love upon him/her, and to have made yourself available to them, only for him to break your heart. You’ll feel betrayed and find it hard to trust or lose the tendency to trust. And say to yourself, ‘I’ll never open myself up again. No one will ever get another chance to hurt me like that again.’’ Likewise, the breakup of a home creates a tremendous amount of anxiety for children, as they face life with so much uncertainty of the future; they don’t know what it holds. Fear and anxiety creeps into their hearts which at a later stage gives way to anger and hostility.

Hurt is a hidden inner attitude that we carry around. It is the most excruciating pain anyone can feel. Hurts produces three kinds of persons: the one who gives in, the one who fights back and the one who lets go.

The one who gives in is one who is consumed by the hurt and remain caged in the prison of grief. This person finds it hard to come out of the hurt and has a way of defining life from the point of hurt and he/she becomes very suspicious. ‘Never trust anyone’’ becomes their slogan.

The one who fight back is the one who pays back. He/she is aflame with hurt and seeks to spread that flame on everything along his/her path. He or she is fueled by vengeance, ‘if I can’t get back at the person who hurt me, I might as well do it to someone else.’’

The one who lets go is one who has been able to deal with the hurt, who accepts that yes it happened to me but it doesn’t mean the end of the world and then moves on. But this person tends to be more careful in his/her............................

Follow the link to continue: http://www.myrealityblog.com/2016/12/hurts.html

virtual3xpert:
How about a whatsapp group then?
cc AlfaAce Smallish ladyju MariamAlheri mastermaestro

No problem hommie,07066997213

I think I have Personality Disorder.....

I can't make friends with strangers nd its costing me money cos the ones I trust always take advantage of my mumness.


90% of our depression has not in Supressed anger and deep lonliness.

MAY SAVE US ALL... DONT WANNA DIE YOUNG

virtual3xpert:
How about a whatsapp group then?

cc AlfaAce
Smallish
ladyju
MariamAlheri
mastermaestro

Is it working just yet?

mastermaestro:

Is it working just yet?

Well, no one showed any interest.

virtual3xpert:


Well, no one showed any interest.

What's the way forward then?

mastermaestro:


What's the way forward then?

I don't know really. I find it difficult to open up to people around me. I've always felt no one understood me and I can relate with what most are going through on this thread. A group will help us open up, talk about our issues, motivate each other and even help out in any way we can.

People have to be willing to be a part of it. You can profer a solution if you have one.

Right now am in a temporary mess that looks like I wont survive it
but the truth is I know I will emerge victorious but the wait/weight is the issue,
so many things are going wrong at the same time,
I cant even deal with them one after the other,
am at the verge of giving up but am trying to draw strength from whatever inspirational book I have or find online,
but still its over whelming.


God help me through this, I cant make it without you please

eanestca:
Right now am in a temporary mess that looks like I wont survive it
but the truth is I know I will emerge victorious but the wait/weight is the issue,
so many things are going wrong at the same time,
I cant even deal with them one after the other,
am at the verge of giving up but am trying to draw strength from whatever inspirational book I have or find online,
but still its over whelming.


God help me through this, I cant make it without you please

Amen to this *hugs *

eanestca:
Right now am in a temporary mess that looks like I wont survive it
but the truth is I know I will emerge victorious but the wait/weight is the issue,
so many things are going wrong at the same time,
I cant even deal with them one after the other,
am at the verge of giving up but am trying to draw strength from whatever inspirational book I have or find online,
but still its over whelming.


God help me through this, I cant make it without you please

Amen. Hugs.

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Don't know what made me click on this thread but thank God I've learnt something and will still learn. There is something about me I don't really understand, it's not that I'm depressed or something but I love to know about the depressed, I want to support, I want to be with dem but unfortunately I don't see any one to help. A friend of mine has been faced or seen many people facing some challenges but the advice or the support he gives them is not really ok for me. I'll tell him some things (though I wish I was the one they came to meet) that might help and he'll be like, "viki, I no ft come and die... Every man for himself". And I don't want to walk up to them and help, not to look like someone who doesn't mind his business. Now, or most times I just stay on my own with my music. No worries.

I'm a kind of person that don't talk much so making friends is a very hard thing for me to do, so most times I'm always alone even in my class when I realize that if I try to make friends most of them will always make fun of my stature and that will make me feel laid back. To even make my case worst, my dad is going through some health issues and that has made him stop working and I'm left to fend for myself, I'm in my final year in the University and school fees has not been paid. Killing myself has been constant in my head lately

Anaximander:
I'm a kind of person that don't talk much so making friends is a very hard thing for me to do, so most times I'm always alone even in my class when I realize that if I try to make friends most of them will always make fun of my stature and that will make me feel laid back. To even make my case worst, my dad is going through some health issues and that has made him stop working and I'm left to fend for myself, I'm in my final year in the University and school fees has not been paid. Killing myself has been constant in my head lately

and you think when you are dead it ends there what would then happen to your dad, try to fine happiness in yourself forget what people think or say it there own headach not your's . There are lot of people out there trying to be you

Hmmm depression, I hardly post on Nairaland even though am like the biggest fan of nairaland since like forever but depression hmmm most people that give advice on depression actually have not experienced any form of depression and they turn everything to sermons and religion quoting a lot of scriptures just to feel good about the advice they are giving someone well I lost my job last year and I actually was depressed I experienced it first hand, I drank myself to stupor, it was 3months to my wedding which later was cancelled, all my hopes and dreams came crashing down, I was struggling to keep the love of y life, I couldn't pay my rent, my phone won't ring for days, all I do was wake up sleep on the floor, watch the clock and then just stare at the ceiling, life would become totally meaningless when u have nothing to do with it, no purpose, No engagement, No activity and everybody you feel you have also have a life and a world of their own then to make matters worse try not having money for like a month as in not even 30naira in your pocket no where to go to and every friend suddenly seems busy and the love of your life suddenly feels like she's sliping away well I have experienced depression, to have an haircut would suddenly seems stupid, to eat would be meaningless, television becomes un-interesting and everybody around u be like characters in a movie, it's only u and your thoughts in your own world that remains then life itself would not even worth living I know how it feels I may still be experiencing it but that's not a criteria for me to give up nah because if I die now life would continue, people would just use me as D.P, facebook and they would say "and I know him ooo",after a week I have erased from their memory and the dead me would now be in hell fire from fire to fire damn!!! Hell no....Suicides is for cowards....it's better u die doing bad self than kill yourself because of depression but please don't do EVIL, Don't give up, I can't just give up, I am still without a job, I have applied, I have done all but a single interview self I haven't gotten, I still can't pay my rent, I still wake up each day with nothing to do than think of what to do, I still woke up this morning with 30naira in my pocket, I still don't understand why all the people doing illegitimate business I know, are building houses and really living the life I have dreamed of, makes me look stupid for not joining them and I definitely don't know if what am writing is stupid but damn me and u can't just give up haba........In my depression and boredom I have started conversation with Okada riders with the aboki shinning shoes and with even the the keke marwa drivers and I discovered something "Everybody needs someone to talk too" no matter how high or low they maybe, we all are in one form of depression or another trying to feel a void...your not the only one in it so why give up....So far there is a God then forget it there must be a Way...Determination is key but God is the master key just don't be a coward and give up........now how can a jobless, tenant know this well.....I just know....ME AND U CAN'T JUST GIVE UP

ladyju:
@ICQUIN I think that was what made my problem worse.I'm a very private person. When my problem started. I didn't have anyone to talk to. I went through a lot all alone. When my depression started, I was lonely, no friends to talk to.

If I decide to go for a walk or drive, I see people, friends chatting happily, It will look as if I'm d only one sad without friends.
Now I realize dat I need friends but I don't even know how to make one.

Hello,
Can we be friends please?
U can contact me via the number on my signature.

eanestca:
Right now am in a temporary mess that looks like I wont survive it
but the truth is I know I will emerge victorious but the wait/weight is the issue,
so many things are going wrong at the same time,
I cant even deal with them one after the other,
am at the verge of giving up but am trying to draw strength from whatever inspirational book I have or find online,
but still its over whelming.


God help me through this, I cant make it without you please

Hello,
Can we be friends?

Smallish:

It's exactly the same with me, I went through my depression alone with no one to confide in even though I have people to talk to, I realized they didn't even care enough to know something was off with me. Seeing good friends being there for each other makes me more sad cause I feel like I'm the only one alone.

Hello,
Can we be friends please?
my number is on my signature.

AceRoyal:

Hello,
Can we be friends?

sure we can

Growing Up wasn't easy, lots of ups and down, i tried to be at the top anywhere i found my self, my mum was one of the source of my inspiration, lost her suddenly, then it began, my life took another turn, i feel into depression, always praying for death as i couldnt kill myself, as time goes on, i kept to myself, no friends, always laughing to cover Up the pains i feel..... Nothing is working out as of recent and now the feeling is back......... I feel like dying, infact i pray for death each and every day.

Having good friends around to cheer one up and encourage you definitely helps and goes a long way to bring one out of that depressive state. If you have a partner too who supports you is best, sadly those who are single and have no one to genuinely call their own, who would truly care for and about you, becomes more depressed
Of late , try as much as I can, sometimes I'm human and feel like I am alone in this whole wide world. I do have a close knit of friends I share my worries with but what happens when I go back home, back to loneliness?