PunkyV:


I do get nostalgic But it's not use being stuck in a time warp. Life's too short. I just sigh & move on. No time machine, no magic wand, what's a girl to do?

a disclaimer should have been placed on the post I first quoted. you are wired differently and I get that now but I want you to know that the person we share a first kiss and shag with will always have a place in our heart and memories regardless of whether the memories were good, bad or ugly.

iLUMeN8:

a disclaimer should have been placed on the post I first quoted. you are wired differently and I get that now but I want you to know that the person we share a first kiss and shag with will always have a place in our heart and memories regardless of whether the memories were good, bad or ugly.

Well, maybe not romantic feelings but fondness or some other lower emotion of the same variety I also mentioned I have no negative feelings towards my 1st. He's actually the only guy in my past that I still genuinely like as a person because there were never any hurt feelings. No lying or cheating that I know of. He was a good BF & we both loved intensely, so there was never a need to hold back or dilute my personality around him. We were well suited in many ways. It's just that life got in the way, probably for the best.

PunkyV:


Oh, that's nice Are you Nigerian? I'd love to visit the country some day. Wanna break out of the South African stereotype of not liking to travel

yeh babe, i m nigerian. Wen u visit naija, b sure to hala at me, n wen i come down there, i will also hala. We can go out, maybe see a movie or something. I like de cinema at sandton city mall, i forgot whether its ster kineko or wat, and i also like news cafe. Oops i heard nw u guys just built mall of africa in midrand, n yal wer flocking there becoz everything was cheap wen it was opening. Did u go? Wat did u buy? Does it realy have 300 shops?

ZeeAfrica:


yeh babe, i m nigerian. Wen u visit naija, b sure to hala at me, n wen i come down there, i will also hala. We can go out, maybe see a movie or something. I like de cinema at sandton city mall, i forgot whether its ster kineko or wat, and i also like news cafe. Oops i heard nw u guys just built mall of africa in midrand, n yal wer flocking there becoz everything was cheap wen it was opening. Did u go? Wat did u buy? Does it realy have 300 shops?

Yeah sure, any time, girl. I'd be nice to meet someone from here in person. Unfortunately, I dont live in Jo'burg or its surrounding areas. I'm in Pretoria, close enough to the Menlyn mall. But we can meet halfway so we can go shop 'til we drop @ the 300-shops-mall

PunkyV:


there was never a need to hold back or dilute my personality around him.

....so you go around deceiving innocent fellas with a fake persona abi? . am I being deceived?

iLUMeN8:

....so you go around deceiving innocent fellas with a fake persona abi? . am I being deceived?

Lol no, not at all. It's just that I'm extremely intense in relationships. IDK, but maybe it comes off as being extreme or smothering. Shrugs. So I constantly have to check myself & my reactions, in case I've got some poor guy by the jagular without even knowing It happens I go from 0-100. I cant do mild. Hence I say I sometimes feel the need to dilute because very few men can handle me in full throttle, they'll die of suffocation My venom is too strong

Women where made to love and men also made to care

PunkyV:

in case I've got some poor guy by the jagular without even knowing It happens I go from 0-100. I cant do mild. Hence I say I sometimes feel the need to dilute because very few men can handle me in full throttle, they'll die of suffocation My venom is too strong

Hehehehe......reminds me of an ex! (kinda cos I never made it official) anyways, this girl was practically in my ass but as soon as she got my attention, she withdrew with the same intensity she came at me. until this day she never gave me an explanation. I guess some girls are crazy like that. . care to explain her behavior?

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iLUMeN8:

Hehehehe......reminds me of an ex! (kinda cos I never made it official) anyways, this girl was practically in my ass but as soon as she got my attention, she withdrew with the same intensity she came at me. until this day she never gave me an explanation. I guess some girls are crazy like that. . care to explain her behavior?

OMG, she sounds just like me! No kidding! Like I said, it's 0-100, no inbetween. Fùck 80 or any number between 0 & 100. Meaning she can only blow super hot (camp in your ass & all) or go stone cold. Like having only an ON & an OFF switch, no additional buttons to adjust the temperature. I can be that way too. I can love someone close to a coma but when I start noticing that they're fed up of me or whatever, then I'll dial the heat all the way down to below zero & make a human popsicle out of him

PunkyV:


Yeah sure, any time, girl. I'd be nice to meet someone from here in person. Unfortunately, I dont live in Jo'burg or its surrounding areas. I'm in Pretoria, close enough to the Menlyn mall. But we can meet halfway so we can go shop 'til we drop @ the 300-shops-mall

ohh really? I do know Pretoria a bit. I know centurion, manlyn park, sunnnyside, garankuwa, mamelodi, soshanguve, pyramid, and hammaskraal. I am not sure about he spellings though. I have been there too, I was once at the union buildings, where they should me where the much for passes by the rocks was done. Which year again was the strike? chai u ppl like to strike ooo. U strike a rock, u strike a....? finish the statement, and tell me what it means

ZeeAfrica:


ohh really? I do know Pretoria a bit. I know centurion, manlyn park, sunnnyside, garankuwa, mamelodi, soshanguve, pyramid, and hammaskraal. I am not sure about he spellings though. I have been there too, I was once at the union buildings, where they should me where the much for passes by the rocks was done. Which year again was the strike? chai u ppl like to strike ooo. U strike a rock, u strike a....? finish the statement, and tell me what it means

Lol, we have many of those, so I dont remember all the dates but I know the march you're talking about. It was an all-woman gàng báng to the govt, led by Lilian Ngoyi. Wathinta abafazi, wathinta imbokodo. Meaning you strike a woman, you strike a rock. Girl power! Chyeah!

Your spelling of the places is good, btw. I'm impressed

PunkyV:


OMG, she sounds just like me! No kidding! Like I said, it's 0-100, no inbetween. Fùck 80 or any number between 0 & 100. Meaning she can only blow super hot (camp in your ass & all) or go stone cold. Like having only an ON & an OFF switch, no additional buttons to adjust the temperature. I can be that way too. I can love someone close to a coma but when I start noticing that they're fed up of me or whatever, then I'll dial the heat all the way down to below zero & make a human popsicle out of him

wow! I spent days wondering what happened. as much as I didn't want to admit it at the time I was really fond of her but only wanted her to bring it down a couple of notches. she should have told me she was a ride or die kinda girl.

I usually do not do this but will it be cool to send you a PM?

iLUMeN8:

wow! I spent days wondering what happened. as much as I didn't want to admit it at the time I was really fond of her but only wanted her to bring it down a couple of notches. she should have told me she was a ride or die kinda girl.

I usually do not do this but will it be cool to send you a PM?

To talk about girls, right? No problemo. Hit me!

Yeah, most people sadly can't handle that kind of heat. And to us it's like, if you cant handle the heat then get the fùck out of the kitchen! Take it or leave it, we wont shed a tear because this is the only way we know how to get down. Plus it's very unsatifying when you're not loving full steam the way you like or when someone returns it half-assed.

HurtgenForest:


Then why do some people keep saying that once you are not the first you can never get all of her heart?

I just don't get it.

Are u so insecure? Why do u need all her heart. So long as i'm fuccking her and she gives me kids and she fulfils her wife duty, y shuld i give two fuccks bout her heart. No matter wot, women can never be 100% loyal to u. Its in their dna.

PunkyV:


To talk about girls, right? No problemo. Hit me!

nah. you seem cool that's all. hitting.........

seen it?

iLUMeN8:

nah. you seem cool that's all. hitting.........

seen it?

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PunkyV:


Lol, we have many of those, so I dont remember all the dates but I know the march you're talking about. It was an all-woman gàng báng to the govt, led by Lilian Ngoyi. Wathinta abafazi, wathinta imbokodo. Meaning you strike a woman, you strike a rock. Girl power! Chyeah!

Your spelling of the places is good, btw. I'm impressed

9 August 1956. Just googled it now. That is what I love about your women. They are ambitious, go after what they want but still remain humble. You are go getters but do not let success ruin your humanity

ZeeAfrica:


9 August 1956. Just googled it now. That is what I love about your women. They are ambitious, go after what they want but still remain humble. You are go getters but do not let success ruin your humanity

Awww, that's a nice thing to say. Thanks, hun

PunkyV:


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cool . really don't know how this works am I supposed to receive a notification on my mail

PunkyV:


Awww, that's a nice thing to say. Thanks, hun

but its true babe. M not trying to buy yo face. I have seen how yo women can b well of but still humble. Wen i compare wit other ppl i know, who let money make dem think dey r super humans. I cnt help bt love de humany and de warm reception one gets there. Yo ppl r friendly. I harlde get bad treatment wen m there. Whether its a cashier at de store or just a person on de streets, but in other places i know, client care is nt one of their goals, an humanity is a strange word. I dnt wana name names

iLUMeN8:

cool . really don't know how this works am I supposed to receive a notification on my mail

I'm supposed to reply but I cant right now because my mailbox is "not responding". Will try later. It's probably a network issue.

ZeeAfrica:


but its true babe. M not trying to buy yo face. I have seen how yo women can b well of but still humble. Wen i compare wit other ppl i know, who let money make dem think dey r super humans. I cnt help bt love de humany and de warm reception one gets there. Yo ppl r friendly. I harlde get bad treatment wen m there. Whether its a cashier at de store or just a person on de streets, but in other places i know, client care is nt one of their goals, an humanity is a strange word. I dnt wana name names

Lol, are you sure you're not a South African posing as a Nigerian? NinaNigeria?

Anyway, we indeed are NICE people, in contrary to popular belief that we're hateful & blah blah blah. Yes, there are some who are not so nice, but the majority mind their own business & swallow the bile, so to speak.

PunkyV:


Lol, are you sure you're not a South African posing as a Nigerian? NinaNigeria?

Anyway, we indeed are NICE people, in contrary to popular belief that we're hateful & blah blah blah. Yes, there are some who are not so nice, but the majority mind their own business & swallow the bile, so to speak.

lol, no babe. I am nigerian and i am proud of my heritage. Its just dat i love people and places wer ppl r treated good attract my heart. Actually i am thinking of going in to politics and assist in trying to shape my country. I wana see Nigeria developed and beautiful, since we r de giant of Africa, dat shud show in everything. I admire some of the thinks u ppl do, and i wud very much love implement those here at home. Nigeria is a very beautiful country and wit de right leadership, we can pass south africa

PunkyV:


Lol, are you sure you're not a South African posing as a Nigerian? NinaNigeria?

Anyway, we indeed are NICE people, in contrary to popular belief that we're hateful & blah blah blah. Yes, there are some who are not so nice, but the majority mind their own business & swallow the bile, so to speak.

lol, no babe. I am nigerian and i am proud of my heritage. Its just dat i love people and places wer ppl r treated good attract my heart. Actually i am thinking of going in to politics and assist in trying to shape my country. I wana see Nigeria developed and beautiful, since we r de giant of Africa, dat shud show in everything. I admire some of the thinks u ppl do, and i wud very much love implement those here at home. Nigeria is a very beautiful country and wit de right leadership, we can pass south africa, with most stuff, and i want one of those things to be humanity. I love my country. God i looove Nigeria and i do not regret being born here

ZeeAfrica:


lol, no babe. I am nigerian and i am proud of my heritage. Its just dat i love people and places wer ppl r treated good attract my heart. Actually i am thinking of going in to politics and assist in trying to shape my country. I wana see Nigeria developed and beautiful, since we r de giant of Africa, dat shud show in everything. I admire some of the thinks u ppl do, and i wud very much love implement those here at home. Nigeria is a very beautiful country and wit de right leadership, we can pass south africa, with most stuff, and i want one of those things to be humanity. I love my country. God i looove Nigeria and i do not regret being born here

Hmmm...that's a good vision you have there & I hope it becomes a reality soon. I'm of the belief that everything happens for a reason & that every problem has a solution within it. Take South Africa for an example. We've been through hell & back. One thing positive about the struggle we went through is that it united us as people & gave us one voice. Apartheid is in a long distant past now, but South Africans have not forgotten one bit that unity is power. If we don't like something or our needs are not being met, we will toyi-toyi (march) & shake the country to its foundation. The echo of the footsteps will be heard from the Union Building in Pretoria to the Parliament in Cape Town. We won't rest until we're heard & hear us they always do! IDK, but maybe you guys need a similar MO. Take the beef with the govt to the streets once & for all. Let blood flow if it needs be & if that'll make a positive difference for this or the next generation of your country. Something's gotta give.

PunkyV:


Hmmm...that's a good vision you have there & I hope it becomes a reality soon. I'm of the belief that everything happens for a reason & that every problem has a solution within it. Take South Africa for an example. We've been through hell & back. One thing positive about the struggle we went through is that it united us as people & gave us one voice. Apartheid is in a long distant past now, but South Africans have not forgotten one bit that unity is power. If we don't like something or our needs are not being met, we will toyi-toyi (march) & shake the country to its foundation. The echo of the footsteps will be heard from the Union Building in Pretoria to the Parliament in Cape Town. We won't rest until we're heard & hear us they always do! IDK, but maybe you guys need a similar MO. Take the beef with the govt to the streets once & for all. Let blood flow if it needs be, if that'll make a difference for this or the next generation of your country. Something's gotta give.

all u r saying is true sister, but plzzz dnt talk abt blood shedding. I hate killings with all my heart. There has gat to be a good solution, which does nto involve killing. A life of a person, is nt cheap at all oooooh

ZeeAfrica:


all u r saying is true sister, but plzzz dnt talk abt blood shedding. I hate killings with all my heart. There has gat to be a good solution, which does nto involve killing. A life of a person, is nt cheap at all oooooh

Well true, but a true war is not without its bloodbath. I am South African after all, violence is my 2nd home language

PunkyV:


I'm supposed to reply but I cant right now because my mailbox is "not responding". Will try later. It's probably a network issue.

okay. I'm gon check when I get home. LFC is playing tonight, my evening is going to be quite eventful . cheers.

iLUMeN8:

okay. I'm gon check when I get home. LFC is playing tonight, my evening is going to be quite eventful . cheers.

Ok. Enjoy the rest of your evening

PunkyV:


Well true, but a true war is not without its bloodbath. I am South African after all, violence is my 2nd home language

hehehhe i hope u r not inkatha or eff. Kikiki

PunkyV:


Well true, but a true war is not without its bloodbath. I am South African after all, violence is my 2nd home language

baddoski . well said like the confirmed rudd gal that you are but was it not you I saw jumping over a 60m fence at the sight of an AK47