firstEVA:
Since you are even thinking about it, I believe you should forgive her and go on with the wedding plans.

But truth is, there is tendency for her to cheat again in the future, except she has become a born again fire brand christian or truly understands the marital vows.

diva90:


It is your useless mother that is a HOE and miserable slut! Shameless scum! You are a crazy psychopath for coming at me just because I aired MY OWN OPINION! If you don't agree with what someone has said take a walk or dispute it like an educated individual! Are people not entitled to their opinions? Don't come raging at me like a mad dog! Can you point out one thing wrong in what I said? Or is it now a crime to ask for someone to forgive someone? If tables were turned, do u think the woman wouldn't have forgiven him. Think before you comment! Fool!

Hillzy:

Lolz! Bro am not saying he should just forgive her like dat, but look d op did'nt say wat d order guy said to him, he only say d guy was plain wit him n d money part wich d bae send to him, which clearly we both know there is sometin going on between both of dem, so since d op has listen d part of d order guy he should also sit his financee down n talk to her cos dat nigga charms might just be to strong for her or if possible invite d order guy n let dem have a round table discussion to know where he stand before taking any decision, u too check am na all wat dey might have pass tru be4 he even coming to d point of marriage ehmm bros

Obeenah:

OK o. If you say so. I still don't agree though.

asuustrike2009:

I think you should have a serious talk with her to find out what was her motive. dumping might not be the best solution until you are really convinced beyond reasonable doubt. secondly there's no perfect relationship as you learn everyday, what binds together is love

alobright17:
committing such cheats in marriage is even different from doing it few months,weeks or days before marriage,besides for better for worse rules no dey for dating or relationship.

POWEROFPEACE:
My fiancée took money from me one day only to wire it into another guys account. God so kind, she forgot the teller inside her bag and I saw it. I took the name and brows it on Facebook. I was very honest with the guy during our chats so that he told me the whole truth. I wish to quit the relationship even though she is begging but I don't know if that is the right decision because I will be 35 years in just few days from now. Your quality advice might just give way to meaning, Please.

Trendishine:
u ar such a mumu, when u get ur own fiance or if u have, do it like that...u dnt even have love 4 urself, or even feel 4 urself... no be only bind, na stapler. . na ur type dey see woman, dey mumu..... u lots are so funny and akward here..kai..

POWEROFPEACE:
My fiancée took money from me one day only to wire it into another guys account. God so kind, she forgot the teller inside her bag and I saw it. I took the name and brows it on Facebook. I was very honest with the guy during our chats so that he told me the whole truth. I wish to quit the relationship even though she is begging but I don't know if that is the right decision because I will be 35 years in just few days from now. Your quality advice might just give way to meaning, Please.

bauer00:
I think you already know the answer.There is no assurance that she will or won't do that again,so why take the risk.Marriage is a lifetime agreement unless you are planning otherwise because if you go ahead with the wedding,you won't trust her,any slight change in her behaviour or actions will trigger you to start making assumptions....its a time bomb,defuse it now that you stil can.

Avalon316:
Sack the hoe.

Avalon316:
Sack the hoe.

ceejay4real:


Gbam! I don't know why he's dilly dallying. Anyway, if it were me the relationship wld have ended the day I got clarification from the other guy. Period!

iAmCharis:
There are some set of people I feel very little pity for when their marriages are in shambles - those that saw red flags before tying the knot and ignored it.

Op, use your brain.

Alezy:
Am great. hope u had a great day too.

Been seeing ur comments. u really enjoying urself out here.

AngelAhnie:
Good morning Lex

Alezy:
morning Angel...trust u had a warm night rest.

robosky02:
what going on here

400billionman:


Guy its difficult when one has no other option.

Its like dating for 5 long years and then 5 months to wedding, babe come cheat. You don invest like N500k for her life. Wetin you go do ?

Note that it could take up to 2 years to locate someone who fits 80% of your marital criteria.

POWEROFPEACE:
My fiancée took money from me one day only to wire it into another guys account. God so kind, she forgot the teller inside her bag and I saw it. I took the name and brows it on Facebook. I was very honest with the guy during our chats so that he told me the whole truth. I wish to quit the relationship even though she is begging but I don't know if that is the right decision because I will be 35 years in just few days from now. Your quality advice might just give way to meaning, Please.

Mskrisx:




Honey dear, can you please call your woman and ask her the reason she sent him that money

1.. Could be that this guy in question wants to black mail her.
2.. Could be a guy she still has something for,he asked her for some help and she felt she needs to do it.
3.. Could they are dating but she knows they can't get because of either finance,look or something.
4.. Could one of those silly things ladies do.

My guy, that thing she did is wrong at all levels. But call her and talk to her..this babe na your wife to be oo


What do I know sef

SweetieConstie:
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DedeNkem:


Dump her as*s now? Some cheaters find it hard to change and some care to change.

Don't marry simply because of your age or marry out of sympathy! Marry a woman because both of you love each other and are also faithful to each other.

A person who really loves you won't cheat on you. That's the truth! Your woman is cheater and she doesn't love you. She loves the guy she gives your money to. That's one of the dark sides of a bad relationship.

I know because I had the same experience when I was in school, but on the other guy's side. I was in a relationship with a girl who was also dating a rich guy.

I didn't love her so didn't mind because she was keeping me financially comfortable with the guy's money. And she loved me more than the rich guy.

So dump her now while you can! A cheater can't be trusted! She's begging you now because she was caught!

Lamor:
What I'll advice u to do is ask her bout her relationship with the other guy.She may nt necessarily be cheating.She could just have rendered help.If shez nt able to give you a satisfactory answer,then you can call it QUIT.But I doubt shez cheating especially now dat shez few months away from her wedding.

omauchay:
please I beg u...dont be one sided..u have heard from the guy...hear from your fiancee before u make any decisions...I know u myt feel you already have ur facts but still ask ur fiancee questions first..speaking from xperience, I have had facts some time but I listened to a one sided talk and judged from there..uptill now, I still regret it.my opinion bros

Olufemiolaolu:
Honestly speaking she doesnt love you 1 bit. Relationship without d network of love ll just lead 2 automatic playing of games just like phone without network. Its left 4 u 2 decide ok. She's probably dating u becos u can pay her bills.

Odunharry:

Lol. true. Even in marriage cheating isn't allowed..