clevvermind:
why would you want to buy a car without testing it?

foolinlove:
Agreed. But de guy will just get it from everyone else anyway.

foolinlove:
Agreed. But de guy will just get it from everyone else anyway.

tylerbraid:
hey, can u support your last post & this with any moral backing? Yes, Sex was designed by God to be interesting & refreshing but only to create bond btwn married Couples. Its not meant for unmarried & divorced couples, God doesn't support there sexual bonds which opens door for the devil to access such couples. Stop leading people astray here cos of obvious perversion. If you're a christain read 1cor 6 & 7. It will speak wisdom to u

clevvermind:
why would you want to buy a car without testing it?

Olabestonic001:


Well, I probably belong to the school of thoughts that presumes men are not slaves of passions but Masters of Destinies.
First, just because you are "deeply" in love does not make you married to anyone. Marriage is a decision and not a feeling or psyche. Hence, till you do the right thing on any lady (or on the man- as in the case of Indian Culture), you ain't marry to that person. Marriage is sacred and not the Political Correctness of the Western Culture.
Two, granted that we are Sexual Being and cultural evolution has ensured we chase "things" and thereby prolonged Marital Age, but the greatest virtue of humanity is Self-control and for a youth, there's no better means of testing our self-control than in our sexual lives. Plus, the baggage of sex outside marriage is too much as jealousy will always perpetuate itself with your fiance or fiancee. My fiance does not get worked up (under any guise or not) in my relationship with ladies neither do I get jealous about her with any guy. She reasoned and rationale that if I can't attempt such with her despite our closeness, it will be strange for me to be a beast with another lady.
In pursuit of a Pure life, one must shun sexual promiscuity and live a life devoid of folly and rancor. A sexually chaste life is one of such components. To be Sexual Chaste is a blessing and honor to GOD.

telemapreye1:
It's prevent us from unwanted pregnancy,std,hiv and so on

foolinlove:


Because they're manipulators, liars, cheats and thieves.

kingkakaone:

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BoiledPlantain:
In this days of sexual waywardness & promiscuity there are alot of benefits that one should note,of no sex before marriage; and I'll like to point out some to save some few.

1.Hiv
Well today we have more people living with HIV than we had in the time past due to information/vaccines. Abstinence will prevent you from communing such diseases/virus as this.Cuz in the case of marriage, tests are carried out before consummation but casual relationships are based on beliefs and one could have lied about their status.

2.Break Ups
It is easier to walk out of a relationship with no sexual interaction,than one which has;and that's very true, especially for the ladies .
My cousin once lost the guy she was supposed to marry,she cried for many nights but she moved on more quickly since there was nothing physical between them.So for the sake of a safe heart you might want to abstain.

3.Sampling
This one is more for the guys,once a guy starts having sex before marriage there's tendency he might want to test all waters before marriage,leading him to a dip abyss.My friend lost his virginity to his girlfriend last year,to cut the long story he's turned to something else since then.

4.Less Cases
You hear cases of rape and sexual abuses every day.If only these people where practising abstinence,there would have certainly been a reduction of such cases.

5.Marriage complications/Divorce
The truth is those who held it till marriage are more likely to have less complicated marriage as opposed to their fellow contemporaries.
When there's abstinence there's trust because you believe if she isn't giving in to you;she certainly isn't giving it to someone else. Although a cheat is a cheat whether they are giving it to you or not; but genuine abstaining partners build much trust on fidelity with their spouse.

When one abstains before marriage he/she as no room to compare their partners sexual prowess with their ex's there by reducing sexual tension."No man wants you to compare him with you ex no matter what" hence this does alot of salvaging since you have no one to compare him to.

6.Draws you closer to God
Take it or leave it those who abstain are more likely to get closer to God. It doesn't make them better than you,but certainly helps them in their walk; Since they are hardly thinking about sex unlike you.

7.You save Money
Sounds silly right,but morning after pills and sexual preventives don't come in cheap especially flavoured condoms.

8.True Love
It is very easy to find your true love when there's no sexual relationship. Most times when sex is introduced in premarital relationships it clouds your judgement to be able to see things " the way they are" most especially for the ladies.

9.Prevents death
Most ladies die while trying to do an abortion,but abstinence will prevent such; also alot of innocent babies that are killed and dumped into the bin,would have been saved.

10.Helps you focus

11.Make's you respectful


You can add yours


(C)Boiled Plantain 2016

Arsenate:
young ladies like you always make the wrong the decisions when it comes to dating because of your poor choices. I can bet my Arsenal Jersey that genuinely nice guys with good intentions have come your way but only to get snubbed by you. They probably don't have enough swags, looks, height and all the other BS.
You made the poor choices yourself. No one put a gun to your head. Live with the consequences and stop disturbing the peace of the Cyber world.

Flashh:
Even hoes up there who takes sex as their favorite sport are saying no sex.

amiibaby:
Nice write up....team no sex till I say I DO

ajalawole:
;Dme and my girlfriend just break up last week, when she says no sex untill our wedding. The worst part is that she is not a virgin

R0LL0N:
Thanks for the post. Abstinence has been a great help to me.... looking forward to my wedding night....... cant wait to enjoy what my parent has been enjoying....

MVLOX:


So true.... I and my fiancé are both virgins, we don't really have a lot of money par say but our relationship is such a stand out dat pple use use us a example of wat a relationship should be...... #TEAMabstinence ......And yes one oda benefit is that u practically can walk into an government hospital any day any time and do an HIV test without any fear or doubt....lol

Sermwell:
Excluding you abi? Continue

Quite hilarious

Pandorabox:
The benefits of abstinence can never be overemphasized.

foolinlove:


Because they're manipulators, liars, cheats and thieves.

femi4:
Why would you want to go on a journey with a car not fully paid for