Demol09:
Who abstainance don epp. Abeg swerve jhor.

LadyBeee:
You have not met someone who made sex feel so pure, sweet and lovely. As a mature adult, I ll rather have sex with the right partner to my fill than abstain till I'm old when sex no longer appeals to me

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Demol09:
Who abstainance don epp. Abeg swerve jhor.

Supermansteve:

Good evening ma, one question-are you married? The purest form of lovemaking/sex/intercourse is between a man(husband) and woman(wife). Aside that, nothing else if pure/sweet or lovely about premarital sex. You being a matured lady doesn't mean you're right.

goodfornothing:
Total crap! The only disadvantage in having sex before marriage is fucking and failing to marry in the end. Fucking before marriage should be encouraged so that partners should have full knowledge of whom they want to spend the rest of their life with.

LadyBeee:
well, I'm not married but I get the urge, it gets so crazy that I end up masturbating. Now, which is worse? Masturbation or formication? Not that I don't want to be married though, just that I haven't met my husband. I am in my thirties already

LadyBeee:
well, I'm not married but I get the urge, it gets so crazy that I end up masturbating. Now, which is worse? Masturbation or formication? Not that I don't want to be married though, just that I haven't met my husband. I am in my thirties already

Fairgodwin:
All of these I agree with. May God in His infinite mercy and grace keep giving us the grace to abide with all of these and much more.
The best in my opinion, is the fact that it draws you closer to God - it strengthens the relationship between you and God so much so that you get to be so filled with the spirit of God.
Your spiritual gifts starts coming to the fore and you see yourself manifesting things even beyond your imagination.
God above all else, amen!

BoneBlogger:
I dont blame people who fornicate, it hereditary..When your father bang so many girls before marrying your mother..Your mother bang so many guys before marrying your father..Your father and mother bang so many times before marrying, tell me why you they wont produce immoral and sexually filthy children who will in turn spread the trait.

Sex before marriage can never help you.

kulikuli26:
I'm currently battling with No 2. She is just 19yrs, known her since she was 14 but decided to break up with her due to some deeply personal stuffs, trust me, heaven is about to drop on me. Everyone is calling for my head. I have never had sex or collected a dime from her, instead I spent quite good on her but to everyone I'm the wicked one.

Supermansteve:


I understand, I said in an earlier comment that I was into premarital sex/fornication and I stopped,now I'm celibate. I remember, a few months into celibacy, I was always having wet dreams every night and gradually it stopped. The mind Is powerful, be careful of what you feed your mind even the bible says "guide your heart/mind with all deligence for out of it comes the issues of life. My point being, I stopped watching porn,sexting,buying adult magazines etc. I feed my mind with positive stuff and now i have a greater control over my sexual urges because they are still there. You can over anything,there's no excuse really

tomdon:



OK give it to him naa. mcheeew
once a lady looses her virginity, her pride is gone, the struggle then begins.
its much better you don't give him, if he wants you enough to give you the ring, oya bring it, if not let him gbera! byeeeee

Dugozpweeti:




Flash my bae's boo... I love u 2 venus and straight to pluto

I don't even understand what you meant.

oodua1stson:
when a guy with money(I'm not talking about chicken change ooo) jam that your girl you're forever dine for. He will fxck her as he pleases and she will dumo your broke arse

LadyBeee:
really? Then pray to God to give me my husband

foolinlove:


Because they're manipulators, liars, cheats and thieves.

foolinlove:


Because they're manipulators, liars, cheats and thieves.

BoiledPlantain:
In this days of sexual waywardness & promiscuity there are alot of benefits that one should note,of no sex before marriage; and I'll like to point out some to save some few.

1.Hiv
Well today we have more people living with HIV than we had in the time past due to information/vaccines. Abstinence will prevent you from communing such diseases/virus as this.Cuz in the case of marriage, tests are carried out before consummation but casual relationships are based on beliefs and one could have lied about their status.

2.Break Ups
It is easier to walk out of a relationship with no sexual interaction,than one which has;and that's very true, especially for the ladies .
My cousin once lost the guy she was supposed to marry,she cried for many nights but she moved on more quickly since there was nothing physical between them.So for the sake of a safe heart you might want to abstain.

3.Sampling
This one is more for the guys,once a guy starts having sex before marriage there's tendency he might want to test all waters before marriage,leading him to a dip abyss.My friend lost his virginity to his girlfriend last year,to cut the long story he's turned to something else since then.

4.Less Cases
You hear cases of rape and sexual abuses every day.If only these people where practising abstinence,there would have certainly been a reduction of such cases.

5.Marriage complications/Divorce
The truth is those who held it till marriage are more likely to have less complicated marriage as opposed to their fellow contemporaries.
When there's abstinence there's trust because you believe if she isn't giving in to you;she certainly isn't giving it to someone else. Although a cheat is a cheat whether they are giving it to you or not; but genuine abstaining partners build much trust on fidelity with their spouse.

When one abstains before marriage he/she as no room to compare their partners sexual prowess with their ex's there by reducing sexual tension."No man wants you to compare him with you ex no matter what" hence this does alot of salvaging since you have no one to compare him to.

6.Draws you closer to God
Take it or leave it those who abstain are more likely to get closer to God. It doesn't make them better than you,but certainly helps them in their walk; Since they are hardly thinking about sex unlike you.

7.You save Money
Sounds silly right,but morning after pills and sexual preventives don't come in cheap especially flavoured condoms.

8.True Love
It is very easy to find your true love when there's no sexual relationship. Most times when sex is introduced in premarital relationships it clouds your judgement to be able to see things " the way they are" most especially for the ladies.

9.Prevents death
Most ladies die while trying to do an abortion,but abstinence will prevent such; also alot of innocent babies that are killed and dumped into the bin,would have been saved.

10.Helps you focus

11.Make's you respectful


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foolinlove:


Because they're manipulators, liars, cheats and thieves.