coolsix:
Marriage is not by force.

Make una go sleep. Who marriage epp?

I am not saying people should not get married but its a thing of choice stop making people feel bad about themselves simply because they refused to get married. Different strokes for different folks. I wonder what this thread is supposed to mean

coolsix:
Marriage is not by force.

Make una go sleep. Who marriage epp?

I am not saying people should not get married but its a thing of choice stop making people feel bad about themselves simply because they refused to get married. Different strokes for different folks. I wonder what this thread is supposed to mean

Bioboy1213:
thought they use to say its part of God,s plan nii

Trina0936:

My sister as I never save enough money to use rent house nko??
Abeg I fit squat with you? Where you dey first make I know??

Trina0936:

My sister as I never save enough money to use rent house nko??
Abeg I fit squat with you? Where you dey first make I know??

amokeme:
a joke

opad22u:
Marry and end up divorcing in a short time or stay in it UNHÄPPY abi.

katyeee:
tired of NL

steph2sweet:
Hahaha, i had fun while reading this.

photoshoot:
6. When you do something they like, they tie it to marriage




“Just continue like this, you will soon have your own home.”

Lovely @ OP.

Cherlene

Cherlene:


Lovely @ OP.

Cherlene

photoshoot:

Hello, why?

katyeee:
no reason my dear

photoshoot:

Hmm, if you say so. I could use your help Kate..

katyeee:
what help

Slimberry1:


Come n squat now...
But the bed be two n half inches hope u wl manage??

DandyWalker:
I agree with u. marriage is a choice. But anybody that won't get married should not bother having children as well. It would b a great injustice to a child to be brought by a single parent.

Trina0936:

I have seen kids grow up to be worse in a normal home with two parents! It's all about teaching the right values and principles!!
What about widows and widowers who lost their spouses and never wish to remarry again??
No one knows tomorrow!

DandyWalker:
Those instances u sited are just circumstantial and unfortunate. Every child should b given the opportunity to be nurtured by both parents. It doesn't automatically mean he/she would turn out good, just like it's not everybody that is educated that would turn out rich, after all some illiterates are billionaires. But everybody should still be educated.

Trina0936:

Exactly my point! Don't make it seem we are owners of our destinies! Sometimes life happens,but one has to move on! That's the case here,bro

DandyWalker:
smiles. Fine, life is full of uncertainties , but we still have to give it our best shot. Again, never short-change a child , give him or her the benefit of having both parents available, then let nature/destiny take its course.

Trina0936:

No one is short-changing anyone. At least not intentionally! I believe a happy child can only be raised by a happy parent(s). If being single makes one happy, why should one short-change that??

DandyWalker:
It's OK, I agree with you. There are instances where divorce is inevitable, and in that case, the parties involved have no choice. But what I'm particularly against is the trending baby mama/papa syndrome. To me, it amounts to being selfish. one is only thinking about himself/herself alone and not the children. Every child deserves to live with both parents that bore him/her.

Trina0936:

So you prefer they abort the child than have it?? Even if it was a mistake or not??

DandyWalker:
So they didn't know it could result into pregnancy before doing it unprotected? It's only in rape cases that having a baby without planning for it is justified. See, most people just want to have babies for the sake of it. These babies do not beg anybody to bring them forth! I insist that children deserve to have both parents available to them, except of course, in cases of divorce , death and rape. They deserve the warmth of family togetherness . That is my point.

Trina0936:

Oga,you really need to research and read more on condoms and contraceptives. Its even written on d body of most condoms -' not 100% effective'.
I am not against you but only telling you that mistakes happen which people never planned for. And its better they keep the babies and be single parents than abort!
#mytwocents

DandyWalker:
Well, let's not derail. Mistakes do occur, I agree. But remember my original position was that anybody that is not planning to get married should not bother having children. Mistakes, divorce, death, rape are different issues entirely. Even in the case of the so-called mistakes, I am not an advocate of pre-marital intimacy, but let's not discuss that. Some people don't want to get to married, yet they want to have children .That's what I am against. Period.

Trina0936:

Remember though that change is constant and someone can decide to change their stand on not getting married depending on several factors.
All the same it is well,I totally get your point sir!
Ok but hope you are a virgin sha!
Pls don't mind me,happy Sunday!