y we wont get angry, u knw the expectations, the preparations and d hopes we don get and do b4. Thinking u will come, only to turn it down. Am aving same issues ryt now tooo. And the thing dey vex me seriously.

Der is nothing bad abt change of plan if u guys understand urself but in most cases wen u do cum up with flimsy xcuse. My dear u wil got serve, same thing is happening to mi now and am dame crazy abt her xcuse coz d xcuse isn't cogent enuf.

predatorX:


you're very rational and best response so far.


Number 2 says sex is a factor but Number one says companionship is paramount, and if a lady can not guarantee number one, then "he should find another" like you said!!!

And I thought I was blabbering...... there really is sense in nonsense!

mine was not even on weekend


I remembered I suffered and prepared rice and stew with fried chicken just for her to tell me she isn't coming anymore.....sh***t

that day my best friend was very happy because..........Lols


u know the rest

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Aha! Why the guy no go vex? You fine like dis expect say the Manny go just calm. No vex, I nor fit calm o.

Checked86:
You can turn me down a day before or even that same day but not when I call you with my phone. How to turn my invitation down without me being angry: (1) Do it 2days or at most a day before the D-day (2) Be the one to call me or text me for the change of plan NOT when I call you to ask you where you are(hoping you are already on your way), you start telling me how aunt and her husband visited and insisted you take them to your grandmother's house (3) the next date will be fixed by you, and you alone.

I agree with u totally with no 3 as an exception
I could fix d date again.that would be a problem.

Girlfriend that cant spend d weekend at his boyfriend place.... Is that one a gal friend?..... Op... At my age.... I dnt answer stupiid questionx

#Galas

vex ke? na she go beg to visit me next time

Op it depends on the emotional maturity of the guy.

Only faithful guys get mad at that.. Not niggahz with many plans, who her kumn or not dun epp sef......

why will she turn down his request but if the guy turndown her request for money,she will say the guy is stingy

sekxy:

is ur gf a fucking machine cos she visits every weekend?

Speaking from the voice of the owner of the magic warned store in the movie harry potter ...I WONDER ....

Checked86:
You can turn me down a day before or even that same day but not when I call you with my phone. How to turn my invitation down without me being angry: (1) Do it 2days or at most a day before the D-day (2) Be the one to call me or text me for the change of plan NOT when I call you to ask you where you are(hoping you are already on your way), you start telling me how aunt and her husband visited and insisted you take them to your grandmother's house (3) the next date will be fixed by you, and you alone.

Gentleman

Sunnymatey:
A guy needs be angry if the girl's reason is not so convincing.

evn whn its reasonable the guy go stil vex, i happened to sit wit a lady in a taxi the other day whn her fone rang, she picked and from their conversation the boy ask her to cum to his house, the lady said she cant come that her dad is ill n she needs to go get him drugs rush bck to the house n be wit him, the kind anger the boy carry end the call ehn.

Trina0936:

And I thought I was blabbering...... there really is sense in nonsense!

Maybe, maybe not. It takes someone operating on a higher carrier wave to understand blabbering. And I did see the SENSE in the BLABBER.

Well they could be in their periods, and might be ashamed to tell their man,so that is the only excuse to me that can pass. Or she isn't too comforable getting it, one things guys have to realize is that you should make your woman comfortable, when she is given assurance of comfort, trust me, she will be your hoe and pornstaRr at the same time

taryur:

I agree with u totally with no 3 as an exception
I could fix d date again.that would be a problem.

When a girl disappoints me I do think may be I imposed date on her. When such happens, I prefer asking the girl one word question, "SO?" With that she will tell me when she will be free for me. That is why included the number 3.

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Cant just remember the last time i ever invited a lady to come spend weekend with me, cant even try it under this present economic meltdown. The other time when a lady i once assisted disturbed me that she wants to pay me a visit and i obliged, the visit turned out to be a nightmare for me. She came in full hijab forming holy, refusing i even sit near her talkless of touching her and yet disturbed me with per minute calls. She simply extorted from me and vamoosed.
So ladies, when a man invites you to come over for a weekend and insist you make it, just have it at the back of your mind that na your body go suffer.

guys can get angry over little things @times cos they are generally egoistic in nature and you declining @ the wrong time makes them even more angrier... I do go to his place, explain to him not over the phone... even if he is angry, you going there alone shows he mean something to you and acknowledge him just that you can't make it and I tell you his anger will subside

Think its got to do with ego...feels crushed wen d request iz turned down....d xtent to wh guys react to dis iz individual

Trina0936:
Two things are involved,
1. He loves her and has no other
2. He wants sex and has no other








#bottomline is He should find another as usual!

so you are comfortable if ur man has a side chick beside you

delishpot:


Is she your property to appear any time you demand so?she musnt have convincing excuse before she is allowed to say I can't come. She is human and deserves her own right to choice Na.

Already claiming right.

Hope when you want to come and he says DONT COME, you will respect his choice and not ask questions ?

Why form busy when you are not ? Most of you ladies dont know the essence of love. Such that some of you go as far as demanding money before you sleep with your boyfriends. Wayward mentality. If you are actually independent like you think, then what do you need a boyfriend for ?

PastorAji:
so you are comfortable if ur man has a side chick beside you

What should I do?? Kill him?? For all he knows,I could also have a side-man! Mtchewwww!

some guys gat zero chill #

That thing dey pain walai


You wont think of any other stuff thru out dat weekend

You will be watching match...... And be seeing ur babe face....

Ul just be lik oh why dis gal no come..... Chai

personally, I think the anger comes up when she can't make it, and makes no attempt to let him know. its annoying to plan your day around someone showing up, only for the person to flake on you without any notification.

vicstar:
OP you must be a weekend material no offense

Lol. .nope sir

But Seriously, is this a Topic?