sekxy:
why do guys act this way when their girlfriends or lover turn their invitation down
I'm yet to understand why some guys get so angry when they invite their girlfriend to spend weekend with them and it happens that their invitation was turned down because of one reason or the other

Cutehector:
Doing dat is just like a girl using her money to cook her boyfriend's favorite soup and he tells her he isn't eating anymore.



Op, now I want to ask u one question. Will u jubilate over such development?



Ur guess is as good as mine. Now stfu and close this thread!

Edybleketara:
Yup.. Daats dd fact.. How u doin??

sekxy:
why do guys act this way when their girlfriends or lover turn their invitation down
I'm yet to understand why some guys get so angry when they invite their girlfriend to spend weekend with them and it happens that their invitation was turned down because of one reason or the other

Checked86:
You can turn me down a day before or even that same day but not when I call you with my phone. How to turn my invitation down without me being angry: (1) Do it 2days or at most a day before the D-day (2) Be the one to call me or text me for the change of plan NOT when I call you to ask you where you are(hoping you are already on your way), you start telling me how aunt and her husband visited and insisted you take them to your grandmother's house (3) the next date will be fixed by you, and you alone.

400billionman:


Already claiming right.

Hope when you want to come and he says DONT COME, you will respect his choice and not ask questions ?

Why form busy when you are not ? Most of you ladies dont know the essence of love. Such that some of you go as far as demanding money before you sleep with your boyfriends. Wayward mentality. If you are actually independent like you think, then what do you need a boyfriend for ?

Checked86:
You can turn me down a day before or even that same day but not when I call you with my phone. How to turn my invitation down without me being angry: (1) Do it 2days or at most a day before the D-day (2) Be the one to call me or text me for the change of plan NOT when I call you to ask you where you are(hoping you are already on your way), you start telling me how aunt and her husband visited and insisted you take them to your grandmother's house (3) the next date will be fixed by you, and you alone.

calliope:

I'm good ooo, na exams dey humble me
Came around ya faculty today tho.. Hup you Good too?

Sunnymatey:
A guy needs be angry if the girl's reason is not so convincing.

izsmike:
Do u knw wat it means for a guy to invite his gf over for d weekend.. It means he's got d whole weekend planned out and he wants to feature her in it. And den she turns him down... Ruined d whole weekend. It's enough reason for him to get mad na

delishpot:


Is she your property to appear any time you demand so?she musnt have convincing excuse before she is allowed to say I can't come. She is human and deserves her own right to choice Na.

icedbeatz:
Here we go again, who's talking about property here or trash like that? if you agree to be someone's lover or partner it comes with its peks, responsibilities, joy, fun, and most importantly being there for them when they need you if you can't be there for them why be with them smh, you grab them tight and tell them how much you you love them and yet can do something as much as being there for them or try to explain why you can't make it instead of taking the I'm not your property route like you guys are in a civil right war or something. This your opinion is not nice dear, hope you're not like this to your partner though.

Edybleketara:
Only kids do dat

harlayoh:
guys can get angry over little things @times cos they are generally egoistic in nature and you declining @ the wrong time makes them even more angrier... I do go to his place, explain to him not over the phone... even if he is angry, you going there alone shows he mean something to you and acknowledge him just that you can't make it and I tell you his anger will subside

sekxy:

lol..but that's not why u should be angry at the lady..sometimes issues may just come up that she may have no choice than to backslide

carmag:

Tell us who invited you..

I suspect chop and clean mouth

pepigeorge:


Most women get everything wrong..... u refuse to come d weekend and u don't want the guy to get other plans....

thurs:
guy: babe plz show this weekend am missing u badly
Gal: honey I will see wot I can do but am not promising u.
Friday:
Guy: my baby shei u are still coming today
gal: honey am sorry, sth just came up, I can't mk it this weekend.
Guy: ok no problem.
she will call 6pm, 9pm, 11pm, 1am 3am 6am...
wen u dont pick the call they conclude u are angry...

Na only poor man dey vex wen him babe free am for the weekend. ...

BlackMbakara1:
@ OP: How would you feel if a guy does that to you few minutes to when you guys were suppose to meet? Lemme guess? Smile and move on after 3 hours of heavy and light makeup abi?

sekxy:

u sound like a player

HeavenlyBang:
It's annoying as fűck. Happened to me yesterday. After cleaning up my place, taking 200mg of tramadol and doing 100+ push-ups so my small muscles are bulging, the mumu girl says she's doing assignment and can't come. Bros, the combination of pushup and tramadol is very good for sěx, but if you're not doing anything it messes up your entire system. I just be like dead man that yesterday night. So tell me, why I nor go vex?

Anyway, I don't ask twice. When she wants it she'll be the one to start calling, and I'll make her beg for it.

pepigeorge:


Am just being realistic. ....the bf dat is never angry wenever u refuse his invitation always has a backup plans...drinking with guys and ending up in clubs and wen u get high......gals are always there at ur beck and call for small change . lol

CONTROLi:
WHAT DO YOU EXPECT WHEN YOU KEEP DATING IMMATURE GUYS /MUMMY'S BOYS?? UNLESS MAYBE YOU'RE NOT TELLING US THE WHOLE TRUTH OR YOU'RE AN IDLE LADY WHO SITS AT HOME 24/7 WATCHING TV, MAYBE THAT'S WHY THE GUYS EXPECTS YOU TO APPEAR WHENEVER THEY CALL.. IF NOT, THEN...................

sekxy:

lol @ heavy and light make up

BlackMbakara1:

Still tell us how u will feel...

CONTROLi:
WHAT DO YOU EXPECT WHEN YOU KEEP DATING IMMATURE GUYS /MUMMY'S BOYS?? UNLESS MAYBE YOU'RE NOT TELLING US THE WHOLE TRUTH OR YOU'RE AN IDLE LADY WHO SITS AT HOME 24/7 WATCHING TV, MAYBE THAT'S WHY THE GUYS EXPECTS YOU TO APPEAR WHENEVER THEY CALL.. IF NOT, THEN...................

sekxy:

stop generalizing..that's what u do#simple#

icedbeatz:
Not just him my dear, if your bf doesn't get pissed a little for such or similar actions then hahahahahaha the girl is just a hole for his DK operations and nothing more rather less or he has a legit back up shawty named matter that is ready and willing to get down and occupy her space.

calliope:

I'm good ooo, na exams dey humble me
Came around ya faculty today tho.. Hup you Good too?

peterphd:

Hey, where do you school?